Da\u017enai kyla klausimai: kaip, \u017einant koks yra pasaulis, mokyti vaikus b\u016bti gerais kitiems? O gal esame priversti leisti jiems b\u016bti chamais ir manyti, kad jie pasaulio centras? Kada be joki\u0173 kompromis\u0173 parodyti vaikui ,,stop\u201d, o kur riba, kuri nesu\u017elugdyt\u0173 jo asmenyb\u0117s?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u016bs\u0173 prot\u0117viai gyveno kur kas primytivesn\u012f gyvenim\u0105, r\u016bpinosi i\u0161 kur gauti maisto, kad i\u0161gyvent\u0173 dar vien\u0105 dien\u0105. \u0160iandien mes kaip ir aptek\u0119 visokiais dalykais, ta\u010diau galvojame kaip i\u0161gyventi dar vien\u0105 dien\u0105 jau psichologine prasme. Dauguma \u017emoni\u0173 pasimet\u0119 ir sutrik\u0119, ne\u017einodami kuria linkme kreipti savo ir vaik\u0173 gyvenimus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Stebiu jaunus \u017emones, kaip jie i\u0161 nevilties baigia savo gyvenimus, atrodo, pa\u010diame savo \u017eyd\u0117jime, o j\u0173 jau akys nebedega\u2026 kod\u0117l? Ar ir man taip gali nutikti? K\u0105 duoti savo vaikams \u0161iandien, kad jie tokio ta\u0161ko nepasiekt\u0173? Kaip neleisti tam klausimui ,,u\u017emigti\u201d ir nepasiduoti, kod\u0117l nerasiu atsakymo?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0160iandien, kaip niekad anks\u010diau, reikalingas \u017emogui ka\u017ekoks ideologinis pagrindas, kurio d\u0117ka jis orientuotusi gyvenime.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nuo ma\u017eum\u0117s buvome suvar\u017eyti \u012fvairi\u0173 moral\u0117s norm\u0173, aukl\u0117jami b\u016bti gerais kitiems, nusileisti, dalintis ir pan.. \u0160iandien suprantu, kad tai jau praeitis, tai tik pataikavimas kito egoizmui ir toks bendras (ka\u017ekada gal ir egzistav\u0119s) susitarimas jau neveikia. Ne kart\u0105 \u012fsitikinau: vos a\u0161 tik nusileid\u017eiu ka\u017ekam ar bandau b\u016bti nuolankesn\u0117 – i\u0161kart gaunu ,,peil\u012f \u012f nugar\u0105\u201d, neturiu kitos i\u0161eities kaip apsidengti \u0161arvais. Bet lipti per galvas, i\u0161naudoti, ker\u0161yti kitiems irgi ne sprendimas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kaip vienu metu b\u016bti ir geru, ir grie\u017etu? Pagal k\u0105 matuoti kaip elgtis su kitu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vienintelis kelias, kuri matau – tinkamas aukl\u0117jimas, kurio d\u0117ka \u017emogus tikrai pa\u017eint\u0173 savo prigimt\u012f, suprast\u0173 \u017emogaus veikimo psichologij\u0105, jo paskirt\u012f gyvenime ir \u017einot\u0173 kaip veikia gamtos d\u0117sniai, kuriems turime b\u016bti pavald\u016bs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Esu gird\u0117jusi mint\u012f: ,,Gamta savo plano nekei\u010dia. Ji anks\u010diau ar v\u0117liau j\u012f \u012fgyvendins\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Taip pat ir vaik\u0173 aukl\u0117jime: a\u0161 galiu nusileisti, nematyti, nenor\u0117ti, gail\u0117tis, bet v\u0117liau likimas mano vaiko negail\u0117s. Negana to, ir vaikas gali imti nek\u0119sti t\u0117v\u0173, kod\u0117l jie leido visk\u0105, kod\u0117l neaukl\u0117jo ir nepad\u0117jo prisitaikyti prie naujojo pasaulio.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mes \u0161eimoje matome tai, kaip vienintel\u012f atspirties ta\u0161k\u0105, kuris leid\u017eia koreguoti savo gyvenim\u0105 bei po\u017ei\u016br\u012f \u012f vaik\u0173 aukl\u0117jim\u0105. Tada atsiranda viduriukas tarp buvimo geru ir buvimo ciniku, atsiranda ideologinis pagrindas. Tada \u017einau, kad jeigu a\u0161 neparodysiu vaikams tinkamo pavyzd\u017eio kokie yra \u017emogi\u0161kieji santykiai, vertyb\u0117s, tada likimas tai parodys. Ir tos pamokos gali b\u016bti labai skaud\u017eios.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jeigu vaikai jau\u010dia, kad t\u0117vai kaskart vadovaujasi ne savo instinktais, nuotaika, emocijom ar ambicijom, bet turi tvirt\u0105 ideologin\u012f orientyr\u0105 gyvenime, tada jie gali pasikliauti jais kaip gyvenimo vedliais, jaustis ram\u016bs, kad t\u0117vai priima, palaiko visus gyvenimo poky\u010dius ir stengiasi pad\u0117ti vienas kitam. Toks bendras darbas apgobia saugumo \u0161ydu ir padr\u0105sina \u017eengti pirmyn \u012f t\u0105 ne\u017einom\u0105, kartais bauginant\u012f pasaul\u012f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
,,Gamta savo plano nekei\u010dia. Ji anks\u010diau ar v\u0117liau j\u012f \u012fgyvendins\u201d. Toks gamtos d\u0117snis veikia visose situacijose\u2026 \ud83d\ude4f\ud83c\udffb<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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