{"id":13552,"date":"2022-05-16T00:11:16","date_gmt":"2022-05-15T21:11:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=13552"},"modified":"2022-05-16T00:28:15","modified_gmt":"2022-05-15T21:28:15","slug":"gyventi-tik-pridedant","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/gyventi-tik-pridedant\/","title":{"rendered":"GYVENTI TIK PRIDEDANT"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Gal pasteb\u0117jote, kad, kai reikia sukurti ka\u017ak\u0105 naujo ar pertvarkyti jau esam\u0105 sistem\u0105, \u017emon\u0117s yra link\u0119 visk\u0105 sena sunaikinti ir prad\u0117ti nuo \u0161varaus popieriaus lapo, savaip.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kartais tai vienintel\u0117 i\u0161eitis, bet yra sri\u010di\u0173, kuriose toks po\u017ei\u016bris gali b\u016bti ir pra\u017e\u016btis. Viena i\u0161 toki\u0173 &#8211; santykiai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fainas dalykas yra gyventi vis pridedant, papildant partner\u012f. Mokausi to i\u0161 savo vyro. Mane \u017eavi jo pavyzdys. Pavyzd\u017eiui, mes vaik\u0173 aukl\u0117jime turime bendr\u0105 krypt\u012f ir laikom\u0117s vieningos nuomon\u0117s, nes abu suprantame, kad vaikai i\u0161 t\u0117v\u0173 turi gauti ai\u0161ki\u0105 vien\u0105 krypt\u012f. Nenorime j\u0173 painioti ar sukurti vietos manipuliacijai. Ta\u010diau b\u016bna, jog a\u0161 pamatau, kad ka\u017ekas nesuveikia ir reikia keisti strategij\u0105 ar m\u016bs\u0173, kaip t\u0117v\u0173, pozicij\u0105. Ir tada i\u0161kart veikiu, mat ne visada sp\u0117ju aptarti to su vyru.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ir \u010dia vyrui du variantai: nesutikti su naujove ir prad\u0117ti diskutuoti arba susilaikyti ir prat\u0119sti, papildyti, bandant pateisinti mano pasirinkim\u0105. Man labai daug dr\u0105sos ir j\u0117g\u0173 veikti duoda tai, kad mano vyras nekritikuoja ar nekaltina kod\u0117l ka\u017ekas be jokio persp\u0117jimo staiga pasikeit\u0117, neparodo vaikams, kad ka\u017ekas \u010dia ne taip, ne\u017eemina mano autoriteto j\u0173 akyse. Prie\u0161ingai, jis palaiko mane. Net jeigu a\u0161 ir kartais suklystu &#8211; jis vistiek bando imituoti tai, k\u0105 a\u0161 darau. O kit\u0105kart a\u0161 darau t\u0105 pat\u012f jo at\u017evilgiu. Nepuolu mokyti ar komentuoti, bet priimu naujas \u017eaidimo taisykles, kurias v\u0117liau (vaikams negirdint) aptariame.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Visame tame atsiranda ka\u017ekoks bendras \u017eaidimas, bendras subtilus ,,\u0161okis\u201d, kuriame ugdosi jautrumas reakcijoms, situacijoms. Gyvenimas tampa nuolat atsinaujinantis, nes negali nusp\u0117ti koki\u0105 form\u0105 \u012fgaus vienos ar kitos id\u0117jos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Svarbiausia, kad tose pastangose jauti palaikym\u0105, kuris nuima visus blokus, \u012ftamp\u0105, leid\u017eia abiems atrasti kokie esame i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173, padeda tobul\u0117ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tikra dovana sugeb\u0117ti ,,perlipti\u201d per savo ,,A\u0161\u201d ir bent po truput\u012f pasistengti prid\u0117ti prie jau esamo dalyko, vietoj to, kad kaskart griauti prad\u0117tus pamatus. Taip niekada ir nepastatysime viso namo. Namo, kuriame, abu gal\u0117sime jaustis lygiaver\u010diai, mylintys ir mylimi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"820\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pagarbiai.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2814\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pagarbiai.jpg 820w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pagarbiai-300x132.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pagarbiai-768x337.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 820px) 100vw, 820px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Gal pasteb\u0117jote, kad, kai reikia sukurti ka\u017ak\u0105 naujo ar pertvarkyti jau esam\u0105 sistem\u0105, \u017emon\u0117s yra link\u0119 visk\u0105 sena sunaikinti ir prad\u0117ti nuo \u0161varaus popieriaus lapo, savaip. Kartais tai vienintel\u0117 i\u0161eitis, bet yra sri\u010di\u0173, kuriose toks po\u017ei\u016bris gali b\u016bti ir pra\u017e\u016btis. Viena i\u0161 toki\u0173 &#8211; santykiai. Fainas dalykas yra gyventi vis pridedant, papildant partner\u012f. Mokausi to [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":13551,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[44],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13552","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-vyrai-moterys-santuoka-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/f3e93427-edff-4512-9d10-91c772de34e6.jpg",800,400,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/f3e93427-edff-4512-9d10-91c772de34e6.jpg",800,400,false],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/f3e93427-edff-4512-9d10-91c772de34e6.jpg",800,400,false],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/f3e93427-edff-4512-9d10-91c772de34e6-768x384.jpg",768,384,true],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/f3e93427-edff-4512-9d10-91c772de34e6.jpg",800,400,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/f3e93427-edff-4512-9d10-91c772de34e6.jpg",800,400,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/f3e93427-edff-4512-9d10-91c772de34e6.jpg",800,400,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Gal pasteb\u0117jote, kad, kai reikia sukurti ka\u017ak\u0105 naujo ar pertvarkyti jau esam\u0105 sistem\u0105, \u017emon\u0117s yra link\u0119 visk\u0105 sena sunaikinti ir prad\u0117ti nuo \u0161varaus popieriaus lapo, savaip. Kartais tai vienintel\u0117 i\u0161eitis, bet yra sri\u010di\u0173, kuriose toks po\u017ei\u016bris gali b\u016bti ir pra\u017e\u016btis. Viena i\u0161 toki\u0173 &#8211; santykiai. Fainas dalykas yra gyventi vis pridedant, papildant partner\u012f. 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