{"id":15729,"date":"2023-04-04T23:58:37","date_gmt":"2023-04-04T20:58:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=15729"},"modified":"2023-04-04T23:58:39","modified_gmt":"2023-04-04T20:58:39","slug":"atlaisvinta-vieta-turi-buti-uzpildyta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/atlaisvinta-vieta-turi-buti-uzpildyta\/","title":{"rendered":"ATLAISVINTA VIETA TURI B\u016aTI U\u017dPILDYTA"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Ne paslaptis kaip ,,ekranai” u\u017ekariauja vis daugiau m\u016bs\u0173 laiko. Galb\u016bt tai \u017emonijos evoliucijos etapas, kuris subr\u0119s ir atne\u0161 mums ka\u017ekoki\u0173 poky\u010di\u0173, nauj\u0173 pasiekim\u0173 ar net nusivylim\u0173. Bet a\u0161 ne apie tai. Mane domina viskas, kas \u012feina \u012f mano vaik\u0173 aplinkos formavim\u0105. Tad virtualus pasaulis – ne i\u0161imtis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Labai ai\u0161kiai vaiko elgesyje galima pasteb\u0117ti k\u0105 jis veik\u0117 prie ekrano, kiek laiko praleido, kokie \u017eaidimai tiko, koki\u0173 reikt\u0173 atsisakyti. Matosi vaiko emocin\u0117 b\u016bsena. Pasitaiko, kad labai sunku b\u016bna vaik\u0105 ,,surinkti” atgal, kad jis jaust\u0173 vidin\u0119 pusiausvyr\u0105. Ir \u010dia mes, t\u0117vai, galime pad\u0117ti vaikams.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Esu jau ra\u0161iusi apie tai, kaip ekranai \u012ftakojo mano vaik\u0173 k\u016brybi\u0161k\u0105 m\u0105stym\u0105. Nebesikartosiu. Tik trumpai, kad i\u0161 vis\u0173 bandym\u0173 matyti, jog nebuvo gerai leisti naudotis telefonu ir kompiuteriu kiek nori ir kada nori, arba visai riboti iki minimumo ar net 0. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pirmu atveju, vaikai visai nustojo dom\u0117tis aplinkiniu pasauliu, darbai tapo atmestini, greiti. Dingo spindin\u010dios akys, atradimo d\u017eiaugsmas. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Antruoju atveju, kent\u0117jo vaik\u0173 savivert\u0117, jausmas, kad esu didelis, atsirado prie\u0161i\u0161kumas, nepasitenkinimas. Akivaizdu, kad dalis vaiko asmeninio gyvenimo buvo apribota ir u\u017e tai vaikai negal\u0117jo dovanoti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Taigi, siekiant to balanso, reikalingas aktyvus steb\u0117jimas, reakcija ir tikrai nema\u017eos vis\u0173 \u0161eimos nari\u0173 pastangos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kai laukiu kol baigsis vaik\u0173 u\u017esi\u0117mimai, stebiu kitus vaikus. Jie kaip aps\u0117sti nepakelia aki\u0173 nuo telefon\u0173, nes mokyklose da\u017enai juos surenka, o namie – draud\u017eiama. Logi\u0161ka, visu kitu laiku reikia atsigriebti. N\u0117ra laiko bendrauti, u\u017esiimti hobiu, nes dabar mano avatarui reikia laim\u0117ti kov\u0105! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Visada \u0161eimoje laikom\u0117s pozicijos, kad nereikia ie\u0161koti kalt\u0173. Yra situacija, kuriai reikia projektuoti b\u016bsim\u0105 \u017eingsn\u012f. Taip jau nutiko, kad \u0161is materialus pasaulis da\u017enai vaik\u0173 akyse pralaimi virtualiam, mat ten gali lengvai ir laisvai b\u016bti kuo nori! O man norisi atrasti b\u016bd\u0105, kad vaikai neatitr\u016bkt\u0173 nuo realyb\u0117s, priimt\u0173 j\u0105 kaip gyvenimo mokykl\u0105 ir s\u0105moningai derint\u0173 j\u012f su virtualiu pasauliu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Man atrodo, kad neteisinga tiesiog imti ir staiga atimti i\u0161 vaik\u0173 dal\u012f j\u0173 pasaulio, nieko nepaai\u0161kinus. Juk lieka tu\u0161tuma. Vaikas \u017eaidim\u0173, film\u0173 pagalba kuriasi savo realyb\u0119, tad staigus atjungimas ir bandymas j\u012f ,,sugr\u0105\u017einti” \u012f savo vaikyst\u0117s vaizdinius gali jam b\u016bti labai tolimas ir svetimas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Viskas tur\u0117t\u0173 vykti palaipsniui. Ir B\u016aTINAI u\u017epildant laisvas spragas ,,sveiku” turiniu. Mano vaikams veikia, kai daugiau bendraujame, i\u0161klausau juos, domiuosi jais. Reikalingas ry\u0161ys, kuris tampa puikus tu\u0161\u010di\u0173 erdvi\u0173 u\u017epildytojas. Atitrauk\u0119 vaikus nuo neigiam\u0105 poveik\u012f turin\u010di\u0173 \u0161altini\u0173, patys turime organizuoti teigiamus \u0161altinius. Nesitik\u0117ti to i\u0161 mokytoj\u0173, draug\u0173 ar kaimyn\u0173. