{"id":13806,"date":"2022-06-26T22:44:53","date_gmt":"2022-06-26T19:44:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=13806"},"modified":"2022-06-27T21:16:40","modified_gmt":"2022-06-27T18:16:40","slug":"vaiku-auklejimas-ar-smurtas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/vaiku-auklejimas-ar-smurtas\/","title":{"rendered":"VAIK\u0172 AUKL\u0116JIMAS IR ,,SMURTAS\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Aukl\u0117jime tos ribos tokios plonyt\u0117s. Ir s\u0105moningiems t\u0117vams tenka vis tas ribas br\u0117\u017eti. Ir turb\u016bt ne a\u0161 viena susiduriu su \u012fvairiom aplinkini\u0173 reakcijom, kurios realiai sukritikuoja tave, bet sprendimo, pagalbos ar palaikymo neduoda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kai vaikai i\u0161provokuoja tam tikras situacijas, da\u017enai pasimeti ir nebe\u017einai kaip elgtis. Aplinkiniai visais atvejais randa k\u0105 sukritikuoti, o tu i\u0161 baim\u0117s leidi viskam likti kaip yra arba stengiesi kuo grei\u010diau visk\u0105 nuraminti, o vaikai tai mato ir tuo naudojasi. Vaikams nebelieka joki\u0173 rib\u0173, o be j\u0173 ir aukl\u0117jimo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pavyzd\u017eiui, vaikas su visais r\u016bbais lipa i vanden\u012f, t\u0117vai i\u0161traukia j\u012f, jis v\u0117l lipa, t\u0117vai v\u0117l traukia ir drausmina \u017eod\u017eiu. Kol vyksta bandymas draugi\u0161kai susitarti, da\u017ena aplinkini\u0173 reakcija: ,,Siaubas, t\u0117vai visai nesusitvarko su savo vaiku. Ar jiems i\u0161 viso galima b\u016bti t\u0117vais?\u201d. Situacija sud\u0117ting\u0117ja. Vaikas ima dr\u0105skytis, r\u0117kti, \u0161aukti. T\u0117vai priversti laikyti vaik\u0105, kad \u0161is nepasidaryt\u0173 sau \u017e\u0105los ar neb\u0117gt\u0173 v\u0117l \u012f vanden\u012f ir nepask\u0119st\u0173, apimtas nervinio priepolio. Tada i\u0161 aplinkos pasigirsta v\u0117l komentarai: ,,Siaubas, t\u0117vai smurtauja prie\u0161 vaik\u0105\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Abiem atvejais \u017emon\u0117s \u012f\u017evelgia smurt\u0105. Pirmuoju &#8211; neprie\u017ei\u016br\u0105, antruoju &#8211; panaudot\u0105 fizin\u0119 j\u0117g\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bet vargu ar paklausti gal\u0117t\u0173 atsakyti, kaip elgtis t\u0117vams tokiu atveju?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Taip ir auga naujoji karta, su i\u0161 baim\u0117s sukaustytais t\u00e8vais..Tikrai labai da\u017enai matome tokias situacijas. Tod\u0117l naudinga pasianalizuoti ,,smurto prie\u0161 vaik\u0105\u201d s\u0105vok\u0105, kad viduje nejaustume baim\u0117s, o tvirtai \u017einotume k\u0105 mes, kaip mylintys vaiko t\u0117vai, darome.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Taip pat ir pasitikrintume ar savo aukl\u0117jimu nenaudojame smurto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>P.S. ne visada panaudota fizin\u0117 j\u0117ga yra laikomas smurtas. Apie tai pla\u010diau \u012fstatymo apra\u0161e. Gero skaitymo: <a href=\"https:\/\/socmin.lrv.lt\/lt\/veiklos-sritys\/seima-ir-vaikai\/vaiko-teisiu-apsauga\/smurto-pries-vaikus-prevencija\">https:\/\/socmin.lrv.lt\/lt\/veiklos-sritys\/seima-ir-vaikai\/vaiko-teisiu-apsauga\/smurto-pries-vaikus-prevencija<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Aukl\u0117jime tos ribos tokios plonyt\u0117s. Ir s\u0105moningiems t\u0117vams tenka vis tas ribas br\u0117\u017eti. Ir turb\u016bt ne a\u0161 viena susiduriu su \u012fvairiom aplinkini\u0173 reakcijom, kurios realiai sukritikuoja tave, bet sprendimo, pagalbos ar palaikymo neduoda. Kai vaikai i\u0161provokuoja tam tikras situacijas, da\u017enai pasimeti ir nebe\u017einai kaip elgtis. Aplinkiniai visais atvejais randa k\u0105 sukritikuoti, o tu i\u0161 baim\u0117s [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":13765,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[42],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13806","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-vaiku-auklejimas-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/679726c5-0076-46e9-bcc1-325b5ab43a7f.jpg",1366,683,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/679726c5-0076-46e9-bcc1-325b5ab43a7f-800x683.jpg",800,683,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/679726c5-0076-46e9-bcc1-325b5ab43a7f-800x400.jpg",800,400,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/679726c5-0076-46e9-bcc1-325b5ab43a7f-768x384.jpg",768,384,true],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/679726c5-0076-46e9-bcc1-325b5ab43a7f-1024x512.jpg",1024,512,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/679726c5-0076-46e9-bcc1-325b5ab43a7f.jpg",1366,683,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/679726c5-0076-46e9-bcc1-325b5ab43a7f.jpg",1366,683,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Aukl\u0117jime tos ribos tokios plonyt\u0117s. 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