Pamenate, kai pirm\u0105kart sutikote savo antr\u0105j\u0105 pus\u0119? Kaip viskas \u012fdomu, nauja, \u017eavinga!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Gra\u017eus tas laikas, kai sutinki savo gyvenimo partner\u012f. Nebelieka laiko, erdv\u0117s. Atrodo esi tik tu ir jis\u2026 am\u017einai!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bet su laiku \u012fvyksta \u012fvair\u016bs poky\u010diai ir ta magija dingsta. Sakoma, tai normalu, rutina ir pan. Nors dauguma por\u0173 visgi susiduria su dideliais sunkumais: vien\u0173 keliai i\u0161siskiria, kiti bando vis i\u0161 naujo lipdyti santykius, treti – galvoja, kad viskas yra gerai, taip ir turi b\u016bti arba tiesiog nusibr\u0117\u017eia ai\u0161kias ribas kur jie kartu, o kur – gyvena atskirai. O kas i\u0161 tikro daro mus laimingus?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ry\u0161ys su kitu \u017emogumi. Pirmieji poros metai – \u012frodymas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ir vienas i\u0161 \u012franki\u0173 atnaujinti ry\u0161\u012f – nuolatinis vienas kito vaizdini\u0173 atsinaujinimas. Po daug met\u0173 buvimo kartu \u017emon\u0117s galvoja, kad jau visk\u0105 \u017eino vienas apie kit\u0105, jie nustoja klausin\u0117ti, dom\u0117tis, kalb\u0117tis. Taip po truput\u012f tampame kaip seni patog\u016bs baldai, kuri\u0173 net nepastebime. O i\u0161 ties\u0173 mums kasdien nutinka tiek daug nauj\u0173 dalyk\u0173, kei\u010diasi aplinkos, po\u017ei\u016bris, vertyb\u0117s! Apie tai ir reikia kalb\u0117tis, vis atsinaujinti t\u0105 vaizdini ,,KAS YRA MANO ANTROJI PUS\u0116. KO DAR NE\u017dINAU?\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0160tai kod\u0117l mes \u017eavim\u0117s ma\u017eais vaikais, jie da\u017enai kei\u010diasi! Tada tampa mums \u012fdom\u016bs, norime u\u017esiimti su jais, kalb\u0117tis. Tikiu, kad b\u016bsimos poros turi b\u016bti mokomos jau vaikyst\u0117je kaip pa\u017einti save ir kit\u0105 \u017emog\u0173, kad ateityje lengviau ne tik u\u017emegzt\u0173 ry\u0161\u012f, bet ir sugeb\u0117t\u0173 j\u012f auginti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vienas pavyzdys i\u0161kilo atmintyje. Pamenu prie\u0161 daug met\u0173 vienas vaikinas nor\u0117jo pamaloninti mane ir nupirko man pieno g\u0117rim\u0105. T\u0105 moment\u0105 a\u0161 net sutrikau, nes negal\u0117jau pak\u0119sti pieno! \u017dinoma, a\u0161 baisiausiai \u012fsi\u017eeid\u017eiau ir supykau – kaip taip gali b\u016bti! O vaikinas sutrik\u0119s paai\u0161kino, kad mato mano geriausi\u0105 draug\u0119 nuolat geriant t\u0105 kokteil\u012f, tad galvojo, kad jis patinka ir man. Juk mes draug\u0117s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tada prad\u0117jau akylai tikrinti visus jo veiksmus ir supratau, kad tas \u017emogus bendrauja su visai kita manimi, jis ne\u017eino kas a\u0161, kas man patinka ar ne. Taip pat suvokiau, kad ir a\u0161 neleidau tam \u017emogui pa\u017einti tikrosios man\u0119s, gal bijojau, gal gyvenau kaip filme, tik\u0117dama, kad vaikinas turi pats atsp\u0117ti visk\u0105 apie mane, nustebinti ir pan. Juk niekas nemok\u0117 kaip kuriami santykiai tarp vaikino ir merginos. Kaip gaunasi – taip. Bet santykiuose yra kaip su dar\u017eu – palik be prie\u017ei\u016bros, tai tuoj priaugs pikt\u017eoli\u0173, derliaus nebus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tad dabar suprantu kod\u0117l svarbu, jog vaikai \u017einot\u0173, kad ry\u0161iai su kitais \u017emon\u0117mis savaime nesikuria ir kad \u017emogus nat\u016braliai negali pa\u017einoti kito \u017emogaus. Mes tokie riboti, kiek m\u016bs\u0173 penki poj\u016b\u010dio organai priima ir duoda informacijos – tiek ir te\u017einome. Papildomai savyje susikuriame \u012fvairius, mums artimus ar patogius, vaizdinius ir su jais bendraujame. Kiek tai tikra? Klausimas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Gerai, jeigu dalis informacijos sutampa, o kas jeigu ji kardinaliai prie\u0161inga? Kaip tada komunikuoti? Kaip rasti ka\u017ek\u0105 bendro?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Taigi, gr\u012f\u017etu prie to, kad ma\u017eais \u017eingsneliais \u017eengdami \u012f vienas kito pasaul\u012f ir \u012fsileisdami savo artim\u0105 \u017emog\u0173, mes laimime daug: artumo, supratimo, \u0161ilumos, saugumo poj\u016b\u010dius. Labai tikiuosi, kad m\u016bs\u0173 vaikai bus atkaklesni ir pasinaudos \u0161iais \u012frankiais i\u0161mintingai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
O \u0161iandien vis klausiu sav\u0119s ,,Ar tas, su kuriuo gyvenu, tikrai yra toks, kok\u012f j\u012f matau a\u0161?\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pam\u0105stymui\u2026 \ud83d\ude0c<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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