{"id":10569,"date":"2021-08-31T22:54:57","date_gmt":"2021-08-31T19:54:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=10569"},"modified":"2021-08-31T22:54:58","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T19:54:58","slug":"kur-mes-klystame","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/kur-mes-klystame\/","title":{"rendered":"KUR MES KLYSTAME?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Nuostabiausias dalykas apie santykius yra tas, kad jie ver\u010dia tave keistis. Labai daug dalyk\u0173 i\u0161mokstu i\u0161 savo vyro ir atrandu savyje, kad kasdien esu vis kitokia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Santykiai leid\u017eia mums augti, susidurti su sunkumais ir juos \u012fveikti. Mums reikia kaskart mokytis kaip priimti sprendimus ir kurti bendra gyvenim\u0105 su \u017emogumi, kuris galb\u016bt m\u0105sto kitaip, turi kitokias savybes ar nuomon\u0119.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tie skirtumai gali arba sugriauti m\u016bs\u0173 santykius, arba pad\u0117ti transformuoti save ir tapti geresniais \u017emon\u0117mis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M\u016bs\u0173 romati\u0161ki, artimi santykiai su partneriu yra vis\u0173 santyki\u0173 centras, kuriame galime tobulinti savo socialinius \u012fg\u016bd\u017eius, mokytis \u017emogi\u0161k\u0173j\u0173 santyki\u0173. Tyrimai rodo, kad m\u016bs\u0173 laim\u0117s ir geros savijautos \u0161aknis pirmiausia yra geri tarpusavio santykiai. Taigi, tai vieta, \u012f kuri\u0105 verta investuoti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160iandien dauguma \u017emoni\u0173 tuokiasi v\u0117lai, kartu i\u0161gyvena trumpai, nenori kurti \u0161eimos. Viena i\u0161 pagrindini\u0173 prie\u017eas\u010di\u0173 yra ta, kad niekas nemoko m\u016bs\u0173 kaip i\u0161 tikro myl\u0117ti. Keista, ar ne? Kiek para\u0161yta knyg\u0173, sukurta film\u0173 apie meil\u0119, bet mes vis dar ne\u017einome kaip i\u0161kaikyti santykius tokiame lygyje, kad tai mums teikt\u0173 malonum\u0105 daug met\u0173. Ne\u017einome kaip sustiprinti savo santykius, kaip i\u0161silaikyti kartu nepaisant vis\u0173 prie\u0161ingybi\u0173. Trumpai tariant, kaip sukurti auk\u0161tesnio lygio ry\u0161\u012f &#8211; bendr\u0105 erdv\u0119 tarp m\u016bs\u0173. B\u016btent to reikia mokytis. Kod\u0117l?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kai kyla \u0161is klausimas, a\u0161 sav\u0119s klausiu: ,,kiek kart\u0173 band\u017eiau pakeisti partner\u012f? \u2026 O kiek kart\u0173 man pavyko?\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Taip, neabejoju, kad daugumos atsakymai sutampa su manaisiais. Niekas nenori b\u016bti kei\u010diamas. Tai tiesiog neveikia. I\u0161band\u017eiau tai ne kart\u0105 ir atradau, kad bet kokie poky\u010diai, kuriuos noriu padaryti m\u016bs\u0173 santykiuose, turi prasid\u0117ti nuo man\u0119s. Tai man reikia prapl\u0117sti matymo perspektyv\u0105 ir priimti partner\u012f tok\u012f, koks jis yra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Taigi, tai a\u0161 turiu keisti savo po\u017ei\u016br\u012f \u012f santykius, \u012f partner\u012f, \u012f save. Tai vienintelis dalykas, kuris i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 veikia. Su laiku ir partneris pasineria \u012f \u0161\u012f \u017eaidim\u0105 ir mes abu kartu statome tarpusavio supratimo, meil\u0117s tilt\u0105 vir\u0161 vis\u0173 skirtum\u0173. Toks gyvenimas \u012fgauna prasm\u0119 ir tampa prakti\u0161ka santyki\u0173 mokykla.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"820\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/meiles.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2804\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/meiles.jpg 820w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/meiles-300x132.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/meiles-768x337.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 820px) 100vw, 820px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nuostabiausias dalykas apie santykius yra tas, kad jie ver\u010dia tave keistis. Labai daug dalyk\u0173 i\u0161mokstu i\u0161 savo vyro ir atrandu savyje, kad kasdien esu vis kitokia. Santykiai leid\u017eia mums augti, susidurti su sunkumais ir juos \u012fveikti. Mums reikia kaskart mokytis kaip priimti sprendimus ir kurti bendra gyvenim\u0105 su \u017emogumi, kuris galb\u016bt m\u0105sto kitaip, turi kitokias [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":10568,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[44],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10569","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-vyrai-moterys-santuoka-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/f2abe987-832f-498b-b63d-cefbf7d6fb2e.jpg",800,400,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/f2abe987-832f-498b-b63d-cefbf7d6fb2e-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/f2abe987-832f-498b-b63d-cefbf7d6fb2e-300x150.jpg",300,150,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/f2abe987-832f-498b-b63d-cefbf7d6fb2e-768x384.jpg",768,384,true],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/f2abe987-832f-498b-b63d-cefbf7d6fb2e.jpg",800,400,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/f2abe987-832f-498b-b63d-cefbf7d6fb2e.jpg",800,400,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/f2abe987-832f-498b-b63d-cefbf7d6fb2e.jpg",800,400,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Nuostabiausias dalykas apie santykius yra tas, kad jie ver\u010dia tave keistis. 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