{"id":15737,"date":"2023-04-05T00:51:27","date_gmt":"2023-04-04T21:51:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=15737"},"modified":"2023-04-05T00:51:27","modified_gmt":"2023-04-04T21:51:27","slug":"kam-eiti-ratais-kvadratais-jeigu-galima-tiesiai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/kam-eiti-ratais-kvadratais-jeigu-galima-tiesiai\/","title":{"rendered":"KAM EITI RATAIS KVADRATAIS, JEIGU GALIMA TIESIAI?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

B\u016bsiu ne populiari, bet \u017evelgiant kas vyksta pasaulyje, svarbi tampa kiekviena sekund\u0117. A\u0161 v\u0117l apie vaik\u0173 aukl\u0117jim\u0105. Tiksliau, po\u017ei\u016br\u012f \u012f aukl\u0117jimo tiksl\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vis dar populiaru manyti, kad vaikams reikia ,,padovanoti” vaikyst\u0119, kuriant ro\u017ein\u012f burbul\u0105 aplink juos. Visos pasakos, stebuklai tarsi perkelia vaik\u0105 \u012f gra\u017e\u0173, saug\u0173 \u012fsivaizduojam\u0105 pasaul\u012f, kuriame vaikas gali jaustis laimingas. Bet ar tikrai jis ,,ten” laimingas?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vaikas gim\u0117 tam, kad pa\u017eint\u0173 save ir savo vaidmen\u012f gamtos at\u017evilgiu. O \u010dia imame ir ,,u\u017e\u0161aldome” juos keletai met\u0173 ro\u017einiame pasaulyje, i\u0161 kurio i\u0161tr\u016bkus dar reikia ne\u017einia kiek met\u0173 susigaudyti pagal kokias taisykles veikia \u0161i pasaulis. Nesu tikra ar verta d\u0117l keli\u0173 neva vaikyst\u0117s met\u0173 v\u0117liau sumok\u0117ti tokia kaina. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u016bs\u0173 vaikams kuriama netikra realyb\u0117 yra laikina iliuzija, kuri neparuo\u0161ia vaiko tikram gyvenimui. Mes tarsi paki\u0161ame reakyb\u0119 po kilimu ir apsimetame, kad nieko nevyksta. Juk ji tokia neskani, nepriimtina, nesuvokiama. O vaikai tai mus stebi. Jie jau\u010dia, kad ka\u017eko nesakome. Neparodome.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nenuostabu, kad vaikai nepasitiki suaugusiais. Nelaiko j\u0173 autoritetais. Nesklauso. Prie\u0161tarauja. O mes dar juos ir j\u0117ga bandome sukontroliuoti, ,,i\u0161aukl\u0117ti”, i\u0161g\u0105sdinti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Savaime suprantama, kad nereikia vaikams rodyti vis\u0173 blogybi\u0173, jos ir taip u\u017ekoduotos vaiko prigimtyje. Jam reikia matyti teigiamus pavyzd\u017eius, mokytis bendravimo meno, b\u016bti atsakingu, pasitik\u0117ti savimi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vaikai prie\u0161inasi mums, nes jie jau\u010dia, kad mes meluojame (meluojame kartais net ir patys sau). Pradedame nuo nekalt\u0173 pasak\u0173, i\u0161galvot\u0173 sald\u017ei\u0173 dalyk\u0173. O kuo toliau, tuo dar labiau i\u0161kraipome vaiko pasaulio suvokim\u0105 vis dad\u0117dami po kok\u012f ,,sald\u0173” mel\u0105 kiekvienai situacijai. Vaikai jau\u010dia, kad negali gauti ai\u0161ki\u0173 gyvenimo instrukcij\u0173, kurios veikt\u0173 visose situacijose. N\u0117ra vieningo po\u017ei\u016brio. Ved\u017eiojame juos ratais kvadratais tarp ,,daryk taip” ir ,,ne\u017einau, pats ie\u0161kok”. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vaikai pas\u0105moningai laukia bent i\u0161 savo t\u0117v\u0173 krypties, bet, deja, da\u017enai gauna tik i\u0161galvotus dalykus, kurie ,,lengvesni” ir smagesni u\u017e realyb\u0119, bet vistiek i\u0161galvoti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tikrai tikiu, kad pasaulyje padaug\u0117t\u0173 laiming\u0173 ir sveik\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173, jeigu nuo pat gimimo \u017emogus b\u016bt\u0173 mokomas b\u016bti \u017emogumi. Dar b\u016bdamas vaikas \u017einot\u0173 kod\u0117l jis gyvena, kokia jo egzistavimo prasm\u0117 ir k\u0105 jis turi gyvenime padaryti, kad jaust\u0173 pilnaverti\u0161kum\u0105 ir malonum\u0105 gyventi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ech… gal visgi eikime tiesiai, o ne ratais kvadratais… \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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B\u016bsiu ne populiari, bet \u017evelgiant kas vyksta pasaulyje, svarbi tampa kiekviena sekund\u0117. A\u0161 v\u0117l apie vaik\u0173 aukl\u0117jim\u0105. Tiksliau, po\u017ei\u016br\u012f \u012f aukl\u0117jimo tiksl\u0105. Vis dar populiaru manyti, kad vaikams reikia ,,padovanoti” vaikyst\u0119, kuriant ro\u017ein\u012f burbul\u0105 aplink juos. Visos pasakos, stebuklai tarsi perkelia vaik\u0105 \u012f gra\u017e\u0173, saug\u0173 \u012fsivaizduojam\u0105 pasaul\u012f, kuriame vaikas gali jaustis laimingas. 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