Kelet\u0105 dien\u0173 negaliu pamir\u0161ti pokalbio su viena \u0161eima. Jie dalinosi savo patirtimi su paaugliu s\u016bnumi, kurio, pana\u0161u, niekas \u0161iame gyvenime nebedomina.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Man buvo labai \u012fdomu i\u0161girsti j\u0173 paie\u0161kas, patirt\u012f, paai\u0161kinimus, atradimus. Juk vien\u0105 dien\u0105 ir mano vaikai persijungs \u012f ka\u017ekok\u012f kitok\u012f r\u0117\u017eim\u0105\u2026 ir ne\u017einai kok\u012f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Paaugliai paklausti ko jie tikisi i\u0161 gyvenimo, ko siekia da\u017enai atsako, kad nenori nieko. Ar tai depresija? Ar tikrai jie nieko nenori?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jie nori, tik ne to, kuo mes gyvename. Pasirodo \u0161iandien t\u0117vai paaugliams negali duoti to, ko jiems i\u0161 tikro reikia. Mes skatiname mokytis, tobul\u0117ti, \u012fsipai\u0161yti \u012f m\u016bs\u0173 sukurt\u0105 pasaul\u012f, o pa\u017evelg\u0119 \u012f visk\u0105 j\u0173 akimis, pamatytume, kad jie nori tik pripa\u017einimo savo aplinkoje, pinig\u0173, sekso, bei garb\u0117s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dar vienas i\u0161\u0161\u016bkis – mai\u0161tas. Paaugliai mai\u0161tauja, nes pas\u0105moningai jau\u010dia, kad jau baig\u0117si tokio gyvenimo era, jiems n\u0117ra tinkamos erdv\u0117s sukurti ateities pasaul\u012f, kuriame jie ir gyvens. Mes neleid\u017eiame to padaryti savo stereotipais, taisykl\u0117mis ir pan. Tod\u0117l jie mai\u0161tauja, renkasi geriau nieko nedaryti, negu daryti ka\u017ek\u0105, nejau\u010diant tame prasm\u0117s. Esm\u0117, kad \u017emonija evoliucijonuoja ir t\u0117vams svarbu i\u0161siai\u0161kinti kuria linkme, nes b\u016btent to tikisi m\u016bs\u0173 vaikai – gairi\u0173 kitokiam gyvenimui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dar vienas labai stiprus dalykas, \u012ftakojantis paaugl\u012f – j\u012f supanti aplinka, vertyb\u0117s, informacija ir pan. Akivaizdu, kad tai globali problema, vienas pasaulio nepakeisi, bet ar tikrai patikrinau visus galimus variantus: b\u016brelius, mokyklas, draugus, knygas, filmus ir t.t.? Ar galiu ka\u017ek\u0105 pakeisti?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tik darbas atliekamas nuo ma\u017eum\u0117s duoda vaisi\u0173, o jeigu visas aukl\u0117jimas tiesiog \u0117jo \u0161alia, tada viskas, ko galima tik\u0117tis i\u0161 tokio vaiko yra reikalavimas u\u017e\u010diaupti burn\u0105 ir duoti pinig\u0173. Deja, kad ir kaip b\u016bt\u0173 li\u016bdna, Vakar\u0173 \u0161alyse jau \u0161i riba pasiekta\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ir \u010dia dega raudonas signalas mums, t\u0117vams.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nepad\u0117s tai, kaip mes galvojame: ,,i\u0161eis tuos, ant savo kailio visk\u0105 patirs, prisimins m\u016bs\u0173 \u017eod\u017eius\u201d. Kad ir kaip sunku tai pripa\u017einti, bet to jau nebebus. Paaugliai tiesiog atsijungia emoci\u0161kai nuo savo t\u0117v\u0173, egzistuoja ka\u017ekur tarp \u017eem\u0117s ir virtualaus pasaulio. Jie socialiai apleisti, vieni\u0161i degraduoja. Ir tik tinkamas aukl\u0117jimas nuo tos dienos, kai mamos \u012fs\u010diose u\u017egimsta vaisius yra garantas, kad vaikas augs s\u0105moningas, suvoks kas jam yra gerai, o kas blogai, kokiame pasaulyje gyvena ir kokiame gyvens, kod\u0117l gyvena, kokia viso to prasm\u0117. Mano, kaip mamos, pareiga pad\u0117ti atsakyti \u012f \u0161iuos esminius klausimus.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Kelet\u0105 dien\u0173 negaliu pamir\u0161ti pokalbio su viena \u0161eima. Jie dalinosi savo patirtimi su paaugliu s\u016bnumi, kurio, pana\u0161u, niekas \u0161iame gyvenime nebedomina. Man buvo labai \u012fdomu i\u0161girsti j\u0173 paie\u0161kas, patirt\u012f, paai\u0161kinimus, atradimus. Juk vien\u0105 dien\u0105 ir mano vaikai persijungs \u012f ka\u017ekok\u012f kitok\u012f r\u0117\u017eim\u0105\u2026 ir ne\u017einai kok\u012f. Paaugliai paklausti ko jie tikisi i\u0161 gyvenimo, ko siekia da\u017enai […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":10167,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[42],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10179","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-vaiku-auklejimas-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/62ffadc9-c9ae-456d-823e-6b343b6d2009-1.jpg",800,400,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/62ffadc9-c9ae-456d-823e-6b343b6d2009-1-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/62ffadc9-c9ae-456d-823e-6b343b6d2009-1-300x150.jpg",300,150,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/62ffadc9-c9ae-456d-823e-6b343b6d2009-1-768x384.jpg",768,384,true],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/62ffadc9-c9ae-456d-823e-6b343b6d2009-1.jpg",800,400,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/62ffadc9-c9ae-456d-823e-6b343b6d2009-1.jpg",800,400,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/62ffadc9-c9ae-456d-823e-6b343b6d2009-1.jpg",800,400,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Kelet\u0105 dien\u0173 negaliu pamir\u0161ti pokalbio su viena \u0161eima. Jie dalinosi savo patirtimi su paaugliu s\u016bnumi, kurio, pana\u0161u, niekas \u0161iame gyvenime nebedomina. Man buvo labai \u012fdomu i\u0161girsti j\u0173 paie\u0161kas, patirt\u012f, paai\u0161kinimus, atradimus. Juk vien\u0105 dien\u0105 ir mano vaikai persijungs \u012f ka\u017ekok\u012f kitok\u012f r\u0117\u017eim\u0105\u2026 ir ne\u017einai kok\u012f. Paaugliai paklausti ko jie tikisi i\u0161 gyvenimo, ko siekia da\u017enai…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10179","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10179"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10179\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10180,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10179\/revisions\/10180"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10167"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10179"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10179"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10179"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}