\u2043 Mama, a\u0161 niekada nenoriu u\u017eaugti..<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2043 Kod\u0117l?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2043 Nes noriu vis\u0105 gyvenim\u0105 gyventi su jumis. Ar gal\u0117siu gyventi kartu net jei b\u016bsiu didelis kaip tu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ne\u017einau kod\u0117l, bet tai buvo toks jaudinantis mano s\u016bnaus klausimas. V\u0117liau kalb\u0117jome dar apie tai ir supratau, kad jis bijo, jog u\u017eaug\u0119s bus vienas ir vieni\u0161as.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Prisiminiau ir savo vaikyst\u0119, t\u0105 atsiskirim\u0105 nuo t\u0117v\u0173. Ir nor\u0117jau, ir buvo baisu, bet visas mano gyvenimo krypties paie\u0161kas lyd\u0117jo u\u017etikrintumas, kad t\u0117vai man\u0119s visada laukia: ar su diplomu ir karjera, ar visi\u0161kai bankrotavusi\u0105. Jie mane priima toki\u0105, kokia esu ir kartu vis \u017eiebia vertyb\u0173 \u017eibur\u012f, kad tur\u0117\u010diau ko siekti. Toks palaikymas leido atrasti save, nebijoti ir visada jaustis SAUGIAI.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ilgai galvojau apie s\u016bnaus klausim\u0105.. Man tai buvo akivaizdus poreikis jau dabar kurti tokius tvarius santykius, kad vaikai jaust\u0173si saug\u016bs, mylimi, kad nejaust\u0173 spaudimo, jog jie PRIVALO ka\u017ek\u0105 daryti. Nors ir yra dalyk\u0173, kurie priimti visuomen\u0117je kaip privalomi, bet juos turime i\u0161mokti pad\u0117ti vaikams pasiekti lanks\u010diai, be spaudimo, be prievartos ir be kritikos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ir visa k\u016bryba prasideda jau nuo pirm\u0173j\u0173 dien\u0173, kai savo pavyzd\u017eiu mokome vaikus klausytis, kalb\u0117ti, b\u016bti \u0161eimos dalimi. Vertiname kiekvieno unikalum\u0105, bet kartu ir nubr\u0117\u017eiame ribas vienas kitam. Nekeliame s\u0105lyg\u0173 ir nebandome priversti kitus gyventi pagal m\u016bs\u0173 scenarij\u0173, mokomes sujungti visus svenarijus \u012f vien\u0105 nauj\u0105 bendr\u0105 visiems. Kartu pa\u017e\u012fstame koks yra \u017emogus. Netapatiname sav\u0119s su blogu elgesiu, bet priimame visas situacijas kaip \u0161eimai duotus i\u0161\u0161\u016bkius ir \u012fveikiame nes\u0117kmes kartu. Nepaliekame vaik\u0173 vien\u0173 kapstytis ir kovoti su savo emocijomis, ver\u010diau padedame su jomis susidraugauti ir i\u0161mokti gyventi vir\u0161 j\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Taigi, pabaigai toks retorinis klausimas: ,,KAS VISA TAI GALI SUTEIKTI VAIKAMS JEIGU NE J\u0172 T\u0116VAI?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tikiu, kad jeigu tokie dalykai b\u016bt\u0173 prioritetas kiekvienoje \u0161eimoje, tada ateityje ne tik, kad i\u0161vengtume vis did\u0117jan\u010dios depresijos, bet ir vaikai jaust\u0173 stabil\u0173 pagrind\u0105 po kojomis, \u017einot\u0173, kad visos problemos gali b\u016bti i\u0161sprend\u017eiamos mylin\u010dioje aplinkoje. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u2043 Mama, a\u0161 niekada nenoriu u\u017eaugti.. \u2043 Kod\u0117l? \u2043 Nes noriu vis\u0105 gyvenim\u0105 gyventi su jumis. Ar gal\u0117siu gyventi kartu net jei b\u016bsiu didelis kaip tu? Ne\u017einau kod\u0117l, bet tai buvo toks jaudinantis mano s\u016bnaus klausimas. V\u0117liau kalb\u0117jome dar apie tai ir supratau, kad jis bijo, jog u\u017eaug\u0119s bus vienas ir vieni\u0161as. 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