Nelengva u\u017eduotis u\u017esiimti vaik\u0173 aukl\u0117jimu, kai \u0161irdyje tvyro neu\u017etikrintumas, daugyb\u0117 klausim\u0173 ir daug kas netenka prasm\u0117s\u2026 O gal galima pasinaudoti esama situacija ir i\u0161 to ka\u017eko i\u0161mokti?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kiekvieni t\u0117vai geriausiai pa\u017e\u012fsta savo vaikus. \u0160i\u0173 dien\u0173 \u012fvykiai \u012fne\u0161a daug \u012fvairi\u0173 i\u0161gyvenim\u0173 mums visiems, tame tarpe ir m\u016bs\u0173 vaikams. Mes nusprend\u0117me kalb\u0117ti apie tai, kas vyksta su vaikais. Aptarti \u012fvairius scenarijus ir pan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vaikai supranta tokius dalykus, juk jie nuolatos patys tarpusavyje kariauja. Tik vaikyst\u0117je naudoja vienokias priemon\u0117s, o u\u017eaugus – kitokias. Bet principas tas pats: n\u0117 viena pus\u0117 nenusileid\u017eia. Negali. Ir tai ne \u017emoni\u0173 b\u0117da, o tarp m\u016bs\u0173 veikiantis egoizmas – j\u0117ga, kuri ver\u010dia imtis \u012fvairiausi\u0173 priemoni\u0173 pasiekti to, ko norim ir negalvoti apie pas\u0117kmes kitiems. Ir \u0161iandien matome, kur mus veda toks pasirinkimas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
O mes, kaip t\u0117vai, galime suteikti-sustiprinti vaikams dar vien\u0105 variant\u0105, kad jie gal\u0117t\u0173 rinktis i\u0161 dviej\u0173: nuolatinio karo ir ,,vergavimo\u201d egoizmui (susvetim\u0117jimui, puikybei, ambicijoms, susiskaldymui..) arba draugyst\u0117s (vienyb\u0117s, artumo, meil\u0117s, harmonijos..). <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nuo pirm\u0173 dien\u0173 vaikai tur\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti mokomi tinkam\u0173 santyki\u0173 \u0161ablon\u0173, nusileidim\u0173 d\u0117l bendro tikslo, palaikymo ir ry\u0161io k\u016brimo. Tikiu, kad tik tinkamas aukl\u0117jimas gali pakeisti ateities pasaul\u012f. O aukl\u0117jimas, pirmiausia, prasideda \u0161eimoje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mes savo vaikams sakome juokaudami: ,,\u017dmon\u0117s kariauja, nes neklaus\u0117 savo t\u0117v\u0173, kurie nor\u0117jo i\u0161mokyti juos nusileisti ir kurti ry\u0161\u012f, o ne j\u012f griauti.\u201d. Nepasakojame vis\u0173 detali\u0173 kas vyksta, tai tik politika. Mums svarbu, kad vaikai \u017einot\u0173 kokia \u017emogaus prigimtis, kaip jis veikia ir kokioje sistemoje gyvename. Svarbu, kad visi kartu u\u017eaugtume ir b\u016btume verti vadintis ,,\u017dmon\u0117mis\u201d. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Nelengva u\u017eduotis u\u017esiimti vaik\u0173 aukl\u0117jimu, kai \u0161irdyje tvyro neu\u017etikrintumas, daugyb\u0117 klausim\u0173 ir daug kas netenka prasm\u0117s\u2026 O gal galima pasinaudoti esama situacija ir i\u0161 to ka\u017eko i\u0161mokti? Kiekvieni t\u0117vai geriausiai pa\u017e\u012fsta savo vaikus. \u0160i\u0173 dien\u0173 \u012fvykiai \u012fne\u0161a daug \u012fvairi\u0173 i\u0161gyvenim\u0173 mums visiems, tame tarpe ir m\u016bs\u0173 vaikams. 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