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Netinkamus dalykus tiesiog turime keisti tinkamais. Ir taip, tai kainuoja t\u0117v\u0173 laiko. Bet \u010dia kaip dar\u017ee: arba ravime patys arba tuoj pikt\u017eoli\u0173 pridygs. O tada net teis\u0117s netur\u0117tume sakyti, kad nieko negalima buvo padaryti. Pasaulis blogas. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Labai palaikau t\u0117vus, kurie nesig\u0117dyja kartu su vaiku kad ir \u012f b\u016brel\u012f nueiti, pasteb\u0117ti kokia tai aplinka. Filtruoja draugus, filmus, \u017eaidimus ir pan. Gerbiu t\u0117vus, kurie atranda j\u0117g\u0173 \u012fveikti save ir persiorganizuoti savo prioritetus, vertybes taip, kad vaikai jaust\u0173 palaikym\u0105, saugumo jausm\u0105 ir teising\u0105 pavyzd\u012f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Visk\u0105 drausti, riboti, var\u017eyti – n\u0117ra i\u0161eitis, nes tai nieko \u017emogaus nemoko. Prie\u0161ingai, j\u012f pygdo, li\u016bdina, \u017elugdo. O paie\u0161ka tinkam\u0173 pavyzd\u017ei\u0173, tinkam\u0173 s\u0105lyg\u0173 ir galimybi\u0173 realizuoti save ir savo poreikius padaro \u017emog\u0173 laiming\u0105, sveik\u0105, pasitikinti savimi ir, svarbiausia, kuriant\u012f gra\u017eius dalykus. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Ne paslaptis kaip ,,ekranai” u\u017ekariauja vis daugiau m\u016bs\u0173 laiko. Galb\u016bt tai \u017emonijos evoliucijos etapas, kuris subr\u0119s ir atne\u0161 mums ka\u017ekoki\u0173 poky\u010di\u0173, nauj\u0173 pasiekim\u0173 ar net nusivylim\u0173. Bet a\u0161 ne apie tai. Mane domina viskas, kas \u012feina \u012f mano vaik\u0173 aplinkos formavim\u0105. Tad virtualus pasaulis – ne i\u0161imtis. Labai ai\u0161kiai vaiko elgesyje galima pasteb\u0117ti k\u0105 jis […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":15728,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[42],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15729","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-vaiku-auklejimas-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/e518c9bf-2ed1-4ec5-8d09-90d1753b988e.jpg",1366,683,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/e518c9bf-2ed1-4ec5-8d09-90d1753b988e-800x683.jpg",800,683,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/e518c9bf-2ed1-4ec5-8d09-90d1753b988e-800x400.jpg",800,400,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/e518c9bf-2ed1-4ec5-8d09-90d1753b988e-768x384.jpg",768,384,true],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/e518c9bf-2ed1-4ec5-8d09-90d1753b988e-1024x512.jpg",1024,512,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/e518c9bf-2ed1-4ec5-8d09-90d1753b988e.jpg",1366,683,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/e518c9bf-2ed1-4ec5-8d09-90d1753b988e.jpg",1366,683,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Ne paslaptis kaip ,,ekranai” u\u017ekariauja vis daugiau m\u016bs\u0173 laiko. 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Labai ai\u0161kiai vaiko elgesyje galima pasteb\u0117ti k\u0105 jis…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15729","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15729"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15729\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15730,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15729\/revisions\/15730"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15728"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15729"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15729"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15729"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}