{"id":11344,"date":"2021-10-26T06:37:00","date_gmt":"2021-10-26T03:37:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=11344"},"modified":"2021-10-25T09:15:44","modified_gmt":"2021-10-25T06:15:44","slug":"buti-balta-varna-tikrai-verta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/buti-balta-varna-tikrai-verta\/","title":{"rendered":"B\u016aTI BALTA VARNA | TIKRAI VERTA?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Vaik\u0173 aukl\u0117jimas ir ugdymas reikalauja nema\u017eai pastang\u0173. Mane \u017eavi ugdymo \u0161eimoje bendruomen\u0117s nari\u0173 u\u017esidegimas investuoti \u012f vaikus ir geresn\u0119 ateit\u012f, net kai kartais neb\u016bna tam noro, j\u0117g\u0173 arba aplink sukasi labai ,,motyvuojantys\u201d komentarai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vienas toki\u0173 da\u017eniausiai sutinkam\u0173 (bent jau mano akiratyje) yra: ,,K\u0105 tu viena \u010dia padarysi? Pa\u017ei\u016br\u0117k, niekas jau taip nedaro, tu viena tik. Pasaulis n\u0117ra tobulas. Vaikas nebus \u0161alia tav\u0119s am\u017einai. Galiausia jis tau net a\u010di\u016b nepasakys. Pagalvok ar tikrai verta.\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vienus t\u0117vus tai sutrigdo, atima energij\u0105 ir sukelia abejon\u0119. O mane tai motyvuoja, net labai! \ud83d\ude01<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tada suprantu, kok\u012f nereal\u0173 dalyk\u0105 darau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Taip, \u017einau, vaikai i\u0161eis \u012f plat\u0173 pasaul\u012f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bet plauk, o kas juos tam paruo\u0161? Dar\u017eelio aukl\u0117toja? Mokytoja? Kaimyn\u0117? Ar b\u016brelio vadovai? Kieno yra atsakomyb\u0117 ugdyti vaike s\u0105moningum\u0105? Kas turi tam laiko? Kas artimiausia jo aplinka nuo pirm\u0173j\u0173 dien\u0173?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Be t\u0117v\u0173 niekas kitas negali pakloti vaikui tvirt\u0173 gyvenimo pagrind\u0173. Jis tam ir turi t\u0117vus, kurie kuria saugi\u0105 aplink\u0105 augti. Nemanau, kad kiti turi aukl\u0117ti mano vaikus, \u012fdiegti tinkamas vertybes. \u017dinoma, b\u016bt\u0173 tobula jeigu ir \u0161eima ir ,,platusis pasaulis\u201d kartu u\u017esiimt\u0173 b\u016btent tuo, bet taip n\u0117ra. Tod\u0117l kas, jeigu ne t\u0117vai mokys savo vaikus apie tikruosius gyvenimo i\u0161\u0161\u016bkius ir d\u0117snius?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u017dinoma, a\u0161 suprantu, kad tok\u012f pa\u0161aukim\u0105 turi jau ne kiekviena moteris ar vyras. Tod\u0117l ir nereikia tik\u0117tis lalaikymo i\u0161 toki\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Beje visai neseniai skai\u010diau ir straipsn\u012f apie \u0161i\u0173 laik\u0173 motinyst\u0117s kriz\u0119. Jis buvo apie tai, kad anks\u010diau t\u0117vai atsakingai rinkdavosi dar\u017eelius, mokyklas, laukdavo metus, kad patekt\u0173 \u012f tam tikras \u012fstaigas, o \u0161iandien prie\u0161ingai – vos tik pra\u0117jo metai po vaikelio gimimo, t\u0117vai jau klausia: ,,kuri \u012fstaiga grei\u010diau priims m\u016bs\u0173 vaik\u0105?\u201d. Tapo nebesvarbu kas u\u017esiims su mano vaiku, k\u0105 su juo darys, svarbu, kad atsirast\u0173 laiko sau ir nukrist\u0173 atsakomyb\u0117s na\u0161ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Svarbu pabr\u0117\u017eti, kad \u010dia ne \u017emon\u0117s kalti, bet pats laikmetis diktuoja tokias tendencijas. \u017dmogaus evoliucija.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tad b\u016bti tarp \u017emoni\u0173, kuriuose dar neu\u017eg\u0119so prigimtinis noras tur\u0117ti vaik\u0173, aukl\u0117ti ir lyd\u0117ti juos per gyvenim\u0105, yra did\u017eiul\u0117 dovana. Tokios \u0161eimos mane \u012fkv\u0117pia, motyvuoja. Ir svarbiausia, kad \u0161ie \u017emon\u0117s suvokia, jog vaikai galb\u016bt ir nepad\u0117kos, bet j\u0173 \u012fd\u0117tos patangos visada lyd\u0117s vaikus, an\u016bkus ir pron\u016bkius. Jie senatv\u0117je \u017einos, kad j\u0173 gyvenimas visgi tur\u0117jo prasm\u0119 ir kad jie padar\u0117 visk\u0105, jog gyvenimas b\u016bt\u0173 geresnis, jog vaikai \u012f j\u012f \u017evelgt\u0173 kaip galimyb\u0119 realizuoti savo \u017emogi\u0161k\u0105j\u012f potencial\u0105 ir visada tur\u0117t\u0173 mylint\u012f uost\u0105, \u012f kur\u012f gal\u0117t\u0173 bet kada parplaukti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tad ar verta stengtis, nors dauguma jau ir paleido vadeles?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Paliksiu atsakyti \u012f klausim\u0105 sau patiems.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Vaik\u0173 aukl\u0117jimas ir ugdymas reikalauja nema\u017eai pastang\u0173. Mane \u017eavi ugdymo \u0161eimoje bendruomen\u0117s nari\u0173 u\u017esidegimas investuoti \u012f vaikus ir geresn\u0119 ateit\u012f, net kai kartais neb\u016bna tam noro, j\u0117g\u0173 arba aplink sukasi labai ,,motyvuojantys\u201d komentarai. Vienas toki\u0173 da\u017eniausiai sutinkam\u0173 (bent jau mano akiratyje) yra: ,,K\u0105 tu viena \u010dia padarysi? Pa\u017ei\u016br\u0117k, niekas jau taip nedaro, tu viena tik. 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