{"id":13809,"date":"2022-06-27T21:14:46","date_gmt":"2022-06-27T18:14:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=13809"},"modified":"2022-06-27T21:14:51","modified_gmt":"2022-06-27T18:14:51","slug":"vaiku-emocijos-pyktis-ar-nusivylimas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/vaiku-emocijos-pyktis-ar-nusivylimas\/","title":{"rendered":"VAIK\u0172 EMOCIJOS |PYKTIS AR NUSIVYLIMAS?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Pastaruoju laiku skiriu daug d\u0117mesio tyrin\u0117jimui. Vaik\u0173 reakcij\u0173 tyrin\u0117jimui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yra vaik\u0173, kuriems s\u0105voka ,,lankstumas\u201d visai nepa\u017e\u012fstama. Jeigu ka\u017ekas \u012fvyko ne pagal jo plan\u0105, jame kyla nusivylimas, kuris pasirei\u0161kia pyk\u010dio, agresijos priepoliu arba yra u\u017eslopinamas viduje. Paprastai visi mes neb\u016bname patenkinti, kai esame i\u0161stumiami i\u0161 savo komforto zonos, ta\u010diau vienaip ar kitaip stengiam\u0117s su tuo viduje dirbti. O niekas ir nepuola peraukl\u0117ti suaugusio \u017emogaus. O su vaikas &#8211; prie\u0161ingai. Kai jiems b\u016bna sunku prisiderinti, susitaikyti, nusileisti &#8211; juose kyla protr\u016bkis. Jie neturi i\u0161ugdyto sugeb\u0117jimo pa\u017ei\u016br\u0117ti \u012f visk\u0105 lanks\u010diai. O da\u017enai ir t\u0117vai savo disciplina neugdo to lankstumo. Tad vaikas pasimeta ir reaguoja taip, kaip gaunasi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nesu psicholog\u0117, bet esu mama, kuriai r\u016bpi kaip pad\u0117ti savo vaikams i\u0161gyventi nusivylimo b\u016bsenas, i\u0161mokti gyvenime b\u016bti lanks\u010diais, pa\u017einti save ir kitus. Tokie \u012fg\u016bd\u017eiai tiesiog reikalingi kuriant stabilius ir s\u0117kmingus santykius su kitais.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tik vienetai supranta koks tai svarbus darbas, reikalaujantis atlaikyti aplinkini\u0173 spaudim\u0105, kritik\u0105, prie\u0161i\u0161kum\u0105. Bet, ei! Gal\u0173 gale, tai mano vaikai, a\u0161 kartu su jais augu ir tik a\u0161 galiu jam pad\u0117ti. Kaio nor\u0117\u010diau, kad visuomen\u0117je vyraut\u0173 principas ,,Ne ertink vaisiaus skonio, kol jis tik \u017eyd\u0117jimo stadijoje. Palaukim kol jis sunoks\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Taigi, mano vaikai noksta, o a\u0161 stebiu kas jiems kelia nusivylim\u0105 ir stengiuosi kartu mokytis k\u0105 su tuo daryti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Apie visus \u0161iuos teorinius ir praktinius niuansus galima pasiskaityti knygoje <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Explosive-Child-Sixth-Understanding-Chronically\/dp\/0063092468\">,,The Explosive Child\u201d (ROSS W. GREENE, PH.D.). <\/a>Nuostabi knyga, pad\u0117jusi suprasti savo vaikus. Ji apra\u0161o lengvai suerzinamus, nelanks\u010dius vaikus, bet radau daug i formacinis net pati sau. Kadangi esu praktik\u0117, ne teoretik\u0117, tai esu procese, bet sekdama autori\u0173 nurodymais, jau dabar matau rezultatus. Teigiamus. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pastaruoju laiku skiriu daug d\u0117mesio tyrin\u0117jimui. Vaik\u0173 reakcij\u0173 tyrin\u0117jimui. Yra vaik\u0173, kuriems s\u0105voka ,,lankstumas\u201d visai nepa\u017e\u012fstama. Jeigu ka\u017ekas \u012fvyko ne pagal jo plan\u0105, jame kyla nusivylimas, kuris pasirei\u0161kia pyk\u010dio, agresijos priepoliu arba yra u\u017eslopinamas viduje. 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