{"id":12031,"date":"2021-12-08T22:31:52","date_gmt":"2021-12-08T20:31:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=12031"},"modified":"2021-12-08T22:31:52","modified_gmt":"2021-12-08T20:31:52","slug":"bendra-nesekme-laimejimas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/bendra-nesekme-laimejimas\/","title":{"rendered":"BENDRA NESEKM\u0116 &#8211; LAIM\u0116JIMAS"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Prad\u0117jome 28 dien\u0173 \u0161eimos i\u0161\u0161\u016bk\u012f su tikslu, kaip s\u016bnus \u012fvardino, nebenor\u0117ti u\u017esidaryti po vien\u0105 atskirai ir sutikti Kal\u0117das jausmi\u0161kai kartu. Kitais \u017eod\u017eiais tariant &#8211; sustiprinti \u0161eimos ry\u0161\u012f, pasinaudojant \u0161iuo kalendoriumi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160iandien norisi para\u0161yti apie patirtis, kurios i\u0161 prad\u017ei\u0173 gali atrodyti katostrofa! Arba, kai viskas vyksta ne pagal plan\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Toks buvo b\u016btent \u0161is vakaras. Vaikai dar iki vakarien\u0117s nepasitar\u0119 i\u0161pakavo \u0161ios dienos u\u017eduotis (28 dien\u0173 i\u0161\u0161\u016bkio). S\u016bnus pamat\u0117, kad bus \u017eaidimas. Dukra &#8211; kad papildomai gausime saldaini\u0173. Turb\u016bt jau \u012fsivaizduojate koks likimas laukia vakarien\u0117s, kai tiek smagybi\u0173 prie\u0161 akis?! \ud83e\udd2d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Taip ir buvo. Dukra parei\u0161k\u0117, kad nenori valgyti. O puikiai \u017einojau, kad nori, tik labiau nori saldainio, kur\u012f pamat\u0117\u2026 A\u0161aros, pyktis, nepasitenkinimas i\u0161 jos puses. Mudu su vyru s\u0117d\u0117jome ramiai ir net nesiruo\u0161\u0117me niekur eiti, nusileisti, kad ir kaip nor\u0117josi jaukaus vakaro ramyb\u0117je. Ta\u010diau dukrai reik\u0117jo pavalgyti. Brolis band\u0117 visaip \u012fkalb\u0117ti ses\u0119 valgyti, o ji tik\u0117josi, kad mes ,,atsileisime\u201d ir visgi suvalgysim po saldain\u012f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Deja, nebuvo nei saldaini\u0173, nei bendro \u017eaidimo. Vakaras tuo ir baig\u0117si.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Skamba li\u016bdnai. I\u0161 prad\u017ei\u0173 taip ir buvo, bet v\u0117liau tarp m\u016bs\u0173 stojusi pauz\u0117 leido visiems pajausti, kaip kiekvieno elgesys \u012ftakoja visos \u0161eimos likim\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Paprastai gyvenime \u017emon\u0117s yra link\u0119 ,,stabd\u012f\u201d pa\u0161alinti (m\u016bs\u0173 atveju tai buvo dukra), o \u010dia mes atkakliai laik\u0117mes tikslo ir neplikom n\u0117 vieno nario ,,u\u017e borto\u201d. Leidome visiems pajausti nusivylim\u0105, kad gyvenimas n\u0117ra filmas, kuris visada baigiasi gerai ir laimingai. B\u016bna ir su tokia pabaiga.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Rytoj b\u016btinai visi pasikalb\u0117sime kas nutiko, o \u0161iandien einu miegoti su \u0161ypsena veide, nes pajutau, kad net ir toks, atrodyt\u0173, nes\u0117kmingas vakaras mus labai labai suartino. Galb\u016bt net ir labiau negu smagus pasis\u0117d\u0117jimas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nes vienyb\u0117 ir yra poj\u016btis, kad mes labai tampriai priklausome vienas nuo kito. Tad nuolat teks laviruoti tarp to, ko noriu a\u0161 ir tarp to, ko nori kiti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bet ar tai ir n\u0117ra tikrasis gyvenimo \u017eavesys? \ud83d\udcad<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Prad\u0117jome 28 dien\u0173 \u0161eimos i\u0161\u0161\u016bk\u012f su tikslu, kaip s\u016bnus \u012fvardino, nebenor\u0117ti u\u017esidaryti po vien\u0105 atskirai ir sutikti Kal\u0117das jausmi\u0161kai kartu. Kitais \u017eod\u017eiais tariant &#8211; sustiprinti \u0161eimos ry\u0161\u012f, pasinaudojant \u0161iuo kalendoriumi. \u0160iandien norisi para\u0161yti apie patirtis, kurios i\u0161 prad\u017ei\u0173 gali atrodyti katostrofa! Arba, kai viskas vyksta ne pagal plan\u0105. Toks buvo b\u016btent \u0161is vakaras. 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Kitais \u017eod\u017eiais tariant &#8211; sustiprinti \u0161eimos ry\u0161\u012f, pasinaudojant \u0161iuo kalendoriumi. \u0160iandien norisi para\u0161yti apie patirtis, kurios i\u0161 prad\u017ei\u0173 gali atrodyti katostrofa! Arba, kai viskas vyksta ne pagal plan\u0105. Toks buvo b\u016btent \u0161is vakaras. 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