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<\/figure><\/li><\/ul><\/figure>\n\n\n\nKAIP VISKAS VYKO?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Visi trys viename kambaryje. Dukra atsine\u0161\u0117 \u017eaisl\u0105-kr\u0117sl\u0105, \u012fsipatogino ir ka\u017ek\u0105 sau tyliai \u017eaid\u0117. A\u0161 lanks\u010diau skalbinius, o s\u016bnus tuo metu akivaizd\u017eiai nuobod\u017eiavo. Taigi, u\u017e minut\u0117l\u0117s matau kaip s\u016bnus ,,neva\u201d nety\u010dia u\u017ekrenta ant dukros kr\u0117slo, tada demonstruoja spaudim\u0105, kad jeigu ji pasitrauks – jis u\u017eims kr\u0117sl\u0105 ir pan. Mums ai\u0161ku – prigimtis ima vir\u0161\u0173. Dukra bando pra\u0161yti brolio netrugdyti. Jis apsimeta, kad negirdi. A\u0161aros. O ka\u017eakam ir juokas (s\u016bnui). Galvoju: ,,liuks, puiki proga pasikalb\u0117ti apie savo vidinius instinktus, kur jie nuveda ir kaip i\u0161spr\u0119sti problem\u0105, kad visiems trims b\u016bt\u0173 gerai\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kol vaikai ,,kovoja\u201d d\u0117l malonumo pas\u0117d\u0117ti kr\u0117sle, pa\u0117miau tris popieriaus lapus, pie\u0161imo priemones. Pakvie\u010diau juos prisijungti. Jie su d\u017eiaugsmu laukia kas bus toliau. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
O toliau a\u0161 pasi\u016bliau pa\u017eaisti, \u012fsijausti \u012f istorij\u0105: ,,gyveno karta \u0161eima. Ir vien\u0105 dien\u0105 dukra atsine\u0161\u0117 \u017eaisl\u0105- kr\u0117sl\u0105\u2026\u201d ir taip perpasakojau visk\u0105 kas nutiko i\u0161 savo pozicijos (kaip ma\u010diau a\u0161). Tada paklausiau vaik\u0173, o gal tikroji istorija buvo kitokia? Kokia? Kiekvienas nupie\u0161kime j\u0105. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
S\u016bnaus pasakojimas sutapo su mano. Dukros taip pat. Tada paklausiau: ,,O kaip manot, kod\u0117l berniukas taip elg\u0117si?\u201d. I\u0161vados buvo, kad berniukas galb\u016bt netur\u0117jo k\u0105 veikti, bet did\u017eiausia tikimyb\u0117, kad pavyd\u0117jo kr\u0117slo, nes jam atrod\u0117, kad metgaitei labai smagu jame. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vualia! Prisikas\u0117me prie fakto, lad berniukas pavyd\u0117jo. Tik ko? Pa\u010dio kr\u0117slo ar malonumo? Malonumo. Taigi, pasi\u016bliau pagalvoti, kokie ka\u017ein kiti dalykai suteikt\u0173 d\u017eiaugsmo berniukui? Ir padar\u0117me s\u0105ra\u0161\u0105. Aptar\u0117me kaip pasikeist\u0173 situacija jeigu pad\u0117tume berniukui tai gauti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vos tik baig\u0117me aptarim\u0105, dukra gr\u012f\u017eo \u012f savo \u017eaisl\u0105-kr\u0117sl\u0105. O s\u016bnus, jau \u017eaisdamas, tarsi erzino ses\u0119, laukdamas, kad jam pasi\u016blysim k\u0105 veikti (i\u0161 m\u016bs\u0173) s\u0105ra\u0161o. \u010cia, \u017einoma, atkeliavo \u0161eimos pagalba ir kartu radome kur nukreipti vidin\u0119 energij\u0105, kad visiems b\u016bt\u0173 gerai. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
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Kart\u0105 i\u0161 draug\u0173 i\u0161girdau \u012fdom\u0173 pratim\u0105 – kilus nesusipratimui, konfliktui nepulti jo spr\u0119sti, bet kiek ,,atau\u0161us\u201d j\u012f nupie\u0161ti. Paband\u0117me. Smagu, kai vaikas pats pamato savo veiksmus i\u0161 \u0161alies ir turi galimyb\u0119 i\u0161sakyti savo pozicij\u0105. KAIP VISKAS VYKO? Visi trys viename kambaryje. Dukra atsine\u0161\u0117 \u017eaisl\u0105-kr\u0117sl\u0105, \u012fsipatogino ir ka\u017ek\u0105 sau tyliai \u017eaid\u0117. 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Paband\u0117me. Smagu, kai vaikas pats pamato savo veiksmus i\u0161 \u0161alies ir turi galimyb\u0119 i\u0161sakyti savo pozicij\u0105. KAIP VISKAS VYKO? Visi trys viename kambaryje. Dukra atsine\u0161\u0117 \u017eaisl\u0105-kr\u0117sl\u0105, \u012fsipatogino ir ka\u017ek\u0105 sau tyliai \u017eaid\u0117. 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