Kart\u0105 man\u0119s paklaus\u0117: ,,Kod\u0117l neatidarai dar\u017eelio vaikams?\u201d. A\u0161 atsakiau klausdama: ,,Kam – vaikams ar t\u0117vams?\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kai studijuoji mus supan\u010dius d\u0117snius, ai\u0161kiniesi kas su kuo valgoma, tada labai ai\u0161kiai suvoki, kad visgi vaik\u0173 aukl\u0117jimas pirmiausia prasideda \u0161eimoje. Vaikas gali vis\u0105 dien\u0105 praleisti tobuloje aplinkoje, ta\u010diau jeigu tokio pat pavyzd\u017eio (ne \u017eod\u017ei\u0173, o veiksm\u0173) nematys i\u0161 savo t\u0117v\u0173 – visas dienos darbas nieko vertas. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Naivu tik\u0117ti, kad ka\u017ekas, apart t\u0117v\u0173, gali i\u0161aukl\u0117ti \u017emog\u0173. Mes savo vaikams esame pati artimiausia aplinka, savo veiksmais, po\u017ei\u016briu rodanti kaip vertinti kitus \u017emones, gyvenim\u0105, save. Ir ,,Mes\u201d tai n\u0117ra tik viena mama ar vienas t\u0117tis, tai m\u016bs\u0173 abiej\u0173 visuma.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Gimus s\u016bnui visa galva n\u0117riau \u012f vaik\u0173 aukl\u0117jimo principus, o galiausiai visi keliai atved\u0117 \u012f t\u0117vo ir mamos tarpusavio santykius. Ai\u0161kiai supratau, kad jeigu \u010dia n\u0117ra vienos nuomon\u0117s, vieno sutarimo, vieno tikslo – tada ir aukl\u0117jimo nebus. Vaikai labai greitai mato kur ir kuo galima manipuliuoti, kame t\u0117vai nesutaria ir kaip tuo pasinaudoti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tikiu, kad yra svari prie\u017eastis kod\u0117l egzistuoja b\u016btent toks gamtos d\u0117snis, kad yra vyras ir moteris ir i\u0161 j\u0173 ry\u0161io, noro tapti vienu (t\u0117vais) gimsta tre\u010dias – vaikas. Tai j\u0173, kaip vieno, prat\u0119simas, sekanti pakopa. Suprantu, kad \u0161iandien tie dalykai jau u\u017emir\u0161ti, bet matau \u017emones, kurie to nepamir\u0161o ir vertina tai, matau kaip klostosi j\u0173 gyvenimas ir galiu pasakyti, noriu ir a\u0161 tos laim\u0117s, kuri yra visai \u0161alia – tarp man\u0119s ir mano vyro. Tik reikia nenuleisti aki\u0173 ir rank\u0173. \ud83d\udda4<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Kart\u0105 man\u0119s paklaus\u0117: ,,Kod\u0117l neatidarai dar\u017eelio vaikams?\u201d. A\u0161 atsakiau klausdama: ,,Kam – vaikams ar t\u0117vams?\u201d. Kai studijuoji mus supan\u010dius d\u0117snius, ai\u0161kiniesi kas su kuo valgoma, tada labai ai\u0161kiai suvoki, kad visgi vaik\u0173 aukl\u0117jimas pirmiausia prasideda \u0161eimoje. 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