{"id":14502,"date":"2022-11-04T23:28:45","date_gmt":"2022-11-04T21:28:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=14502"},"modified":"2022-11-06T10:59:38","modified_gmt":"2022-11-06T08:59:38","slug":"ugdymas-semoje-nera-kito-pasirinkimo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/ugdymas-semoje-nera-kito-pasirinkimo\/","title":{"rendered":"UGDYMAS \u0160EMOJE? NETURIME KITO PASIRINKIMO"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Ugdymas \u0161eimoje spar\u010diai populiar\u0117ja. Ir tai da\u017eniausiai ne d\u0117l to, jog t\u0117vai labai nori patys ugdyti savo vaikus, bet jiems n\u00e8ra kitos i\u0161eities. Did\u0117jantys skai\u010diai parodo esamos paradigmos gri\u016bt\u012f. Jeigu vaikai stumiami \u012f sistem\u0105, sukurt\u0105 dar Pramon\u0117s revoliucijos laikais, kurios tikslas buvo i\u0161mokyti bazinio ra\u0161tingumo ir kaip valdyti stakles, tada viskas veda tik \u012f tragedij\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vie\u0161a paslaptis, kad \u0161vietimo sistema visai neugdo. Ji suteikia tam tikr\u0173 \u017eini\u0173, ta\u010diau neugdo vaik\u0173 socialini\u0173 \u012fg\u016bd\u017ei\u0173 ir \u017emogi\u0161k\u0173j\u0173 santyki\u0173. Mokytojai vos sp\u0117ja suktis, pildydami visus i\u0161keltus reikalavimus, tad jiems net n\u0117ra resurs\u0173 prisiimti papildom\u0173 atsakomybi\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mokykl\u0105 lankantys vaikai yra lengvas taikinys paty\u010dioms, narkotikams, smurtui ir seksualiniam i\u0161naudojimui. Ir tai vyksta vietoje, kur vaikai tur\u0117ti b\u016bti apsaugoti ir pasir\u016bpinti – mokykloje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nar\u016bralu, kad tokioje atmosferoje vaikai negali tinkamai mokytis. Jie turi ugdytis i\u0161gyvenimo \u012fg\u016bd\u017eius, o ne ugdymo. Daugumai vaik\u0173 atsiranda emociniai sutrikimai ne d\u0117l j\u0173 netinkamos artimosios aplinkos ar j\u0173 pa\u010di\u0173 asmenyb\u0117s, ta\u010diau i\u0161 tos stresin\u0117s atmosferos, kuri\u0105 jie jau\u010dia mokykloje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yra t\u0117v\u0173, kuriems tokie vaik\u0173 i\u0161gyvenimai yra nepriimtini, tod\u0117l jie pasireng\u0119 paaukoti dal\u012f savo laiko ir pajam\u0173 tam, kad periimt\u0173 savo vaik\u0173 ugdym\u0105 \u012f savo rankas. Ir jiems gerai sekasi! Kaip rodo tyrimai, kad nepaisant to, jog t\u0117vams ir tr\u016bksta mokymo patirties, j\u0173 pastang\u0173 rezultatai pralenkia \u0161vietimo sistemos profesionalus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kuomet vaikai jau\u010diasi \u012fkalinti mokykloje, jie negali tobul\u0117ti. Namuose, kur jie jau\u010diasi laisvi, vaikai gali kur kas daugiau netgi su ma\u017eesnia profesionalia pagalba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tikiu, kad ugdymo sistema tur\u0117t\u0173 r\u016bpintis vaiko poreikiais, o ne versti j\u012f prisiderinti prie \u0161ablono, sukurto prie\u0161 de\u0161imtme\u010dius, kuris visai neatitinka to, kaip vaikai m\u0105sto, jau\u010dia, suvokia pasaul\u012f \u0161iandien.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kaip neb\u016bt\u0173, a\u0161 manau, kad vaikai turi augti kartu su savo bendraam\u017eiais. Ta\u010diau kol tam n\u0117ra saugios, tinkamos ir kontroliuojamos aplinkos, ugdymas \u0161eimoje suteikia daugiau galimybi\u0173 ugdyti bendravimo \u012fg\u016bd\u017eius, prakti\u0161kai pajausti \u012fvairius \u017emoni\u0173 santyki\u0173 niuansus. \u017dinoma, tenka b\u016bti labiau k\u016brybingiems ir nenustoti svajoti. Kaip b\u016bt\u0173 \u0161aunu, jeigu mokyklos tapt\u0173 tramplynas \u012f s\u0117kming\u0105 vaiko gyvenim\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kadangi mes praleid\u017eiame daug laiko bendraudami vienas su kitu, taip pat ir nuolatos mokom\u0117s vienas i\u0161 kito, mokyklos programa tur\u0117t\u0173 skirti daug laiko b\u016btent mokyti \u017emogi\u0161k\u0173j\u0173 santyki\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nor\u0117dami tapti produktyv\u016bs ir pasitinkintys savimi suaug\u0119 \u017emon\u00e8s, vaikai turi i\u0161mokti pozityviai ir efektyviai bendrauti vienas su kitu. Tai pad\u0117t\u0173 jiems darbe, namuose, su j\u0173 pa\u010di\u0173 vaikais, kai jie taps t\u0117vais.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sveikam vaik\u0173 augimui reikalingos nedidel\u0117s grupel\u0117s vaik\u0173, kuriose nuolat vykt\u0173 pokalbiai apie tai, ko jie nori, ko jiems reikia. Taip pat vaikai gal\u0117t\u0173 mokytis savo tempu ir savo stiliumi. Kadangi kiekvienas vaikas yra unikalus, turintis savo bruo\u017eus, tai jis ir mokyt\u0173si atitinkamai pagal juos. Tokiu b\u016bdu vaikai u\u017eaugt\u0173 laimingi ir pilnaver\u010diai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Ugdymas \u0161eimoje spar\u010diai populiar\u0117ja. Ir tai da\u017eniausiai ne d\u0117l to, jog t\u0117vai labai nori patys ugdyti savo vaikus, bet jiems n\u00e8ra kitos i\u0161eities. Did\u0117jantys skai\u010diai parodo esamos paradigmos gri\u016bt\u012f. Jeigu vaikai stumiami \u012f sistem\u0105, sukurt\u0105 dar Pramon\u0117s revoliucijos laikais, kurios tikslas buvo i\u0161mokyti bazinio ra\u0161tingumo ir kaip valdyti stakles, tada viskas veda tik \u012f tragedij\u0105. 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