Ar tai sumenkinimas ar komplimentas? Jei atvirai, dar vaikyst\u0117je b\u016bti kitokia man visai patiko. O gal nebuvo kito pasirinkimo, tiesiog per daug gird\u0117jau ,,Tu kitokia. Tu keista. B\u016bk normali, k\u0105?”.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bet tada negalvojau kod\u0117l, kai kuriems \u017emon\u0117ms taip nutinka, kad jie i\u0161siskiria i\u0161 kit\u0173. \u0160iandien tai tampa labai opi problema, tod\u0117l dirbant su vaikais, manau, kad labai svarbu atpa\u017einti \u0161io rei\u0161kinio \u0161akn\u012f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A\u0161 visa tai matau labai paprastai. Nesirengi taip, kaip dauguma – tu kitokia. Negyveni kaip dauguma \u017emoni\u0173, paveikt\u0173 tam tikro informacinio lauko – tu kitokia. O jei dar ir nepakl\u016bsti mano vald\u017eiai – tu klaida! Tu sistemin\u0117 klaida, kuri mano pasaulyje negali egzistuoti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
O taip! \u017dinau, kad esu klaida, vertinant pagal tam tikr\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173 vertybi\u0173 skal\u0119, gyvenimo b\u016bd\u0105, j\u0173 pasaul\u0117\u017ei\u016br\u0105 ir suvokim\u0105, kaip reikia gyventi. Juk kiekvienas \u017emogus vertina kit\u0105 tik pagal tuos duomenis, kuriuos turi pats savyje. Jeigu susid\u016briau gyvenime tik su kvadratu ir apskritimu, tai pama\u010dius trikamp\u012f sieksiu priskirti j\u012f prie vienos i\u0161 dviej\u0173 man \u017einom\u0173 form\u0173, o jeigu nepavyks – pavadinsiu trikamp\u012f klaida ir nura\u0161ysiu kaip nenormal\u0173. Taip veikia m\u016bs\u0173 prigimtis. Tokia programa. Jau \u012fsivaizduoju, kaip sunku suvokti dalykus teisingai, nes priskiriu juos tik savo \u0161ablonams, o nauj\u0173 i\u0161 i\u0161or\u0117s nepriimu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Labai gaila, kad nuo ma\u017e\u0173 dien\u0173 m\u016bs\u0173 nemoko priimti visko gyvenime kaip svarbias pasaulio sudedam\u0105sias. Juk patirdamas ne\u017einomus dalykus, atrasdamas neatpa\u017eintus rei\u0161kinius \u017emogus ple\u010dia savo vidin\u0119 pasaul\u0117\u017ei\u016br\u0105, o tai j\u012f daro \u012fvairiapusi\u0161ka asmenybe, kuri geba lanks\u010diai prisitaikyti ir laimingai gyventi tiek greta vienod\u0173, tiek ir kitoki\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mane \u012fkv\u0117pia astronaut\u0173 pavyzdys, kuomet jie pakyla \u012f kosmos\u0105, juose \u012fvyksta vidinis paichologinis l\u016b\u017eis: jiems m\u016bs\u0173 \u017dem\u0117s rutulys matomas kaip vienas organizmas, i\u0161laikantis pusiausvyr\u0105, atsveriantis visus poky\u010dius, papildantis, veikiantis i\u0161vien. Nors mums, \u017emon\u0117ms, ,,ant \u017eem\u0117s” dar sunku pamatyti t\u0105 ry\u0161i\u0173 sistem\u0105, ta\u010diau sunkumai santykiuose, sveikata, problemos darbe ar net visuomen\u0117je po truput\u012f parodo, kad art\u0117ja nauja epocha, su nauju po\u017ei\u016briu. Tai tvyro ore. Juk negalime vis\u0105laik gyventi vis li\u016bdniau ir li\u016bdniau?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
O kol rasime rakt\u0105 \u012f laiming\u0105 gyvenim\u0105, tenka mokytis pasitik\u0117ti savimi ir pad\u0117ti bent jau vaikams suvokti pasaul\u012f kiek \u012fmanoma pla\u010diau. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Ar tai sumenkinimas ar komplimentas? Jei atvirai, dar vaikyst\u0117je b\u016bti kitokia man visai patiko. O gal nebuvo kito pasirinkimo, tiesiog per daug gird\u0117jau ,,Tu kitokia. Tu keista. B\u016bk normali, k\u0105?”. Bet tada negalvojau kod\u0117l, kai kuriems \u017emon\u0117ms taip nutinka, kad jie i\u0161siskiria i\u0161 kit\u0173. \u0160iandien tai tampa labai opi problema, tod\u0117l dirbant su vaikais, manau, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":15222,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[43],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15223","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moteris-mama-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/719ad1f8-3cc4-4c0e-8c35-f54abb9f6094.jpg",1366,683,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/719ad1f8-3cc4-4c0e-8c35-f54abb9f6094-800x683.jpg",800,683,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/719ad1f8-3cc4-4c0e-8c35-f54abb9f6094-800x400.jpg",800,400,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/719ad1f8-3cc4-4c0e-8c35-f54abb9f6094-768x384.jpg",768,384,true],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/719ad1f8-3cc4-4c0e-8c35-f54abb9f6094-1024x512.jpg",1024,512,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/719ad1f8-3cc4-4c0e-8c35-f54abb9f6094.jpg",1366,683,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/719ad1f8-3cc4-4c0e-8c35-f54abb9f6094.jpg",1366,683,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Ar tai sumenkinimas ar komplimentas? Jei atvirai, dar vaikyst\u0117je b\u016bti kitokia man visai patiko. O gal nebuvo kito pasirinkimo, tiesiog per daug gird\u0117jau ,,Tu kitokia. Tu keista. B\u016bk normali, k\u0105?”. 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