\u0160imtus kart\u0173 \u012fsitikinta, kad vaikui susirgus mamoje aktyvuojasi ypatingos galios, kuri\u0173 d\u0117ka ji gyvena 24\/7 r\u016bpestyje vaiku. Mes, mamos, galvojame apie savo mylimiausius taip stipriai, kad pamir\u0161tame apie save. Mamos baziniai poreikiai lieka nuo\u0161alyje, o energijos suteikia ne kava, maistas ar miegas, bet su\u017eibusios vaiko akys… Neapsakomas d\u017eiaugsmas, kai vaikas sveiksta, nors trumpam, bet nusi\u0161ypso. Tada pagalvoji: ,,Visk\u0105 atiduo\u010diau, kad tik vaikas jaustusi gerai, lakstyt\u0173 po namus, \u0161\u016bkaut\u0173 ir pan.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mamos ir vaiko santykis ypatingas. Net pats pastojimo procesas: moters k\u016bnas sutinka priimti svetimk\u016bn\u012f, juo r\u016bpintis ir saugoti, nors k\u016bno programa yra svetimk\u016bnius \u0161alinti. Mama vienintel\u0117 pasaulyje geba negalvoti tik apie save ir nuolat \u012fskai\u010diuoti vaikus. \u017dinoma, kaip ir visur gamtoje, yra nukrypim\u0173, bet dauguma mam\u0173 d\u0117l vaik\u0173 padaryt\u0173 visk\u0105. Tokie stipr\u016bs yra jos motini\u0161ki instinktai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vaiko saugumas ir gerov\u0117 – prioritetai. Matydama vaik\u0105 laiminga, mama tuo m\u0117gaujasi, jai tai suteikia dar daugiau j\u0117g\u0173 duoti vaikui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
O kas vaikui i\u0161 to?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nekart gird\u0117ta fraz\u0117: ,,Mamos meil\u0117 gydo visas ligas”. Gyvendamas mamos r\u016bpes\u010dio ir meil\u0117s kokone, vaikas sveikai vystosi, yra laimingas ir i\u0161vengia rimtesni\u0173 problem\u0173 ateityje. Tiek psicholog\u0173 apra\u0161o mamos meil\u0117s buvimo ir nebuvimo pas\u0117kmes, kad ta tema nebesipl\u0117siu. Mane labiau domina ar tokia ,,super” galia egzistuoja ne tik mamos ir vaiko ry\u0161yje, bet ar gal\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti tarp \u017emoni\u0173? K\u0105 tai pakeist\u0173? O gal mamos meil\u0117 gali ka\u017ekaip i\u0161sipl\u0117sti? B\u016bti pavyzd\u017eiu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Augant vaikams, matau, jog saugus lizdelis – namai – neb\u0117ra vienintel\u0117 vaik\u0173 aplinka. Vis daugiau \u017emoni\u0173 atsiranda m\u016bs\u0173 gyvenime ir kiekvienas \u012fne\u0161a savo bendravimo stili\u0173, vertybes. Da\u017eniausiai dominuoja po\u017ei\u016bris: ,,skaldyk ir valdyk” arba ,,pa\u017eemink kitus ir liksi savo komforto zonoje”. Matau pasaul\u012f ir kur atveda toks siauras m\u0105stymas…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Gyvenu mintimis, kad visa \u017emogaus laim\u0117 u\u017ekoduoda ry\u0161iuose su kitais \u017emon\u0117mis. Ka\u017ekas \u010dia turi pasikeisti. Tikrai nedegu noru ka\u017ek\u0105 darydama, pagalvoti kaip tai atsilieps visiems kitiems. Kraujyje neteka informacija, kad turiu galvoti pla\u010diau, apie mane supan\u010dius \u017emones. O jeigu tai darytume, bent minimaliai, kaip pasikeist\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173 santykiai? O kaip tada pasikeist\u0173 gyvenimo kokyb\u0117?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u017demai lenkiu galv\u0105 gamtai, likimui, gyvenimui, kad viskas taip sumanyta ir juda tam tikra linkme. Bet kartu norisi atskleisti s\u0117kmingo gyvenimo paslapt\u012f ir perduoti j\u0105 vaikams, an\u016bkams, pron\u016bkiams.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u0160imtus kart\u0173 \u012fsitikinta, kad vaikui susirgus mamoje aktyvuojasi ypatingos galios, kuri\u0173 d\u0117ka ji gyvena 24\/7 r\u016bpestyje vaiku. Mes, mamos, galvojame apie savo mylimiausius taip stipriai, kad pamir\u0161tame apie save. Mamos baziniai poreikiai lieka nuo\u0161alyje, o energijos suteikia ne kava, maistas ar miegas, bet su\u017eibusios vaiko akys… Neapsakomas d\u017eiaugsmas, kai vaikas sveiksta, nors trumpam, bet nusi\u0161ypso. 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