{"id":13980,"date":"2022-08-31T18:26:45","date_gmt":"2022-08-31T15:26:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=13980"},"modified":"2022-09-02T15:35:07","modified_gmt":"2022-09-02T12:35:07","slug":"vasaros-laimikis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/vasaros-laimikis\/","title":{"rendered":"VASAROS LAIMIKIS"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

O, taip! Tikras atradimas man \u0161ios knygos. Meluo\u010diau, jeigu saky\u010diau, kad visas jas radau \u0161i\u0105 vasar\u0105. Bet daugum\u0105 j\u0173 atradau i\u0161 naujo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jau\u010diu, kad b\u016bti t\u0117vais \u0161iandien ir \u012fdomu, ir sud\u0117tinga. Daug \u012fvairi\u0173 min\u010di\u0173, situacij\u0173, b\u016bsen\u0173. Gyvenimas reikalauja i\u0161 tav\u0119s lankstumo, nors atrodo pats gyvenimas kartais n\u0117ra lankstus. Da\u017enai negauni jokio paai\u0161kinimo k\u0105 daryti, tik tam tikras nuorodas kuria kryptimi jud\u0117ti. O kad tai pasteb\u0117tum, reikia ugdyti save. Tada pamatai, kad visgi gyvenimas tau padeda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Skyriau vasar\u0105 saviugdai. Gal viduje esu ,,seno kirpimo”, bet gyvenu tuo, kad moteris turi dom\u0117tis psichologija, pedagogika, atrasti savo gyvenimo filosofij\u0105, kuria lyd\u0117s savo \u0161eim\u0105. Ji – \u0161eimos centras, tod\u0117l jai svarbu i\u0161manyti kaip veikti tinkamai. Vaikai susiduria su daug neteisyb\u0117s, nesusipratim\u0173 ir nepaai\u0161kinam\u0173 rei\u0161kini\u0173, tai kas kitas jei ne mama jiems pad\u0117s tai suprasti? Moteris man visada simbolizavo i\u0161mint\u012f, kantryb\u0119 ir meil\u0119. Tik visus tuos dalykus reikia savyje pa\u017einti. I\u0161mokti jais naudotis taip, kad pad\u0117tum ne tik sau pa\u010diai, bet ir visam pasauliui, i\u0161leisdama \u012f j\u012f savo vaikus, kaip gerus \u017emones.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tema: VAIK\u0172 AUKL\u0116JIMAS<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n
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Tai labai daug informacijos. M\u0117gstu pirm\u0105 kart\u0105 perskaityti vis\u0105 knyg\u0105, kad supras\u010diau id\u0117j\u0105, krypt\u012f, o tada v\u0117l gr\u012f\u017etu prie mane dominan\u010di\u0173 tem\u0173, jau detaliau su \u017eymekliu, ra\u0161ikliu ir s\u0105siuviniu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Knygas, kurios pasirod\u0117 man asmeni\u0161kai labai naudingos kasdieniniame darbe, \u012fsigyjau. Bandau kasdien dien\u0105 prad\u0117ti ir u\u017ebaigti bent keliais puslapiais i\u0161 \u0161i\u0173 knyg\u0173. Tai sud\u0117lioja mintis \u012f vietas, primena ketinim\u0105 ir mamos, kokia noriu b\u016bti, vaizdin\u012f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Savaime suprantama, kad norisi visko i\u0161 karto, ta\u010diau per laik\u0105 pa\u017e\u012fsti savo vaikus ir save pa\u010di\u0105, atrandi tik mums b\u016bding\u0105 kalb\u0105. Jud\u0117jimas vyksta \u017eingsnelis po \u017eingsnelio.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0160iuolaikiniai vaikai<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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    Fundamental\u016bs dalykai nuo u\u017egimimo mamos \u012fs\u010diose iki paauglyst\u0117s. Kardinaliai kitokia negu m\u016bs\u0173 pasaulis \u0161iandien. Bet man \u0161i knyga ir integrali metodika – kelrod\u0117 \u017evaig\u017ed\u0117. Knygoje ra\u0161oma daug dalyk\u0173 kaip tur\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti, bet man\u0119s tai neglumina, nes viduje jau\u010diu, kad b\u016btent ir a\u0161 taip nor\u0117\u010diau, kad b\u016bt\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Nevaldom\u0173 vaik\u0173 neb\u016bna<\/strong> (The Explosive child)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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      