Jis d\u0117l to nekaltas. Galb\u016bt teko gird\u0117ti, kad suklyd\u0119s kaltas b\u016bna ne mokinys, o mokytojas, nes jis nepakankamai gerai paruo\u0161\u0117 mokin\u012f. Taip pat yra ir vaik\u0173 aukl\u0117jime.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vaikai yra t\u0117v\u0173 elgesio rezultatas. Tad m\u016bs\u0173 netinkami ar neapgavoti pavyzd\u017eiai, juokeliai ar nutyl\u0117jimai tampa vaiko elgesio \u0161ablonais. Tad vaikui padarius ka\u017ek\u0105 negero, reikt\u0173 neu\u017esipulti vaiko (kas sunkiausia padaryti \ud83d\ude05). Ver\u010diau t\u0117vams svarbu ugdyti savyje sugeb\u0117jim\u0105 pasteb\u0117ti tai, ko tr\u016bksta j\u0173 aukl\u0117jime ir u\u017epildyti tai. Taip mokom\u0117s ko nemoka m\u016bs\u0173 vaikai. Ir i\u0161 toki\u0173 situacij\u0173 gauname pamokas, kuriose turime planuoti, modeliuoti skirtingas situacijas apie tuos netinkamus aspektus, dalykus, kad vaikai i\u0161jaust\u0173 juos iki pat kaulo \u010diulp\u0173. Vieno pokalbio ar \u012fsp\u016bd\u017eio neu\u017etenka. Tai nuolatinis darbas, kuriame pagrindinis \u012frankis – pavyzdys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
T\u0117vai, savo pavyzd\u017eiu, parodo vaikui savo po\u017ei\u016br\u012f \u012f gyvenim\u0105, \u012f ribas, tam tikras situacijas ir pan. Tod\u0117l jie visada turi b\u016bti \u0161alia vaiko ir paai\u0161kinti jam k\u0105 jie mato, girdi, parodyti kaip jie elgiasi su viskuo, kas yra prie\u0161ais vaik\u0105. Laikui b\u0117gant vaikas ima matyti kaip t\u0117vai pasielgt\u0173 ir i\u0161 to ta\u0161ko daro sprendimus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A\u0161 kasdien pastebiu, kad i\u0161kilus kokiai nemaloniai situacijai ir vaikams pasielgus netinkamai, norisi juos pakeisti, ta\u010diau visa paslaptis ir gludi tame, kad aukl\u0117jimas nevyksta tiesiogiai, per prievart\u0105 ar j\u0117g\u0105. Tu rodai, reaguoju, komentuoji ir u\u017e minut\u0117s jau matai, kad vaikai m\u0117gd\u017eioja tave. Ir tas vaizdas ne visada mielas \u0161ird\u017eiai \ud83d\ude48. Bet jeigu \u017evelgtume \u012f vaik\u0105 kaip molio gabal\u0105, o vaik\u0173 aukl\u0117jim\u0105 – \u017emogaus k\u016brim\u0105, tai proceso metu turi b\u016bti visko. Tik svarbu vis sau priminti, kad ne molio gabalas kaltas, kad n\u0117ra tinkamos formos, bet skulptorius, kuris savo veiksmais tos formos nei\u0161gavo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Taigi, jeigu vaikas elgiasi netinkamai, vadinasi ka\u017ekur ka\u017ek\u0105 praleidau ir turiu atrasti t\u0105 ,,gedim\u0105\u201d, savo pavyzd\u017eiu patobulinti ir \u012fra\u0161yti tinkam\u0105 elgesio \u0161ablon\u0105. Argi ne \u017eavu?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Jis d\u0117l to nekaltas. Galb\u016bt teko gird\u0117ti, kad suklyd\u0119s kaltas b\u016bna ne mokinys, o mokytojas, nes jis nepakankamai gerai paruo\u0161\u0117 mokin\u012f. Taip pat yra ir vaik\u0173 aukl\u0117jime. Vaikai yra t\u0117v\u0173 elgesio rezultatas. Tad m\u016bs\u0173 netinkami ar neapgavoti pavyzd\u017eiai, juokeliai ar nutyl\u0117jimai tampa vaiko elgesio \u0161ablonais. Tad vaikui padarius ka\u017ek\u0105 negero, reikt\u0173 neu\u017esipulti vaiko (kas sunkiausia […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":13140,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[42],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13141","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-vaiku-auklejimas-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/b795ab9a-e7b9-4ddc-8e15-fbf2e83a34ba.jpg",800,400,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/b795ab9a-e7b9-4ddc-8e15-fbf2e83a34ba.jpg",800,400,false],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/b795ab9a-e7b9-4ddc-8e15-fbf2e83a34ba.jpg",800,400,false],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/b795ab9a-e7b9-4ddc-8e15-fbf2e83a34ba-768x384.jpg",768,384,true],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/b795ab9a-e7b9-4ddc-8e15-fbf2e83a34ba.jpg",800,400,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/b795ab9a-e7b9-4ddc-8e15-fbf2e83a34ba.jpg",800,400,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/b795ab9a-e7b9-4ddc-8e15-fbf2e83a34ba.jpg",800,400,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Jis d\u0117l to nekaltas. Galb\u016bt teko gird\u0117ti, kad suklyd\u0119s kaltas b\u016bna ne mokinys, o mokytojas, nes jis nepakankamai gerai paruo\u0161\u0117 mokin\u012f. Taip pat yra ir vaik\u0173 aukl\u0117jime. Vaikai yra t\u0117v\u0173 elgesio rezultatas. Tad m\u016bs\u0173 netinkami ar neapgavoti pavyzd\u017eiai, juokeliai ar nutyl\u0117jimai tampa vaiko elgesio \u0161ablonais. Tad vaikui padarius ka\u017ek\u0105 negero, reikt\u0173 neu\u017esipulti vaiko (kas sunkiausia…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13141","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13141"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13141\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13142,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13141\/revisions\/13142"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/13140"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13141"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13141"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13141"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}