Ka\u017ekaip ilgai nedr\u012fsau apie tai ra\u0161yti, bet po pokalbio su nuostabiais \u017emon\u0117mis, nutariau, kad tai labai svarbi detal\u0117 vaik\u0173 aukl\u0117jimo ar net santuokos temoje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Moterys labai gerai \u017eino, kaip gimus vaikui visas pasaulis ima suktis aplink j\u012f. Tai motini\u0161ki instinktai. Nat\u016bral\u016bs. Da\u017enai net ir nesusim\u0105stome, kaip visa tai \u012ftakoja m\u016bs\u0173 santykius su vyru ar net bendrai visoje \u0161eimoje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Norisi apgobti kiekvien\u0105 vaik\u0105 asmeni\u0161kai r\u016bpes\u010diu, meile. Norisi, kad jam nieko netr\u016bkt\u0173, kad jis jaust\u0173si saugus, brangus ir individualus. Bandome aplink kiekvien\u0105 vaik\u0105 sukurti meil\u0117s kokon\u0105, kokon\u0105 tik jam. Atrodo, kad viskas pagal plan\u0105. Bet staiga visi kokonai \u0161eimoje nebesusikalba, reikalauja tik sau, nepaiso kit\u0173, griauna, naikina. Tada nusvyra rankos. Jau\u010diame, kad \u0161eimos nebeliko.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mes \u0161eimoje laikom\u0117s tokios id\u0117jos – \u0161eima, tai ne individai, o ry\u0161ys tarp \u0161eimos nari\u0173. Tas ry\u0161ys yra bendras visiems, o ne individualus tarp keli\u0173 \u0161eimos nari\u0173. Tai bendras laukas, bendra nuotaika, bendri i\u0161gyvenimai, bendros pastangos. Tai bendra erdv\u0117, kurioje kiekvienas gali jaustis laimingas ir saugus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Susitiko jis ir ji. Kibirk\u0161tis. Sprendimas. \u0160eimos u\u017euomazga. Susiliejimas. Naujos gyvyb\u0117s prad\u017eia. Tarpusavio ry\u0161io t\u0119sinys. Papildymas. \u0160eima… arba jis, ji ir jie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Viskas priklauso nuo to, kaip \u017emon\u0117s gyvena, k\u0105 veikia, kuo tiki ir pan. Kaip jau min\u0117jau, gimus vaikui, nat\u016braliai tarp moters ir vyro atsiranda tarsi ,,duob\u0117”, kuri\u0105 bandome u\u017epildyti bendrais r\u016bpes\u010diais vaiku. Bet da\u017enai moters atsakomyb\u0117, \u012fsitraukimas, nuovargis ir instinktai u\u017ego\u017eia vyr\u0105, jis lieka nuo\u0161alyje. Ir i\u0161 \u0161eimos trikampio, geriausiu atveju, lieka linija ir ta\u0161kas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0160iame etape skirtingais keliais pasuka nema\u017eai por\u0173. Ir koks tada yra vaiko aukl\u0117jimas? Nors ir vis\u0105 pasaul\u012f paklok jam po kojom, jis nebus visi\u0161kai laimingas. Nes jam tr\u016bks tos vienos d\u0117lion\u0117s detal\u0117s. Juk susitiko jis ir ji. Kibirk\u0161tis. Sprendimas. \u0160eimos u\u017euomazga. Susiliejimas. Naujos gyvyb\u0117s prad\u017eia. Tarpusavio ry\u0161io t\u0119sinys. Papildymas. \u0160eima…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Taigi, privaloma s\u0105lyga tampa ta, kad t\u0117vai turi i\u0161laikyti t\u0105 erdv\u0119 tarp sav\u0119s gyv\u0105. Turi j\u0105 stiprinti ir integruoti vaikus \u012f j\u0105. Tai tarsi kokonas visai \u0161eimai, ne daug ma\u017e\u0173 kokoniuk\u0173 kiekvienam asmeni\u0161kai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0160is \u0161eimos kokonas tampa mokytoju. Jis guod\u0117jas. Jis \u0161iluma ir jaukumas. Jis – visas pasaulis, kuriame egzistuojame visi kartu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mes to mokom\u0117s kasdien. N\u0117ra paprasta ar lengva, bet jau\u010diu, kaip tai reikalinga. Kitu atveju visi netenkame orientyro, pagal kur\u012f koreguojame save, savo elges\u012f, savo reakcijas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0160eima, tai ne individai, o ry\u0161ys tarp \u0161eimos nari\u0173. Tas ry\u0161ys yra bendras visiems, o ne individualus tarp keli\u0173 \u0161eimos nari\u0173. Tai bendras laukas, bendra nuotaika, bendri i\u0161gyvenimai, bendros pastangos. Tai bendra erdv\u0117, kurioje kiekvienas gali jaustis laimingas ir saugus.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Ka\u017ekaip ilgai nedr\u012fsau apie tai ra\u0161yti, bet po pokalbio su nuostabiais \u017emon\u0117mis, nutariau, kad tai labai svarbi detal\u0117 vaik\u0173 aukl\u0117jimo ar net santuokos temoje. Moterys labai gerai \u017eino, kaip gimus vaikui visas pasaulis ima suktis aplink j\u012f. Tai motini\u0161ki instinktai. Nat\u016bral\u016bs. Da\u017enai net ir nesusim\u0105stome, kaip visa tai \u012ftakoja m\u016bs\u0173 santykius su vyru ar net […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":15767,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[42,44],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15768","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-vaiku-auklejimas-straipsniai","category-vyrai-moterys-santuoka-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/ae969e64-5fb8-467c-bb48-a4e1e3b0533b.jpg",1366,683,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/ae969e64-5fb8-467c-bb48-a4e1e3b0533b-800x683.jpg",800,683,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/ae969e64-5fb8-467c-bb48-a4e1e3b0533b-800x400.jpg",800,400,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/ae969e64-5fb8-467c-bb48-a4e1e3b0533b-768x384.jpg",768,384,true],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/ae969e64-5fb8-467c-bb48-a4e1e3b0533b-1024x512.jpg",1024,512,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/ae969e64-5fb8-467c-bb48-a4e1e3b0533b.jpg",1366,683,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/ae969e64-5fb8-467c-bb48-a4e1e3b0533b.jpg",1366,683,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Ka\u017ekaip ilgai nedr\u012fsau apie tai ra\u0161yti, bet po pokalbio su nuostabiais \u017emon\u0117mis, nutariau, kad tai labai svarbi detal\u0117 vaik\u0173 aukl\u0117jimo ar net santuokos temoje. Moterys labai gerai \u017eino, kaip gimus vaikui visas pasaulis ima suktis aplink j\u012f. Tai motini\u0161ki instinktai. Nat\u016bral\u016bs. 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