Knygos i\u0161trauka pasako man visk\u0105. Neb\u016btunai vaikas turi tur\u0117ti konkre\u010di\u0105 diagnoz\u0119, tiesiog kartais jam reikia tik trupu\u010dio pagalbos suvokti kaip m\u0105sto ji ir kaip m\u0105stai tu. Kartais jam reikia pagalbos nutiesti tilt\u0105 tarp to, kaip dalykus suvokia jis ir to, kaip yra i\u0161 ties\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Man asmeni\u0161kai labai labai prakti\u0161ka knyga, kuri\u0105 pirm\u0105 kart\u0105 skai\u010diau originalo kalba (Explosive child). Ir kai visai netik\u0117tai radau lietuvi\u0161kai, negal\u0117jau atsid\u017eiaugti!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Tikrai padeda nuraminti t\u0105 tiksin\u010di\u0105 bomb\u0105 jai dar nesprogus :))).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Mano vaikai nesipyksta<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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        Atrodo stengiesi pad\u0117ti vaikams sutarti, ta\u010diau da\u017eniausiai juos dar labiau sukir\u0161ini. \u0160i knyga ra\u0161o apie \u0161eim\u0173 patirt\u012f, dirbant \u0161ia tema namuose. Knygoje pateikiami tokie iki kaulo pa\u017e\u012fstami pavyzd\u017eiai ir variantai, kaip tur\u0117tume reaguoti. Da\u017eniausiai susimauni, bet i\u0161 100 kart\u0173 \u012f 1 vistiek sureaguoji tinkamai, o tada pamatai, kad tai duoda teigiamus rezultatatus. Gerai tur\u0117ti ,,\u0161pargalk\u0119” k\u0105 daryti, kai vaikai susipe\u0161a.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        Kaip kalb\u0117ti, kad vaikai i\u0161girst\u0173 ir kaip klausyti, kad vaikai kalb\u0117t\u0173<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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          Versdama kiekvien\u0105 puslap\u012f gal\u0117jau patvirtinti, kad tai a\u0161. Kad ir kaip g\u0117da net sau tai pripa\u017einti, bet tikrai, da\u017eniausiai nesugebu b\u016bti tinkama klausytoja ar kalb\u0117toja. \u017dmogaus prigimtis taip stipriai valdo, kad net ir psichologiniai pratimai nepadeda. Ta\u010diau, kai tikslas labai svarbus, o jis toks yra, negali pasiduoti. Tad, tai dar viena knyga, kuri\u0105 vartai ir vartai. Kaip sakoma, \u012fprotis tampa antra prigimtimi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          Kaip kurti istorijas vaikams<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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            Labai lengvai skait\u0117si ir buvo b\u016btent tai, ko ie\u0161kojau. Da\u017enai galvoje sukasi mintys k\u0105 gal\u0117tume nuveikti. Atrodo ir tai b\u016bt\u0173 fainai, ir tai. Bet ugdymas \u0161eimoje – toks nenusp\u0117jamas procesas, kuomet da\u017enai tenka improvizuoti, keisti, derintis prie vaik\u0173 poreikio. Tam labai nor\u0117jau atrasti priemoni\u0173 veikti eksprontu, be jokio pasiruo\u0161imo. Ir \u0161tai, atkeliauja man \u012f rankas knyga, kurioje pagrindin\u0117 mintis – per pasakojimus sukurti ry\u0161\u012f su vaikais, sujungti juos su \u0161iuo pasauliu per jausmus, bendrus i\u0161gyvenimus. Pajutau, kad tai tikrai veiksminga aukl\u0117jimo priemon\u0117.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

            Penkios vaik\u0173 meil\u0117s kalbos<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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              Kei\u010dianti. Kei\u010dianti daug dalyk\u0173: po\u017ei\u016br\u012f, vektori\u0173, santykius, ry\u0161\u012f. Juk ji apie meil\u0119 \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n\n\n\n

