{"id":13096,"date":"2022-03-24T23:29:55","date_gmt":"2022-03-24T21:29:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=13096"},"modified":"2022-03-28T02:06:20","modified_gmt":"2022-03-27T23:06:20","slug":"jeigu-vaikas-nenori-mokytis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/jeigu-vaikas-nenori-mokytis\/","title":{"rendered":"JEIGU VAIKAS NENORI MOKYTIS"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Sp\u0117ju daugumai aktualus klausimas: ,,K\u0105 daryti, jeigu vaikas nenori mokytis?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jau atradau kelis atsakymus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>TIKSLAS IR APLINKA<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pirmiausia &#8211; neversti, ta\u010diau ir nepalikti vaiko ,,tiesiog\u201d. Vaikai be krypties nebesivysto, jiems nuolat turime rodyti vien\u0105 \u017eingsnel\u012f pirmyn, nepalikti jiems patiems spr\u0119sti, nes da\u017eniausiai jie pasirinks tai, kur reik\u0117s ma\u017eiausiai pastang\u0173 &#8211; nieko neveikti \ud83d\ude01.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mes, kaip t\u0117vai, turime kreipti vaikus link tam tikro tikslo, kur\u012f i\u0161sikeliame \u0161eimoje ar asmeni\u0161kai. Tad jeigu vaikas atsisako atlikti vienoki\u0105 ar kitoki\u0105 veikl\u0105 &#8211; gerai, bet tu\u0161\u010diai laiko nereik\u0117t\u0173 \u0161vaistyti. Reikt\u0173 \u012fsiklausyti link ko \u0161iandien linksta vaiko \u0161irdis ir tai panaudoti kaip \u012frank\u012f priart\u0117ti prie tikslo. Kaip? Nuolat s\u0105moningai formuoti tikslui tarnaujan\u010di\u0105 aplink\u0105. Kod\u0117l? M\u016bs\u0173 norai kyla i\u0161 aplinkos: pama\u010diau, taip daro visi &#8211; noriu. Pavyzd\u017eiui, jeigu vaikas domisi sportu, mums reikia aplink j\u012f organizuoti tokias aplinkas, kurios kalb\u0117s teigiamai apie sport\u0105 ir vengti toki\u0173, kurios \u0161i\u0105 srit\u012f menkins. Prie\u0161ingu atveju vaiko noras tiesiog u\u017eges. Ir taip nutinka labai da\u017anai\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tod\u0117l svarbu tur\u0117ti tiksl\u0105 bei j\u012f palaikan\u010di\u0105 aplink\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u0116V\u0172 IR VAIK\u0172 RY\u0160YS<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kitas man irgi svarbus dalykas, lemiantis vaik\u0173 \u012fsitraukim\u0105 \u012f veiklas ar mokymosi proces\u0105 yra t\u0117v\u0173 ir vaik\u0173 ry\u0161ys. Kalbant atvirai, tai tam skiriu, saky\u010diau, apie 80% m\u016bs\u0173 laiko. Jeigu jau\u010diu, kad t\u0105 dien\u0105 negirdime vienas kito, vaikas d\u0117l ka\u017eko \u012fsi\u017eeid\u0119s, a\u0161 v\u0117l ,,ka\u017ekur kitur\u201d, tada jokia akademin\u0117 veikla nepasiseka ir ie\u0161kau b\u016bd\u0173 kaip atnaujinti m\u016ba\u0173 draugyst\u0119, kaip suart\u0117ti, visiems prisiminti kod\u0117l mes mokom\u0117s ir pan. Kitu atveju a\u0161 jau\u010diu, kad nesu vaikui autoritetas ir jis specialiai atmeta visus mano pasi\u016blymus arba atlieka visk\u0105 atmestinai. Ir tai nestebina, nes tokia jau \u017emogaus prigimtis. A\u0161 pati matau, kuomet yra ka\u017ekokia \u012ftampa su kitu \u017emogumi, tada ma\u017eiausiai norisi jo klausyti ir daryti k\u0105 jis si\u016blo. Tod\u0117l visada stengiuosi neapleisti mano ir vaik\u0173 ry\u0161io, nuolat siekti jo stiprinimo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kai gerai sutariame su vaikais, tai jie, dalyvaudami si\u016blomoje veikloje, tarsi nori suteikti mums d\u017eiaugsmo. Kai ry\u0161ys sutrukin\u0117ja &#8211; sutrinka ir mokymosi procesas. Manau, kad toks bangavimas tik \u012f naud\u0105, nes taip mokom\u0117s i\u0161girsti