Da\u017enai gird\u017eiu ir man pa\u010diai net kartais i\u0161spr\u016bsta ,,Bet tai kaip jie taip gal\u0117jo?\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tam tikroje situacijoje, kad i\u0161veng\u010diau visuomen\u0117s pa\u017eeminimo, atst\u016bmimo, g\u0117dos, a\u0161 galiu padaryti daug. Ir ne visada tai, ko noriu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ka\u017ekas gali sakyti: ,,Tai tu silpna. Man tai ner\u016bpi kiti.\u201d Hm\u2026Bet ar tikrai? Kod\u0117l rengiuosi, kalbu, renkuosi dalykus vienaip, o ne kitaip? Kas lemia mano pasirinkimus? Kok\u012f vaidmen\u012f atlieka visuomen\u0117?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u017dmogus net ne\u012fsivaizduoja kiek jis visko daro tik d\u0117l to, kad b\u016bt\u0173 pripa\u017eintas. Neseniai dalyvavau seminar\u0173 cikle apie santykius \u0161eimoje ir vieno susitikimo metu visu gro\u017eiu pasirod\u0117 bendra vis\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173 savyb\u0117 – vidinis noras b\u016bti pripa\u017eintu, priimtu koks jis yra, suprastu. Kiekvienas turi ka\u017ekoki\u0105 aplink\u0105, su kuria save asocijuoja: lygina, konkuruoja, bando tapti tokia kaip ji.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Galb\u016bt \u0161eimoje ir galima i\u0161auginti palaikan\u010dius santykius, bet tik s\u0105moningai visiems nariams juos kuriant, bei turint stipr\u0173 kit\u0173 \u0161eim\u0173 palaikym\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nereik\u0117t\u0173 tik\u0117tis pri\u0117mimo i\u0161 kit\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173, nes mumyse programa labai ai\u0161ki – gintis ir b\u016bti auk\u0161\u010diau vis\u0173, bet kokia kaina. Anks\u010diau dar sl\u0117p\u0117me tai vienas nuo kito, o \u0161iandien jeigu kitas man nenaudingas – a\u0161 j\u012f galiu sulyginti su \u017eeme net nemirktel\u0117jusi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u012esivaizduojate su kokiu dalyku turime reikal\u0105? Tai ne \u0161eip, kad ka\u017ekas negali priimti man\u0119s ar a\u0161 kit\u0173. A\u0161 ignoruosiu ir viskas. Ne. Tai did\u017eiulis, susiraizg\u0119s, nelaimingas tinklas, \u012f save \u012fpainiojantis mus visus vis stipriau ir stipriau. Ir i\u0161sinarplioti galime tik nustoj\u0119 vertinti kit\u0173 gyvenimus pagal savo matymo prizm\u0119, kritikav\u0119, apkalbin\u0117j\u0119, o ver\u010diau paband\u0119 suprasti, kad \u017emogus yra tiesiog noro b\u016bti pripa\u017eintu vergas, kuris ir veikia atitinkamai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tikiuosi, ateityje mes pad\u0117sime vienas kitam i\u0161sinarplioti i\u0161 to spaud\u017eian\u010dio tinklo, \u017einosime kaip su juo elgtis ir gal\u0117sime ramiai \u012fkv\u0117pti laisv\u0117s, laim\u0117s, saugumo, pripa\u017einimo! D\u0117l toki\u0173 dalyk\u0173 kaina kyla \ud83d\ude01.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Da\u017enai gird\u017eiu ir man pa\u010diai net kartais i\u0161spr\u016bsta ,,Bet tai kaip jie taip gal\u0117jo?\u201d. Tam tikroje situacijoje, kad i\u0161veng\u010diau visuomen\u0117s pa\u017eeminimo, atst\u016bmimo, g\u0117dos, a\u0161 galiu padaryti daug. Ir ne visada tai, ko noriu. Ka\u017ekas gali sakyti: ,,Tai tu silpna. Man tai ner\u016bpi kiti.\u201d Hm\u2026Bet ar tikrai? Kod\u0117l rengiuosi, kalbu, renkuosi dalykus vienaip, o ne kitaip? 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Tam tikroje situacijoje, kad i\u0161veng\u010diau visuomen\u0117s pa\u017eeminimo, atst\u016bmimo, g\u0117dos, a\u0161 galiu padaryti daug. Ir ne visada tai, ko noriu. Ka\u017ekas gali sakyti: ,,Tai tu silpna. Man tai ner\u016bpi kiti.\u201d Hm\u2026Bet ar tikrai? Kod\u0117l rengiuosi, kalbu, renkuosi dalykus vienaip, o ne kitaip?…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10211","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10211"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10211\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10502,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10211\/revisions\/10502"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10208"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10211"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10211"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10211"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}