              Laiminga vaikyst\u0117<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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                Tai knyga, kuri buvo m\u016bs\u0173 \u0161eimos u\u017euominos pagrindas. B\u016bdami tik likimo draugai kartu \u0117m\u0117me skaityti knyg\u0105 ir aptarin\u0117ti skyri\u0173 po skyriaus. Tik po vestuvi\u0173 su\u017einojau, kad vyras \u0161ios knygos d\u0117ka atlikin\u0117jo mano test\u0105 (tyrin\u0117jo mano po\u017ai\u016br\u012f \u012f vaik\u0173 aukl\u0117jim\u0105, santuok\u0105, gyvenimo tiksl\u0105). Tad \u0161iomis temomis kalba ir knyga. Lengvai skaitosi nepaprasti dalykai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                Vaiko emocinis intelektas<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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                \u0160i knyga pad\u0117jo pa\u017einti plat\u0173 spektr\u0105 emocij\u0173. Pasiteisino bandymas suma\u017einti savo asmeniniu l\u016bkes\u010dius kit\u0173 at\u017evilgiu, taip suma\u017einant nemalonius poj\u016b\u010dius, kurie kyla tik d\u0117l to, jog kiti neatitinka mano ,,paveiksl\u0117lio”. Nema\u017eai praktini\u0173 patarim\u0173, pratim\u0173. Kas ir yra svarbiausia!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

                O, taip! Tikras atradimas man \u0161ios knygos. Meluo\u010diau, jeigu saky\u010diau, kad visas jas radau \u0161i\u0105 vasar\u0105. Bet daugum\u0105 j\u0173 atradau i\u0161 naujo. Jau\u010diu, kad b\u016bti t\u0117vais \u0161iandien ir \u012fdomu, ir sud\u0117tinga. Daug \u012fvairi\u0173 min\u010di\u0173, situacij\u0173, b\u016bsen\u0173. Gyvenimas reikalauja i\u0161 tav\u0119s lankstumo, nors atrodo pats gyvenimas kartais n\u0117ra lankstus. Da\u017enai negauni jokio paai\u0161kinimo k\u0105 daryti, tik […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":13974,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[61,157,166,160],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13980","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-izvalgos-ir-praktiniai-patarimai","category-knygos-vaikams","category-ugdymas-seimoje-pradinis-1","category-ugdymas-seimoje-priesmokyklinis"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/c7e65b6a-25a7-410f-b9b2-ce9431b1504b.jpg",1366,683,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/c7e65b6a-25a7-410f-b9b2-ce9431b1504b-800x683.jpg",800,683,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/c7e65b6a-25a7-410f-b9b2-ce9431b1504b-800x400.jpg",800,400,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/c7e65b6a-25a7-410f-b9b2-ce9431b1504b-768x384.jpg",768,384,true],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/c7e65b6a-25a7-410f-b9b2-ce9431b1504b-1024x512.jpg",1024,512,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/c7e65b6a-25a7-410f-b9b2-ce9431b1504b.jpg",1366,683,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/c7e65b6a-25a7-410f-b9b2-ce9431b1504b.jpg",1366,683,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"O, taip! Tikras atradimas man \u0161ios knygos. Meluo\u010diau, jeigu saky\u010diau, kad visas jas radau \u0161i\u0105 vasar\u0105. Bet daugum\u0105 j\u0173 atradau i\u0161 naujo. Jau\u010diu, kad b\u016bti t\u0117vais \u0161iandien ir \u012fdomu, ir sud\u0117tinga. Daug \u012fvairi\u0173 min\u010di\u0173, situacij\u0173, b\u016bsen\u0173. Gyvenimas reikalauja i\u0161 tav\u0119s lankstumo, nors atrodo pats gyvenimas kartais n\u0117ra lankstus. Da\u017enai negauni jokio paai\u0161kinimo k\u0105 daryti, tik…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13980","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13980"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13980\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":14003,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13980\/revisions\/14003"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/13974"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13980"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13980"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13980"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}