Po ilgo laukimo, m\u016bs\u0173 namus u\u017epl\u016bdo laim\u0117 – dar vienas vaikelis. Greta vis\u0173 d\u017eiaugsmo akimirk\u0173, gim\u0117 ir nerimas – ar sugeb\u0117sime rasti balans\u0105?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nesl\u0117psiu, kad dienotvark\u0117 pasikeit\u0117, nes esame labiau priklausomi nuo k\u016bdikio poreiki\u0173, ta\u010diau visa tai pavert\u0117 mokymosi proces\u0105 dar vertingesn\u012f, nes tame dalyvauja visa \u0161eima. Tarp u\u017eduo\u010di\u0173 darymo, veiklos kartu u\u017esiimame k\u016bdikio mank\u0161ta, maisto ruo\u0161yba, madyn\u0117mis, pasivaik\u0161\u010diojimais gryname ore. Tai nauja patirtis m\u016bs\u0173 penketukui!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Palengv\u0117jimas kilo tada, kuomet pama\u010diau, jog m\u016bs\u0173 anks\u010diau \u012fd\u0117tos pastangos formuojant \u012fpro\u010dius atlieka savo darb\u0105 – vaikai jau buvo \u012fprat\u0119 atlikti tam tikrus dalykus, o dabar juos atlieka savaranki\u0161kai. Kartais net nelaukia man\u0119s. Puikiai veikia principas – vyresnis moko ma\u017eesn\u012f. S\u016bnus paai\u0161kina u\u017eduotis dukrai, kuria naujas, kartu jas atlieka. Esu 100% tikra, kad visa tai yra rezultatas to, kad patys u\u017esiimame su vaikais nuo pat k\u016bdikyst\u0117s ir ,,nepaleid\u017eiame\u201d vadeli\u0173. Kaip sakoma: ,,\u012eprotis tampa antroji prigimtis\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ne kart\u0105 esu organizavusi veiklas vaikams \u012fvairiose renginiuose ir i\u0161kart galima pasakyti, su kuriuo vaiku yra dirbama, o kuris neturi tam tikr\u0173 \u012fpro\u010di\u0173. Ir tai n\u0117ra nei gerai, nei blogai. Tiesiog svarbu \u017einoti, kad nesuformavus tam tikro ritmo – stebuklo nebus ir vaikai patys neims mokytis, kurti… Tam reikalinga nuolatinis darbas, aplinka, kuri maitint\u0173 ir skatint\u0173 j\u0173 id\u0117jas, primint\u0173 ir vertint\u0173 jas. Tai pagrindinis raktas \u012f vaiko savaranki\u0161kum\u0105 ateityje, bei jo po\u017ei\u016br\u012f \u012f tobul\u0117jim\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
O jeigu domina kaip visk\u0105 susp\u0117jame, tai m\u016bs\u0173 dienos ma\u017edaug atrodo taip: kol visi i\u0161sibudiname, kiekvienas turi laisvo laiko. S\u016bnus da\u017eniausiai pie\u0161ia arba ra\u0161in\u0117ja, kol pabunda dukra, tada jau jie \u017eaid\u017eia kartu iki pusry\u010di\u0173 (a\u0161 paruo\u0161iu k\u016bdik\u012f dienai, pagaminu pusry\u010dius). Pavalg\u0119 da\u017eniausiai darome ,,Katino dienas\u201d (k\u016bdikis miega). Jeigu vaikelis aktyvus, tada atidedame u\u017eduotis ir darome ka\u017ek\u0105, kur reikia ma\u017eesn\u0117s mano d\u0117mesio koncentracijos (lipdymas, pie\u0161imas, mank\u0161ta ir pan.). A\u0161 vis dar planuoju savo savait\u0117s veiklas, tik kei\u010diu jas vietomis, dienomis atitinkamai pagal situacij\u0105 namuose.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kartais vaikai susipyksta ir jiems reikia ka\u017eko, kas \u012fjungt\u0173 smegenis ir i\u0161jungt\u0173 emocijas, tad staigiai griebiuosi logini\u0173 \u017eaidim\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kai jie puikiai sutaria, tada dr\u0105siai pasakau tik id\u0117j\u0105 arba pakalbame kartu, apsitariame ir jie savaranki\u0161kai dirba patys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Galb\u016bt nor\u0117t\u0173si vaikams duoti visko daugiau (d\u0117mesio, \u017eini\u0173, praktikos), ta\u010diau kaip viena gera draug\u0117 man sak\u0117:,,Nesikrimsk, kiekvienas vaikas gimsta savo laiku ir gauna tokias