{"id":11943,"date":"2021-12-06T00:44:49","date_gmt":"2021-12-05T22:44:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=11943"},"modified":"2021-12-06T00:44:53","modified_gmt":"2021-12-05T22:44:53","slug":"man-patinka-kai-tu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/man-patinka-kai-tu\/","title":{"rendered":"MAN PATINKA, KAI TU\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

(\u012era\u0161as remiasi #28dienuissukisseimai pratimu t\u0117vams – ,,U\u017ebaikite sakin\u012f (kiekvienas): ,,Man patinka, kai tu…”<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kiekvienas giliai \u0161irdyje jau\u010diame poreik\u012f meilei. Tai mus maitinanti j\u0117ga. Mums reikia \u0161ilumos, jausti, kad mumis r\u016bpinasi ir mes turime kuo r\u016bpintis. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Meil\u0117 – tai tarpusavio palaikymas. Tai jausmas, kad mus myli tokius, kokie esame. Tai labai rimti jausmai, kuriuos turi tik \u017emon\u0117s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ta\u010diau da\u017enai gyvenime du, vienas kit\u0105 mylintys \u017emon\u0117s, pasiekia moment\u0105, kad suvokia, jog kiekvienas meil\u0119 \u012fsivaizduoja savaip ir \u010dia prasideda nesusipratimai, reikalavimai ir pan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Taip yra tod\u0117l, kad mes negauname tinkamo aukl\u0117jimo. Meil\u0117 yra santykiai tarp \u017emoni\u0173, poreikis, po\u017ei\u016bris vienas \u012f kit\u0105. \u0160tai kod\u0117l svarbu dom\u0117tis ir net studijuoti kaip myl\u0117ti. Meil\u0117 tai ne aistra, ir ne seksas, tai labiau sugeb\u0117jimas u\u017epildyti kito \u017emogaus vidinius poreikius. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

O kaip mokytis myl\u0117ti? Kaip u\u017epildyti kit\u0105? Kaip pakeisti savo \u012fpro\u010dius, kad gal\u0117\u010diau suteikti laim\u0117s kitam?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tam svarbu jausti, koks yra kitas \u017emogus. Kaip ra\u0161oma toje knygoje ,,5 meil\u0117s kalbos\u201d, kad meil\u0117 stiprinama dovanojant dovanas, bet tu turi \u017einoti kas kitam patinka. Tai reikalauja rimto, atviro ir kasdienio bendro darbo vienam su kitu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u010cia \u012f pagalba galb\u016bt ateina \u0161is pratimas, padedantis pa\u017einti tikr\u0105j\u012f partner\u012f, nugal\u0117ti drovum\u0105: ,,Man patinka, kai tu\u2026\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yra du pratimo atlikimo pj\u016bviai. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pirmas, nat\u016bralus: Pirmosios mintys kyla apie tai, kas man gyvenime patinka ir ar partneris tai man duoda. Greta t\u0173 min\u010di\u0173 kyla ir noras pasakyti, kas man patikt\u0173, kad partneris daryt\u0173, bet jis nedaro. Tai \u010dia vienas i\u0161 pratimo atlikimo b\u016bd\u0173, pro kur\u012f pra\u0117jo visi atliekantys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Antras, dedant pastangas: O jeigu pagilintume klausim\u0105 ir pabandytume prat\u0119sti:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

,,Man patinka k\u0105 tu darai d\u0117l man\u0119s, pavyzd\u017eiui\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tada viskas kei\u010diasi. Kod\u0117l? Nes akcentas nebe ,,kas man patinka ar patikt\u0173\u201d, bet labiau ant to, k\u0105 partneris jau stengiasi daryti d\u0117l man\u0119s ir man tai patinka. Jis turi tai \u017einoti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tai tarsi bendro santyki\u0173 \u017eem\u0117lapio sudarymas, su\u017eymint teigiamus punktus, po kol kas apeinant neigiamus, padedant vienas kitam pa\u017einti vienas kit\u0105. Galb\u016bt partneris labai stengiasi prad\u017eiuginti mane, a\u0161 d\u017eiaugiuosi, bet garsiai apie tai nepasakau. Tad jam sunku atsp\u0117ti ar jis gerame kelyje. Ypatingai moterys yra linkusios galvoti: ,,Ne, a\u0161 noriu, kad jis atsp\u0117t\u0173!\u201d. Logi\u0161kai m\u0105stant, kaip jis gali tai padaryti?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mums labai svarbu tai suprasti ir atvirai apie visk\u0105 kalb\u0117tis. \u017dmogus yra labai sud\u0117tingas k\u016brinys, tad nor\u0117dami suteikti vienas kitam laim\u0119 – turime \u017einoti kaip tai padaryti tinkamai ir pad\u0117ti vienas kitam pa\u017einti save bei kit\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Taigi, dabar puiki proga pakartoti pratim\u0105, pagalvoti, o gal ir pasira\u0161yti, kiek dalyk\u0173 pasteb\u0117jau, kad partneris stengiasi daryti d\u0117l man\u0119s. Kas i\u0161 j\u0173 man tikrai patinka ir noriu pad\u0117koti u\u017e tai. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Suprantame, kad tvari\u0173 santyki\u0173 k\u016brimas reikalauja kantryb\u0117s, i\u0161minties, patirties ir \u017emogi\u0161kosios psichologijos i\u0161manymas. Bet tikiu, kad u\u017etenka vos m\u016bs\u0173 noro ir trupu\u010dio pastang\u0173, kad meil\u0117s mechanizmas u\u017esivest\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tad s\u0117km\u0117s visiems mums, siekiantiems tos tikros meil\u0117s!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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(\u012era\u0161as remiasi #28dienuissukisseimai pratimu t\u0117vams – ,,U\u017ebaikite sakin\u012f (kiekvienas): ,,Man patinka, kai tu…” Kiekvienas giliai \u0161irdyje jau\u010diame poreik\u012f meilei. Tai mus maitinanti j\u0117ga. Mums reikia \u0161ilumos, jausti, kad mumis r\u016bpinasi ir mes turime kuo r\u016bpintis. Meil\u0117 – tai tarpusavio palaikymas. Tai jausmas, kad mus myli tokius, kokie esame. Tai labai rimti jausmai, kuriuos turi tik […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":11942,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[44],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11943","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-vyrai-moterys-santuoka-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/8dc42841-e7e9-42dc-9e2c-5ba3ff54305b-1.jpg",800,400,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/8dc42841-e7e9-42dc-9e2c-5ba3ff54305b-1.jpg",800,400,false],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/8dc42841-e7e9-42dc-9e2c-5ba3ff54305b-1.jpg",800,400,false],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/8dc42841-e7e9-42dc-9e2c-5ba3ff54305b-1-768x384.jpg",768,384,true],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/8dc42841-e7e9-42dc-9e2c-5ba3ff54305b-1.jpg",800,400,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/8dc42841-e7e9-42dc-9e2c-5ba3ff54305b-1.jpg",800,400,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/8dc42841-e7e9-42dc-9e2c-5ba3ff54305b-1.jpg",800,400,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"(\u012era\u0161as remiasi #28dienuissukisseimai pratimu t\u0117vams – ,,U\u017ebaikite sakin\u012f (kiekvienas): ,,Man patinka, kai tu…” Kiekvienas giliai \u0161irdyje jau\u010diame poreik\u012f meilei. 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