Ar \u012fsivaizduojate gyvenim\u0105 be konkurencijos?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pauz\u0117 pam\u0105stymui\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ar \u012fsivaizduojate kiek atliekame veiksm\u0173, kuri\u0173 i\u0161 tikro mums nereikia ir kas mums net nepatinka?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kod\u0117l? Nes kitas taip daro. Kitas tai turi. Kitas to nori. O kur a\u0161? Ko noriu a\u0161?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Aplinkui tiek triuk\u0161mo, lyginimo, konkurencijos, kad sud\u0117tinga i\u0161girsti tikruosius savo poreikius. Visada ir visur viskas matuojama tarp daugiau ir ma\u017eiau, geriau ir blogiau. N\u0117ra net kada sustoti ir \u012fsiklausyti \u012f save.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mes galvojame, kad mes vystom\u0117s konkuruodami. Tai yra problema, nes mes i\u0161 ties\u0173 liekame be\u017ed\u017eion\u0117s lygyje: k\u0105 turi kitas \u017emogus – a\u0161 irgi privalau tur\u0117ti. Taip \u017emogus sav\u0119s nevysto. Jis nori tur\u0117ti savyje kit\u0173 savybes, o pats sav\u0119s neatskleid\u017eia. Tokie dalykai priveda \u017emonij\u0105 prie degradacijos. Niekas nenori b\u016bti savimi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Net ir aukl\u0117dami vaikus, viduje galvojame, kad jeigu mano vaikas nekonkuruoja su kitais, tai kas jis, k\u0105 jis i\u0161moks i\u0161 kit\u0173? Bet tikrasis mokymasis ir sav\u0119s pa\u017einimas nevyksta tokiu b\u016bdu. Vaikai ir turi b\u016bti prie\u0161ingi vienas kitam, tik jie turi konkuruoti teigiamu b\u016bdu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
T\u0117vams nereikia paimti kit\u0173 pavyzd\u017eio ir elgtis taip, kaip kiti. Versti vaiko b\u016bti kaip kiti. T\u0117vai tur\u0117t\u0173 tur\u0117ti visi\u0161kai skirtingus standartus, jiems artimas vertybes ir nukreipti ta kryptimi savo vaik\u0105. Palaikyti j\u012f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Noras konkuruoti yra instinktyvus, prigimtinis, tod\u0117l \u010dia reikalingas tvirtas vidinis apsisprendimas: arba einame kartu su prigimtimi, arba j\u0105 pakei\u010diame. Ne\u012fmanoma laim\u0117ti abejose. Arba mes skatiname save ir vaik\u0105 eiti kartu su tais ,,herojais\u2019\u2019 arba mokom\u0117s kitoki\u0173 vertybi\u0173, kurios galb\u016bt n\u0117ra populiarios visuomen\u0117je, bet leis atrasti ir realizuoti tikr\u0105j\u012f save.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Ar \u012fsivaizduojate gyvenim\u0105 be konkurencijos? Pauz\u0117 pam\u0105stymui\u2026 Ar \u012fsivaizduojate kiek atliekame veiksm\u0173, kuri\u0173 i\u0161 tikro mums nereikia ir kas mums net nepatinka? Kod\u0117l? Nes kitas taip daro. Kitas tai turi. Kitas to nori. O kur a\u0161? Ko noriu a\u0161? Aplinkui tiek triuk\u0161mo, lyginimo, konkurencijos, kad sud\u0117tinga i\u0161girsti tikruosius savo poreikius. 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