s\u0105lygas, koki\u0173 jam reikia tobul\u0117jimui. Pirmam vaikui gal\u0117jai skirti daugiau d\u0117mesio, nes jis buvo vienas, o kitiems vaikams to nebepavyksta padaryti – nekaltink sav\u0119s. Jie savaime mokosi i\u0161 vyresni\u0173 vaik\u0173, o tu jiems duok kiek gali\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tie \u017eod\u017eiai mane gelb\u0117ja, palaiko, guod\u017eia. Be to, gyvenime n\u0117ra pats svarbiausias dalykas \u017einios. Kuo toliau, tuo labiau matome, kad mums begalo tr\u016bksta sutarimo, tarpusavio nusileidim\u0173 ir teising\u0173 \u017emogi\u0161k\u0173j\u0173 santyki\u0173. B\u016btent ties tuo ir dirbame kiekvien\u0105 minut\u0119. Ir d\u017eiugu, kai pastangos pradeda atsipirkti \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Po ilgo laukimo, m\u016bs\u0173 namus u\u017epl\u016bdo laim\u0117 – dar vienas vaikelis. Greta vis\u0173 d\u017eiaugsmo akimirk\u0173, gim\u0117 ir nerimas – ar sugeb\u0117sime rasti balans\u0105? Nesl\u0117psiu, kad dienotvark\u0117 pasikeit\u0117, nes esame labiau priklausomi nuo k\u016bdikio poreiki\u0173, ta\u010diau visa tai pavert\u0117 mokymosi proces\u0105 dar vertingesn\u012f, nes tame dalyvauja visa \u0161eima. Tarp u\u017eduo\u010di\u0173 darymo, veiklos kartu u\u017esiimame k\u016bdikio mank\u0161ta, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":13006,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[61,160,42],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13007","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-izvalgos-ir-praktiniai-patarimai","category-ugdymas-seimoje-priesmokyklinis","category-vaiku-auklejimas-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/9903dcbe-7cae-446f-851c-fb151dee805a.jpg",800,400,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/9903dcbe-7cae-446f-851c-fb151dee805a.jpg",800,400,false],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/9903dcbe-7cae-446f-851c-fb151dee805a.jpg",800,400,false],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/9903dcbe-7cae-446f-851c-fb151dee805a-768x384.jpg",768,384,true],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/9903dcbe-7cae-446f-851c-fb151dee805a.jpg",800,400,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/9903dcbe-7cae-446f-851c-fb151dee805a.jpg",800,400,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/9903dcbe-7cae-446f-851c-fb151dee805a.jpg",800,400,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Po ilgo laukimo, m\u016bs\u0173 namus u\u017epl\u016bdo laim\u0117 – dar vienas vaikelis. Greta vis\u0173 d\u017eiaugsmo akimirk\u0173, gim\u0117 ir nerimas – ar sugeb\u0117sime rasti balans\u0105? Nesl\u0117psiu, kad dienotvark\u0117 pasikeit\u0117, nes esame labiau priklausomi nuo k\u016bdikio poreiki\u0173, ta\u010diau visa tai pavert\u0117 mokymosi proces\u0105 dar vertingesn\u012f, nes tame dalyvauja visa \u0161eima. Tarp u\u017eduo\u010di\u0173 darymo, veiklos kartu u\u017esiimame k\u016bdikio mank\u0161ta,…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13007","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13007"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13007\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13094,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13007\/revisions\/13094"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/13006"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13007"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13007"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13007"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}