Pastaruoju laiku tur\u0117jau serij\u0105 situacij\u0173, kuriuose atpa\u017einau skirtingus \u017emoni\u0173 po\u017ei\u016brius \u012f tai, koks tur\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti vaik\u0173 aukl\u0117jimas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Susidar\u0117 vaizdas, kad dauguma visgi j\u012f \u012fsivaizduoja kaip vaiko buvim\u0105 patogiu suaugusiems: joki\u0173 b\u0117giojim\u0173, garsi\u0173 kalb\u0117jim\u0173, dalyvavim\u0173 suaugusi\u0173 reikaluose, gin\u010dijimosi ar suaugusi\u0173 neklausymo. Trumpai tariant, vaikai neturi kelti suaugusiems joki\u0173 r\u016bpes\u010di\u0173. Jie turi b\u016bti visiems patog\u016bs. Tada bus galima sakyti, kad jie labai gerai i\u0161aukl\u0117ti. Bet ar tai tikrai \u017emogaus aukl\u0117jimas? Labai pana\u0161iai mes gi elgiam\u0117s ir su \u0161unimis: aprengiame, apkerpame, i\u0161mokome gra\u017eiai s\u0117d\u0117ti, tarnauti ir pan\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vis garsiau kalbame kaip svarbu ugdyti vaiko individualum\u0105, bet slopiname j\u012f, nes jis neatitinka m\u016bs\u0173 vaizdinio. Sunkiausia tai, kad ma\u017eai \u017emoni\u0173 palaiko tuos t\u0117vus, kurie bando naujame pasaulyje vaikams suteikti galimyb\u0119 b\u016bti savimi, prisiderinti prie tikro gyvenimo taip, kaip vaikams reikia, o ne taip, kaip nori kiti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
O jeigu tik mok\u0117tume visk\u0105 priimti kaip yra ir vietoj noro pakeisti pagal save, leisti dalykams ar \u017emon\u0117ms b\u016bti kokie jie yra.. tikiu, kad nenustotume \u017eav\u0117tis vienas kitu ir mus supan\u010dia gamta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Deja, taip n\u0117ra. Noras prie\u0161 kitus atrodyti nepriekai\u0161tingai priveda prie kvail\u0173 dalyk\u0173. Pamenu vienos \u0161ok\u0117jos istorij\u0105: kuomet ji buvo ma\u017ea, buvo labai aktyvi mergait\u0117 ir t\u0117vai slopino tai vaistais. Kilus abejonei ar tai tinkamas b\u016bdas, mergait\u0117 atsid\u016bre terapiauto kabinete, kuris nustat\u0117, kad mergait\u0117 ne \u0161iaip laksto, ji \u0160OKA! T\u0117vai pasamd\u0117 jai mokytoj\u0105 ir ji tapo garsi \u0161ok\u0117ja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Taip ir m\u016bs\u0173 vaikuose gludi ka\u017ekokia programa, ka\u017ekoks talentas, savyb\u0117s, kurias turime kartu vystyti ir neslopinti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Man vis stipryb\u0117s \u012fp\u016b\u010dia mano vyro \u017eod\u017eiai: ,,Teori\u0161kai apra\u0161oma kaip turi b\u016bti (kaip mes, \u017emon\u0117s, manome, kad b\u016bt\u0173 gerai), bet prakti\u0161kai visa tai neveikia, jeigu prie\u0161tarauja gamtoje egzistuojan\u010diai tikrovei, kuri sukurta dar iki atsirandant mums\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Taigi, galb\u016bt mano vaikai ir kavin\u0117je ne visada i\u0161s\u0117d\u0117s kelias valandas nejud\u0117dami, apsita\u0161kys drabu\u017eius gerdami kakav\u0105 ar parduotuv\u0117je susipyks, bet labai tikiuos, kad nepaisant to, sugeb\u0117sime jiems pad\u0117ti prisitaikyti prie \u0161io laikotarpio poreiki\u0173, pajausti tikr\u0105j\u0105 j\u0173 egzistavimo prie\u017east\u012f ir u\u017eaugti sveikomis, laisvomis asmenyb\u0117mis, kurios gerbia ir vertina ne tik save, bet ir kitus. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tai man yra tikrasis \u017emogaus aukl\u0117jimas. Vidinis ,,A\u0161\u201d. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Pastaruoju laiku tur\u0117jau serij\u0105 situacij\u0173, kuriuose atpa\u017einau skirtingus \u017emoni\u0173 po\u017ei\u016brius \u012f tai, koks tur\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti vaik\u0173 aukl\u0117jimas. Susidar\u0117 vaizdas, kad dauguma visgi j\u012f \u012fsivaizduoja kaip vaiko buvim\u0105 patogiu suaugusiems: joki\u0173 b\u0117giojim\u0173, garsi\u0173 kalb\u0117jim\u0173, dalyvavim\u0173 suaugusi\u0173 reikaluose, gin\u010dijimosi ar suaugusi\u0173 neklausymo. Trumpai tariant, vaikai neturi kelti suaugusiems joki\u0173 r\u016bpes\u010di\u0173. Jie turi b\u016bti visiems patog\u016bs. 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