{"id":15662,"date":"2023-04-01T23:08:51","date_gmt":"2023-04-01T20:08:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=15662"},"modified":"2023-04-01T23:08:52","modified_gmt":"2023-04-01T20:08:52","slug":"tik-paleisk-vaira-ir-anksciau-ar-veliau-istiks-katastrofa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/tik-paleisk-vaira-ir-anksciau-ar-veliau-istiks-katastrofa\/","title":{"rendered":"TIK PALEISK VAIR\u0104 IR ANKS\u010cIAU AR V\u0116LIAU I\u0160TIKS KATASTROFA"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Ir \u010dia ne apie automobil\u012f, o santykius. Labai gaila, kad, kai buvome vaikai, mus mok\u0117 tik\u0117ti pasakomis, i\u0161galvotomis istorijomis. Ir nemok\u0117, kad meil\u0119 reikia kurti, statyti, kad d\u0117l jos reikia ka\u017ek\u0105 atiduoti savo ir paimti kito. Da\u017eniausiai po dideli\u0173 gyvenimo sm\u016bgi\u0173 \u017emogus ima suprasti, kad meil\u0117 &#8211; tai menas, kur\u012f turi i\u0161mokti \u012fvaldyti ir kad negimstame tur\u0117dami tam \u012fg\u016bd\u017ei\u0173. Juos reikia \u012fgyti:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M\u016bs\u0173 suvokime daugiausia \u017ealos padar\u0117 tai, kad seksualin\u012f potrauk\u012f prad\u0117jome vadinti ,,meile&#8221;. Nors i\u0161 ties\u0173 n\u0117ra jokio ry\u0161io tarp sekso ir tikros meil\u0117s. Seksas yra tik potraukis, kuris turi savo viet\u0105 \u012fprastame gyvenime.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>O kalbant apie tikr\u0105 meil\u0119&#8230; mes tur\u0117tume mokytis kaip myl\u0117ti vienas kit\u0105, nes tai mums dar nepa\u017eintas b\u016bdas u\u017emegzti ry\u0161\u012f su kitu \u017emogumi. Turime mokytis kaip auginti naujo lygio santykius, egzistuojan\u010dius vir\u0161 kiekvieno asmenini\u0173 pretenzij\u0173, nor\u0173, reikalavim\u0173 ir l\u016bkes\u010di\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tokie santykiai paremti vidine aistra jausti tikr\u0105 ry\u0161i su kitu \u017emogumi. Su laiku tas \u017emogus tampa tikras gyvenimo partneris, tas, kuris supranta, papildo ir palaiko tave d\u0117l visko.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ir tai \u012fmanoma tik su s\u0105lygq, kad ry\u0161ys bus tikrai vidinis, gilus ir brandus, o ne pakeistas ka\u017ekokiais dirbtinai suformuotais dalykais, kaip \u0161iai dienai &#8211; seksualiniais santykiais (ne\u012fpareigojan\u010diais ir paremtais pirminiais impulsais). Beto, tokiuose santykiuose negali atsiskleisti meil\u0117.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Prie\u0161ingai, kai tarp dviej\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173 yra gilesnis ry\u0161ys, tikra meil\u0117, tik tada galima pajausti ir tikr\u0105 seksualin\u012f artum\u0105, kuris papildo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dauguma santykiuose i\u0161gyvena amerikieti\u0161kus kalnelius ir vis tiki, kad gyvenimas ,,atsi\u0173s&#8221; tinkam\u0105 variant\u0105. O a\u0161 sakau sau, kad reikia pa\u010diam investuoti \u012f santykius, dom\u0117tis, keistis, bandyti, \u012fkv\u0117pti partner\u012f, palaikyti, i\u0161girsti ir n i e k o nelaukti. Kaip toje garsioje Hillel fraz\u0117je ,,Jei ne a\u0161, tai kas?&#8221;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Da\u017enai vaikams sakau: ,,\u0160iame pasaulyje n\u0117ra nieko u\u017e dyk\u0105.&#8221; Visur ir u\u017e visk\u0105 turime susimok\u0117ti likimui savo pastangomis, i\u0161gyvenimais, darbu. Tik tada jausime tikr\u0105 laim\u0119, nes patys u\u017esidirbsime. Ir santykiai &#8211; ne i\u0161imtis. \u010cia reikalingas pastovus bendras darbas vienam su kitu, kasdien\u0117s investicijos, nusileidimai, pokalbiai ir bendras tikslas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"820\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/meiles.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2804\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/meiles.jpg 820w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/meiles-300x132.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/meiles-768x337.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 820px) 100vw, 820px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ir \u010dia ne apie automobil\u012f, o santykius. Labai gaila, kad, kai buvome vaikai, mus mok\u0117 tik\u0117ti pasakomis, i\u0161galvotomis istorijomis. Ir nemok\u0117, kad meil\u0119 reikia kurti, statyti, kad d\u0117l jos reikia ka\u017ek\u0105 atiduoti savo ir paimti kito. Da\u017eniausiai po dideli\u0173 gyvenimo sm\u016bgi\u0173 \u017emogus ima suprasti, kad meil\u0117 &#8211; tai menas, kur\u012f turi i\u0161mokti \u012fvaldyti ir kad [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4523,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[44],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15662","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-vyrai-moterys-santuoka-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/imami-seima-santuoka.jpg",1200,628,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/imami-seima-santuoka-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/imami-seima-santuoka-300x157.jpg",300,157,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/imami-seima-santuoka-768x402.jpg",768,402,true],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/imami-seima-santuoka-1024x536.jpg",1024,536,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/imami-seima-santuoka.jpg",1200,628,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/imami-seima-santuoka.jpg",1200,628,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Ir \u010dia ne apie automobil\u012f, o santykius. 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