{"id":10283,"date":"2021-07-16T23:34:34","date_gmt":"2021-07-16T20:34:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=10283"},"modified":"2021-07-16T23:34:35","modified_gmt":"2021-07-16T20:34:35","slug":"norim-geru-santykiu-reikia-sumoketi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/norim-geru-santykiu-reikia-sumoketi\/","title":{"rendered":"NORIM GER\u0172 SANTYKI\u0172? REIKIA SUMOK\u0116TI"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Tarp \u017emoni\u0173 galioja \u012fdomus d\u0117snis: nieko nemokamai negauname, u\u017e visk\u0105 turime susimok\u0117ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Parduotuv\u0117je prekes perku u\u017e pinigus. U\u017e visas paslagas moku. Sportuoju &#8211; tai mokestis u\u017e tvirt\u0105 k\u016bn\u0105. Laikausi liekninan\u010dios dietos &#8211; tai mokestis u\u017e atsikratytus kilogramus. Moku savo pastangomis nor\u0117dama i\u0161mokti nauj\u0173 dalyk\u0173. Ir viskas atrodo priimtina.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tik ka\u017ekod\u0117l \u017emon\u0117s nenori mok\u0117ti u\u017e gerus santykius. \u010cia jie link\u0119 der\u0117tis, gauti d\u0117mes\u012f nemokamai, diktuoti savo s\u0105lygas ir i\u0161sisukti nuo pastang\u0173. Spar\u010diai i\u0161vyst\u0117me visas sritis, tik liko nepaliesti \u017emogi\u0161kieji santykiai. Li\u016bdna, bet \u0161iais laikais net vyras ir \u017emona nebesugeba investuoti \u012f santykius, vaikai labai anksti emoci\u0161kai atsiskiria nuo t\u0117v\u0173. Ir \u0161is rei\u0161kinys labai jau\u010diamas: daug\u0117ja vidini\u0173 problem\u0173, nenoras bendrauti su \u017emon\u0117mis, depresija, degradacija.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Viskas b\u016bt\u0173 kitaip, jeigu mes suprastume, kad santykius reikia statyti, jeigu mok\u0117tume juos kurti ir i\u0161laikyti. Bent jau \u0161eimoje. Nes viskas prasideda \u0161eimoje. Matyt, tod\u0117l ir gyvyb\u0117 atsiranda b\u016btent joje. T\u0117vai savo pavyzd\u017eiu turi galimyb\u0119 perduoti vaikams ger\u0173 santyki\u0173 pagrindus, suvokim\u0105, kad norint tur\u0117ti ry\u0161\u012f su artimu \u017emogumi, kuriuo gal\u0117tum pasitik\u0117ti, reikia nuolatos mok\u0117ti savo pastangomis: nusileidimais, nuo\u0161irdumu, bandymu priimti j\u012f tok\u012f, koks jis yra, nekritikuoti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vaikai, \u012fgav\u0119 toki\u0105 patirt\u012f, i\u0161transliuot\u0173 visai kitokius dalykus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Gal skirkime minut\u0117l\u0119 ir pasvajokime, kas pasikeist\u0173, jeigu rytoj mes ir m\u016bs\u0173 antrosios pus\u0117s atsikeltume kitokie, pasireng\u0119 sumok\u0117ti visk\u0105, ko reik\u0117s, kad tik jausti ry\u0161\u012f, supratim\u0105, r\u016bpest\u012f, meil\u0119?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Galb\u016bt mes prad\u0117tume dien\u0105 tame pa\u010diame puslapyje? Galb\u016bt pamatytyme vienas kit\u0105 kitokiais ir mums tai patikt\u0173? Galb\u016bt mus pagaut\u0173 azartas kas daugiau sumok\u0117sime m\u016bs\u0173 santyki\u0173 bankui \u0161iandien?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Variant\u0173 daug. Scenarij\u0173 daug. Bet niekada ne\u017einosiu kuris yra mano, jeigu nepatikrinsiu \ud83d\ude09.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tarp \u017emoni\u0173 galioja \u012fdomus d\u0117snis: nieko nemokamai negauname, u\u017e visk\u0105 turime susimok\u0117ti. Parduotuv\u0117je prekes perku u\u017e pinigus. U\u017e visas paslagas moku. Sportuoju &#8211; tai mokestis u\u017e tvirt\u0105 k\u016bn\u0105. Laikausi liekninan\u010dios dietos &#8211; tai mokestis u\u017e atsikratytus kilogramus. Moku savo pastangomis nor\u0117dama i\u0161mokti nauj\u0173 dalyk\u0173. Ir viskas atrodo priimtina. 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