{"id":10163,"date":"2021-07-01T23:50:34","date_gmt":"2021-07-01T20:50:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=10163"},"modified":"2021-07-01T23:58:12","modified_gmt":"2021-07-01T20:58:12","slug":"vaikai-nenori-buti-apriboti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/vaikai-nenori-buti-apriboti\/","title":{"rendered":"VAIKAI NENORI B\u016aTI APRIBOTI"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Vaikai nenori b\u016bti apriboti jokiais b\u016bdais. Ir tai problema. K\u0105 su jais daryti? Kaip tinkamai paruo\u0161ti gyvenimui?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nesinori ,,\u0161okin\u0117ti\u201d paskui visus vaiko norus, bet ir neturime gi patalpinti juos \u012f nam\u0173 kal\u0117jim\u0105. Kaip visk\u0105 \u010dia teisingai suderinti, kad pad\u0117ti vaikui atrasti kas jis yra ir vystyti save?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Viskas, kas supa m\u016bs\u0173 vaikus yra j\u0173 aplinkos, kurios juos formuoja. Pats lengviausias variantas b\u016bt\u0173 sukurti aplink\u0105, palaikan\u010di\u0105 tinkamus r\u0117mus vaikams jau nuo pirm\u0173 dien\u0173, o jau po 20-ties met\u0173 jie bus \u017emon\u0117mis, tur\u0117s daugiau laisv\u0117s ir \u017einos k\u0105 su ja daryti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ta\u010diau t\u0117vai \u0161iandien to nesukuria. Neturi galimyb\u0117s atsakingai filtruoti vaik\u0173 aplinkas, sukurti ir palaikyti r\u0117\u017eimo vaikams. Vaikai nem\u0117gsta j\u0173, o t\u0117vams tr\u016bksta \u017eini\u0173, laiko ar net noro su tuo dirbti. Negana to, mes, suaug\u0119, patys i\u0161mokome vaikus gyventi ,,laisvai\u201d: leid\u017eiame jiems pramogauti, girtuokliauti ir pan. Skatiname vaikus tik\u0117ti, kad jo ,,A\u0161\u201d yra pasaulio centras, kad jis &#8211; pats vertingiausias, daug vertingesnis u\u017e kitus. Aukl\u0117jime labai tr\u016bksta s\u0105moningumo, suvokimo kokiam pasauliui mes ruo\u0161iame vaikus, k\u0105 jie duos visuomenei, kaip gyvens. Nuolaid\u017eiaudami gal ir pelnime j\u0173 simpatijas, ta\u010diau asmenyb\u0117 negali vystytis jeigu neturi ai\u0161ki\u0173 rib\u0173 aplink save, ne\u017eino kas yra bausm\u0117 ir apdovanojimas, kad jo neigiami veiksmai atne\u0161a ir neigiamas pasekmes. Gyvenimas turi savo taisykles, kurias vaikai turi \u017einoti dabar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Taigi, vaikus turi supti tinkama aplinka, kuri mokyt\u0173 juos tinkam\u0173 vertybi\u0173, skatint\u0173 laikytis tam tikr\u0173 \u012fsipareigojim\u0173, atsakomybi\u0173. Tai ir yra r\u0117\u017eimas, kuris tiesiog reikalingas jau nuo pirm\u0173j\u0173 dien\u0173, kad \u0161velniai apribot\u0173 vaiko prigimt\u012f, nukreipt\u0173 tinkama linkme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kai vaikui sueis 10-12 met\u0173 &#8211; t\u0117vai jau nebebus vaiko aplinka ir visa, k\u0105 tuos metus k\u016br\u0117me &#8211; organizavome aplink j\u012f (draugai, veiklos, mokykla) taps jo asmenyb\u0117s skulptoriai. Manau tikrai verta pasistengti d\u0117l geresn\u0117s vis\u0173 ateities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"820\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/drasos.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2808\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/drasos.jpg 820w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/drasos-300x132.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/drasos-768x337.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 820px) 100vw, 820px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Vaikai nenori b\u016bti apriboti jokiais b\u016bdais. Ir tai problema. K\u0105 su jais daryti? Kaip tinkamai paruo\u0161ti gyvenimui? Nesinori ,,\u0161okin\u0117ti\u201d paskui visus vaiko norus, bet ir neturime gi patalpinti juos \u012f nam\u0173 kal\u0117jim\u0105. Kaip visk\u0105 \u010dia teisingai suderinti, kad pad\u0117ti vaikui atrasti kas jis yra ir vystyti save? Viskas, kas supa m\u016bs\u0173 vaikus yra j\u0173 aplinkos, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":10155,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[42],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10163","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-vaiku-auklejimas-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/4f4579c7-7b99-4951-890a-6b685d480dbf-1.jpg",800,400,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/4f4579c7-7b99-4951-890a-6b685d480dbf-1-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/4f4579c7-7b99-4951-890a-6b685d480dbf-1-300x150.jpg",300,150,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/4f4579c7-7b99-4951-890a-6b685d480dbf-1-768x384.jpg",768,384,true],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/4f4579c7-7b99-4951-890a-6b685d480dbf-1.jpg",800,400,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/4f4579c7-7b99-4951-890a-6b685d480dbf-1.jpg",800,400,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/4f4579c7-7b99-4951-890a-6b685d480dbf-1.jpg",800,400,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Vaikai nenori b\u016bti apriboti jokiais b\u016bdais. Ir tai problema. K\u0105 su jais daryti? Kaip tinkamai paruo\u0161ti gyvenimui? Nesinori ,,\u0161okin\u0117ti\u201d paskui visus vaiko norus, bet ir neturime gi patalpinti juos \u012f nam\u0173 kal\u0117jim\u0105. Kaip visk\u0105 \u010dia teisingai suderinti, kad pad\u0117ti vaikui atrasti kas jis yra ir vystyti save? 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