{"id":13138,"date":"2022-03-31T22:52:25","date_gmt":"2022-03-31T19:52:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=13138"},"modified":"2022-04-03T23:30:06","modified_gmt":"2022-04-03T20:30:06","slug":"mama-nesigedyk-to","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/mama-nesigedyk-to\/","title":{"rendered":"MAMA, NESIG\u0116DYK TO"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Kartais u\u017esimir\u0161tame, kad \u017emogus nenustojo tobul\u0117ti. Kaskart vis atrandama nauj\u0173 ir nauj\u0173 fakt\u0173 apie \u017emones, mus supan\u010dius d\u0117snius.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tapusi mama, nekart gird\u0117jau patarimus nene\u0161ioti vaik\u0173, dar nuo k\u016bdikyst\u0117s pratinti juos miegoti lovel\u0117je ir pan. Galb\u016bt seniau ir buvo prie\u017eas\u010di\u0173 taip elgtis, bet \u0161iandien specialistai teigia, jog kaip tik reikia k\u016bdikiui skirti daug d\u0117mesio, glostymo, mylavimo. Nepalikti vieno per ilgai, nuolat kalbinti, \u0161ypsotis, bendrauti ramiai. Kiek \u012fmanoma ne\u0161iotis vaikel\u012f visur kartu su savimi. Vaiku\u010diui reikia saugumo jausmo, kad jis gal\u0117t\u0173 sveikai vystytis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Deja vis dar ma\u017eai mokoma koks ypatingas yra mamos ir k\u016bdikio ry\u0161ys. Bet d\u017eiugu, kad \u0161iuolaikin\u0117s mamos domisi tuo ir kei\u010di\u0105 po\u017ei\u016br\u012f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pamenu kiek daug sulaukdavau neigiam\u0173 gatv\u0117je komentar\u0173, pama\u010dius mane su vaikeliu ne\u0161iokl\u0117je. Vienas geriausi\u0173 buvo: ,,Koks siaubas! Negi tavo vyras neturi pinig\u0173 nupirkti vaikui ve\u017eim\u0117l\u012f?!\u201d. \ud83e\udd23 O a\u0161 kiekvien\u00e0 sekund\u0119 stengiausi apgaubti vaikel\u012f \u0161iluma ir \u0161velnumu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nors pripa\u017einsiu, keisti komentarai ir spaudimas i\u0161 aplinkos kartais priversdavo jaustis nesmagiai. Bet esu d\u0117kinga \u017emon\u0117ms, kurie vis primin\u0117, kad ma\u017eyliui \u0161is etapas labai sud\u0117tingas: jis devynis m\u0117nesius gyveno mamos pilvelyje, o gimus, i\u0161kart j\u012f atakuoja milijonai bakterij\u0173, kyla dugyb\u0117 nauj\u0173 poj\u016b\u010di\u0173, reikia i\u0161mokti kv\u0117puoti, \u017e\u012fsti, jud\u0117ti, baugina nepa\u017e\u012fstastami rei\u0161kiniai. Tod\u0117l pirmaisias m\u0117nesiais jam labai reikia mamos artumo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Primin\u0117, kad pirmus metus &#8211; kuo ma\u017eiau kit\u0173 rank\u0173 \u010diupin\u0117jimo ir kuo daugiau ry\u0161io su mama (tiek fizinio, tiek emocinio). Vaiko emocin\u0117 b\u016bkl\u0117 lemia jo tolimesn\u0119 raid\u0105, tad, manau, i\u0161girsusios komentarus, kad per daug ne\u0161iojame, supuojame, myluojame vaikel\u012f, netur\u0117tume jausti spaudimo pasiteisinti kitiems ar d\u0117l to g\u0117dytis. Juolab bijoti! Ver\u010diau did\u017eiuotis tuo, kad kuriame ry\u0161\u012f su vaiku ir galime m\u0117gautis \u0161iuo ypatingu laiku, kai mama ir vaikas gyvena tarsi vienas organizmas, palaikantis vienas kit\u0105 ir padedantis vienas kitam tobul\u0117ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nepamir\u0161kime to! \ud83d\ude4f\ud83c\udffb\ud83d\udda4<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"820\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/imamidesinys.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3997\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/imamidesinys.jpg 820w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/imamidesinys-300x132.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/imamidesinys-768x337.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 820px) 100vw, 820px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kartais u\u017esimir\u0161tame, kad \u017emogus nenustojo tobul\u0117ti. Kaskart vis atrandama nauj\u0173 ir nauj\u0173 fakt\u0173 apie \u017emones, mus supan\u010dius d\u0117snius. Tapusi mama, nekart gird\u0117jau patarimus nene\u0161ioti vaik\u0173, dar nuo k\u016bdikyst\u0117s pratinti juos miegoti lovel\u0117je ir pan. Galb\u016bt seniau ir buvo prie\u017eas\u010di\u0173 taip elgtis, bet \u0161iandien specialistai teigia, jog kaip tik reikia k\u016bdikiui skirti daug d\u0117mesio, glostymo, mylavimo. 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Kaskart vis atrandama nauj\u0173 ir nauj\u0173 fakt\u0173 apie \u017emones, mus supan\u010dius d\u0117snius. Tapusi mama, nekart gird\u0117jau patarimus nene\u0161ioti vaik\u0173, dar nuo k\u016bdikyst\u0117s pratinti juos miegoti lovel\u0117je ir pan. 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