{"id":15191,"date":"2023-02-08T02:01:36","date_gmt":"2023-02-08T00:01:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=15191"},"modified":"2023-02-08T02:01:36","modified_gmt":"2023-02-08T00:01:36","slug":"motinyste-savirealizacija","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/motinyste-savirealizacija\/","title":{"rendered":"MOTINYST\u0116 – SAVIREALIZACIJA"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Neseniai vyras paklaus\u0117: ,,Brangioji, o tu jauti, kad save realizuoji?”.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sekund\u0117lei sustingau. Mintyse gr\u012f\u017eau devynis metus atgal, \u012f t\u0105 ta\u0161k\u0105, kuriame buvo visos durys atvertos siekti karjeros auk\u0161tum\u0173 Londone. Juk taip \u012fsivaizduojama savirealizacija – \u012fgyta profesija, titulas, turtas. Kilo vidin\u0117 \u012ftampa, akivaizdus kontrastas tarp to, k\u0105 turiu \u0161iandien ir to, k\u0105 \u017ead\u0117jo aplinkyb\u0117s. Supratau, kad visgi likimas man \u012fd\u0117jo labai stipr\u0173 nor\u0105 m\u0117gautis motinyste, u\u017esiimti vaik\u0173 aukl\u0117jimu ir s\u0105moningu santykio su vyru statymu. Atsidusau. U\u017epl\u016bdo malonus jausmas, patvirtinantis, kad ir toliau noriu realizuoti savo potencial\u0105 b\u016btent motinyst\u0117s rol\u0117je. \u010cia tarsi mano teritorija, kuri\u0105 po truput\u012f kasdien u\u017ekariauju.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

,,Taip<\/em>.” – atsakiau. Kaip moterims ir \u012fprasta, visus pam\u0105stymus palikau mimtyse. ,,Esu laiminga”<\/em> – ta\u0161kas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u0117liau visgi pasikalb\u0117jome, kad moters sprendimas atsiduoti vaik\u0173 aukl\u0117jimui ir \u0161eimos \u017eidinio serg\u0117jimui gerokai nuvertinamas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u016bti mama (ir \u017emona) n\u0117ra tik rinkti \u017eaislus, plauti indus, skalbti, rengti ir pan.. B\u016bti mama (ir \u017emona) ir ne tik ugdyti, paguosti, i\u0161klausyti, \u0161ypsotis ir verkti, ils\u0117tis ir pavargti. Vertingiausias dalykas, k\u0105 gird\u017eiu ir i\u0161 kit\u0173 moter\u0173, tai b\u016bti mama (ir \u017emona) – atrasti tikr\u0105j\u0105 save.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u016bti mama (ir \u017emona) – kartu ir mokytis teorijos, ir \u012fgyti praktikos kaip u\u017eauginti \u017emog\u0173 ir meil\u0119. B\u016bti mama (ir \u017emona) – tai \u012fgyti nauj\u0105 specialyb\u0119, kuri lenkia teoretikus, nes yra paremta tik praktiniais i\u0161gyvenimais, atradimais, paie\u0161komis, a\u0161aromis ir d\u017eiaugsmu. Moteris i\u0161 prigimties yra ri\u0161an\u010dioji med\u017eiaga. Ji tarsi klijai, suklijuojanti visus nesusipratimus, nesusikalb\u0117jimus, barnius.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jeigu ne motinyst\u0117, tikrai neskaity\u010diau tokios gausyb\u0117s knyg\u0173, nesidom\u0117\u010diau taip pla\u010diai viskuo ir nebandy\u010diau visko patikrinti prie\u0161 pateikiant tai vaikams.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tas platus spektras – \u017emogaus raida, psichologija, gamtos d\u0117sniai, \u017emogaus egzistencijos esm\u0117, vertyb\u0117s – kuria mano asmenyb\u0119.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ir kas mane ,,ve\u017ea” labiausiai, kad visi poky\u010diai ir i\u0161vados vyksta tik d\u0117ka to, kad vaikai ir vyras mane nuolat stumia i\u0161 komforto zonos. Kur\u012f laik\u0105 mane tai dirgindavo, kol nesupratau, kad tai pats geriausias b\u016bdas pa\u017einti save ir jud\u0117ti pirmyn. Su\u017einoti daugiau. Atrasti ir patirti. Kit\u0173 \u012ftakota, matau tas tr\u016bkstamas ertmes tarp to, kaip reaguoju \u012f dalykus ir to, kaip nor\u0117\u010diau reaguoti, kokia esu ir kokia noriu b\u016bti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0160iandien vaik\u0173 ugdymas \u0161eimoje, nam\u0173 ruo\u0161os darbai ir bandymas surinkti visas pabirusias dalis \u012f visum\u0105 mane d\u017eiugina, motyvuoja ir u\u017epildo. O visa kita, kaip sakoma, likimo rankose.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Neseniai vyras paklaus\u0117: ,,Brangioji, o tu jauti, kad save realizuoji?”. Sekund\u0117lei sustingau. Mintyse gr\u012f\u017eau devynis metus atgal, \u012f t\u0105 ta\u0161k\u0105, kuriame buvo visos durys atvertos siekti karjeros auk\u0161tum\u0173 Londone. Juk taip \u012fsivaizduojama savirealizacija – \u012fgyta profesija, titulas, turtas. Kilo vidin\u0117 \u012ftampa, akivaizdus kontrastas tarp to, k\u0105 turiu \u0161iandien ir to, k\u0105 \u017ead\u0117jo aplinkyb\u0117s. 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