{"id":10466,"date":"2021-08-15T03:05:12","date_gmt":"2021-08-15T00:05:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=10466"},"modified":"2021-08-15T03:28:10","modified_gmt":"2021-08-15T00:28:10","slug":"palauk-kodel-tai-gerai-o-tai-ne","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/palauk-kodel-tai-gerai-o-tai-ne\/","title":{"rendered":"PALAUK, KOD\u0116L TAI GERAI, O TAI NE?!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Da\u017enai pokalbiuose apie vaik\u0173 auklejim\u0105 i\u0161kyla klausimai ar tam tikri dalykai yra gerai ar blogai vaikams. \u010cia prasideda t\u0117v\u0173 asmenin\u0117s interpretacijos, kurios ne visada suveikia tinkamai. B\u0117da ta, kad da\u017eniausiai jos neturi vieningos krypties: mama sako viena, t\u0117tis &#8211; kit\u0105 arba dalykai sprend\u017eiami pagal nuotaik\u0105, vidines tos akimirkos b\u016bsenas, norus, aplinkini\u0173 komentarus ir pan.. Vaikams tikrai nelengva suprasti kokias t\u0117v\u0173 instrukcijas reikia perimti ir vykdyti, nes n\u0117ra nuoseklumo, ai\u0161kumo, viskas kinta ne\u017einia pagal k\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aukl\u0117dami vaikus mes siekiame u\u017eauginti \u017emones. Ir ne kaip mums asmeni\u0161kai atrodo, nes akivaizdu, kad savo nuomon\u0119 da\u017enai kei\u010diame ir \u010dia rasti to stabilumo sunku, bet u\u017eauginti \u017emones, kokie turi b\u016bti pagal vis\u0105 integrali\u0105 sistem\u0105. Mes gi ne \u0161eip gyvename, kiekvienas \u017emogus turi savo vaidmen\u012f ir \u010dia pagrindin\u0117 t\u0117v\u0173 u\u017eduotis vaikui j\u0105 atrasti ir \u012fgyvendinti. Tik tada jis bus i\u0161 tikro laimingas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mes, kaip t\u0117vai, irgi ne\u017einome koks turi b\u016bti \u017emogus, kokiomis vertyb\u0117mis gyventi, kokio pagrindo laikytis ir d\u0117l ko gyventi. Bet dabar puikus metas to i\u0161mokti ir parodyti savo pavyzd\u012f vaikams. Jie to tikisi i\u0161 m\u016bs\u0173, nes mato, kad m\u016bs\u0173 pasaulis gri\u016bna, taip, kaip gyvename mes nesuteikia laim\u0117s. Jie ver\u010diau renkasi iliuzin\u012f virtual\u0173 pasaul\u012f, negu bandym\u0105 \u012fsilieti \u012f m\u016bs\u0173 chaoti\u0161k\u0105 pasaul\u012f. Ir a\u0161 juos suprantu. Ir tik d\u0117l to, investuoju savo laik\u0105 bei j\u0117gas \u012f \u017emogaus, kaip gamtos sistemos dalies, pa\u017einim\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jau turint bazin\u012f suvokim\u0105 apie d\u0117sni\u0173 veikim\u0105, tada atitinkamai ir sprend\u017eiame ar tai pad\u0117s vaikui irgi priart\u0117ti prie tos sistemos suvokimo ar kaip tik atitolins ir sukurs jam ka\u017ekoki\u0105 tik jo pasaulio iliuzij\u0105, kuriai ,,sprogus\u201d jam bus be galo sunku. O ji ,,sprogs\u201d nei\u0161vengiamai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Taigi, visame kame atspirties ta\u0161kas yra tikslas. Reikia ai\u0161kiai suvokti ko mes siekiame aukl\u0117jime. Tada bus daug lengviau atsirinkti kas padeda pasiekti tikslo, o ko reikia vengti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Svarbu nuolatos \u0161eimoje kalb\u0117ti ir apie tai, ko turime siekti, kad \u012fsilietume \u012f jau esam\u0105 integrali\u0105 sistem\u0105. \u010cia kaip \u017dem\u0117 Saul\u0117s sistemoje, ji negali gyventi pati sau viena planeta. Taip ir \u017emogus, jis yra visa ko dalis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ir labai d\u017eiugu, kad mokslas jau apie tai kalba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vaikai yra kaip molis t\u0117v\u0173 rankose. K\u0105 mes savo pavyzd\u017eiu nulipdysime, tokie jie ir bus vis\u0105 gyvenim\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Stipryb\u0117s mums.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"820\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/imamidesinys.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3997\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/imamidesinys.jpg 820w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/imamidesinys-300x132.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/imamidesinys-768x337.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 820px) 100vw, 820px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Da\u017enai pokalbiuose apie vaik\u0173 auklejim\u0105 i\u0161kyla klausimai ar tam tikri dalykai yra gerai ar blogai vaikams. \u010cia prasideda t\u0117v\u0173 asmenin\u0117s interpretacijos, kurios ne visada suveikia tinkamai. B\u0117da ta, kad da\u017eniausiai jos neturi vieningos krypties: mama sako viena, t\u0117tis &#8211; kit\u0105 arba dalykai sprend\u017eiami pagal nuotaik\u0105, vidines tos akimirkos b\u016bsenas, norus, aplinkini\u0173 komentarus ir pan.. 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