vienas kit\u0105, suart\u0117ti, tobul\u0117ti ir nepaleisti savo tikslo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u012ePRO\u010cI\u0172 FORMAVIMAS<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pasteb\u0117jau, kad didel\u012f vaidmen\u012f vaidina ir \u012fprotis. Kai vaikai \u012fpranta ka\u017ek\u0105 daryti, tai tampa j\u0173 antr\u0105ja prigimtimi. Labai sunku siekti tikslo jeigu n\u0117ra nuoseklumo, tam tikro veiksm\u0173 pasikartojimo, kuris leid\u017eia vaikams jaustis u\u017etikrintai, saugiai. \u017dinoma, visada atsiranda vietos ir spontani\u0161kumui, ta\u010diau \u012fprotis i\u0161laikyti mokymosi proces\u0105 gyv\u0105 labai svarbus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>VAIKAS MATO IR KOPIJUOJA<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar vienas svarbiausi\u0173 \u012franki\u0173, su\u017eadinan\u010di\u0173 vaiko \u017eingeidum\u0105, nor\u0105 mokytis &#8211; asmeninis pavyzdys. Ir neb\u016btinai turime s\u0117d\u0117ti su matematikos vadov\u0117liu, ta\u010diau turime transliuoti mokymosi naud\u0105 ir svarb\u0105. Jeigu namuose nevertinamas mokslas, \u017einios, tai vaikas irgi matys visa tai kaip nesvarb\u0173. Ne kart\u0105 gird\u0117jau kaip t\u0117vai pergyvena, jog j\u0173 vaikai nebeskaito knyg\u0173, nors patys pripa\u017e\u012fsta, jog nepamena kada buvo pa\u0117m\u0119 knyg\u0105 \u012f rankas. Vaikai nemato t\u0117v\u0173 to darant, tod\u0117l ir patys to nenori. Tod\u0117l svarbu apsispr\u0119sti ko mes siekiame kartu su vaikais ir kartais net dirbtinai modeliuoti situacijas, kad vaikus nuolat supt\u0173 tinkama aplinka su tinkamais pavyzd\u017eiais (kartais tik klausimas su\u017eaid\u017eia labai taikliai!).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yra ir daugiau faktori\u0173, \u012ftakojan\u010di\u0173 vaiko nor\u0105 mokytis, bet apsiribosiu \u0161iais pagrindiniais, kuriuos tarpusavyje derinant pasiekiu teigiamo rezultato \ud83d\ude01.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Taigi, visk\u0105 apibendrinant, vaiko noras mokytis priklauso nuo tikslo siekio, aplinkos, \u012fpro\u010di\u0173, santykio su t\u0117vais, t\u0117v\u0173 pavyzd\u017eio ir t\u0117v\u0173 ry\u017eto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"820\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pagarbiai.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2814\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pagarbiai.jpg 820w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pagarbiai-300x132.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pagarbiai-768x337.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 820px) 100vw, 820px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sp\u0117ju daugumai aktualus klausimas: ,,K\u0105 daryti, jeigu vaikas nenori mokytis?\u201d Jau atradau kelis atsakymus. TIKSLAS IR APLINKA Pirmiausia &#8211; neversti, ta\u010diau ir nepalikti vaiko ,,tiesiog\u201d. Vaikai be krypties nebesivysto, jiems nuolat turime rodyti vien\u0105 \u017eingsnel\u012f pirmyn, nepalikti jiems patiems spr\u0119sti, nes da\u017eniausiai jie pasirinks tai, kur reik\u0117s ma\u017eiausiai pastang\u0173 &#8211; nieko neveikti \ud83d\ude01. 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TIKSLAS IR APLINKA Pirmiausia &#8211; neversti, ta\u010diau ir nepalikti vaiko ,,tiesiog\u201d. Vaikai be krypties nebesivysto, jiems nuolat turime rodyti vien\u0105 \u017eingsnel\u012f pirmyn, nepalikti jiems patiems spr\u0119sti, nes da\u017eniausiai jie pasirinks tai, kur reik\u0117s ma\u017eiausiai pastang\u0173 &#8211; nieko neveikti \ud83d\ude01. 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