Prie\u0161 kelias dienas su vaikais atvykome \u012f mokykl\u0105 met\u0173 \u017eini\u0173 patikrinimui. R\u016bbin\u0117je dirban\u010dios moterys nesivargino palaukti kol paeisime toliau, nei\u0161kentusios \u0117m\u0117 tarpusavyje kalb\u0117tis kokia a\u0161 nelaiminga moteris, nusprendusi u\u017edaryti save namuose su vaikais ir dar juos mokyti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nepykau ant j\u0173. Juk \u017emogus nebuv\u0119s Pary\u017eiuje, gali tik fantazuoti kokia ten nuotaika tvyro. O tas, kas ten gyvena \u2013 alsuoja Pary\u017eiumi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ugdymas \u0161eimoje dar turi atrasti savo paveiksl\u0105 Lietuvoje. O kol \u0161eimos j\u012f tyliai ir kantriai kuria, did\u017eioji visuomen\u0117s dalis renkasi jai suvokiamis vaizdinius. Ka\u017ekam tai atrodo nuotolinis mokymasis, ka\u017ekam tai mokykla namuose, ka\u017ekam tai beprotyb\u0117 ir pati did\u017eiausia nes\u0105mon\u0117. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
O mums tai nepakrtojama gyvenimo dovana. Matyti kaip gimsta vaik\u0173 pasauliai, skirtingi ir \u012fdom\u016bs, kaip kei\u010diuosi pati ir mano po\u017ei\u016bris. Tur\u0117ti galimyb\u0119 b\u016bti \u0161alia savo vaik\u0173 ir aptarnauti j\u0173 tobul\u0117jim\u0105. Dom\u0117tis \u017emogumi, jo psichologija, s\u0105veika su kitais \u017emon\u0117mis bei s\u0105veika su gamta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ugdymas \u0161eimoje leid\u017eia \u012fsigilinti \u012f dalykus tiek, kiek reikia, jog suvoktum juos ir protu, ir \u0161irdimi. Vis sieki geresn\u0117s gyvenimo kokyb\u0117s, prasm\u0117s. Kuri saugias aplinkas ne tik savo vaikams, bet ir j\u0173 draugams. Tai aktyvus gyvenimas, suteikiantis pilnatv\u0117s jausm\u0105 ir apsaugantis nuo per didelio susir\u016bpinimo tik savimi. Man tai ka\u017ekas kilnaus ir didingo. Tai investicija ne tik \u012f mano, vaik\u0173 ar an\u016bk\u0173 gyvenim\u0105. Po galais, tai juk bandymas padaryti teigiamus poky\u010dius ateities kartoms!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ugdym\u0105 matau kaip ilgalaik\u012f proces\u0105, kuriame palaipsniui vaikas \u012fgauna \u017eini\u0173 ir \u012fg\u016bd\u017ei\u0173. Labai pikta klausyti komentarus mokytoj\u0173, mokykl\u0173 steig\u0117j\u0173 ar kit\u0173 ,,specialist\u0173\u201d, kurie vos pra\u0117jus trims metams nuo ugdymo \u0161eimoje \u012fstatymo pri\u0117mimo m\u016bs\u0173 \u0161alyje jau vie\u0161ai vertina vaikus, ugdomus \u0161eimoje, kaip nes\u0117kmingus. O j\u0173 t\u0117vus \u2013 nekompetetingus. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
A\u0161 manau, kad akademinius rezultatus galima bus vertinti tik tada, kai ugdymo \u0161eimoje mokymosi form\u0105 taikan\u010dios \u0161eimos keliaus laikyti valstybini\u0173 egzamin\u0173, rinksis auk\u0161t\u0105sias mokyklas ir pan. Beje, ma\u017ea, bet vertingiausia smulkmena ta, kad t\u0117vai ugdo vaikus \u0161eimoje ne tik ,,pa\u017eymiui\u201d. Dauguma \u0161eim\u0173 orientuotos \u012f vaiko asmenyb\u0119, \u012f jo pasaul\u0117\u017ei\u016bros formavim\u0105. Taigi, ugdymas tampa svarbi vaiko aukl\u0117jimo dalimi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0160tai kod\u0117l pirmoje klas\u0117je vertinti vaik\u0105 dar anksti. Smagu, kai sekasi. Bet argi n\u0117ra gerai ir mok\u0117ti tvarkytis su klaidomis? Noriu, kad vaikas \u017einot\u0173, kad mokymasis yra ilgas b\u0117gimas, o ne sprintas, kur ,,i\u0161kaliau\u201d tam kartui ir u\u017ever\u010diau t\u0105 puslap\u012f. Juk mokytis teks vis\u0105 gyvenim\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Savo ugdymo procese bandau atrasti b\u016bd\u0173 kaip perteikti vaikams vis\u0173 dalyk\u0173 s\u0105sajas, j\u0173 panaudojim\u0105 kasdieniniame gyvenime. D\u017eiaugiuosi, kad atsiranda vadov\u0117li\u0173 autori\u0173, bandan\u010di\u0173 suskaldytus dalykus sujungti \u012f vientis\u0105 sistem\u0105. Tiesiog integralaus pasaulio veikimo suvokimas \u0161iandien tampa ,,must\u201d dalyku. Nenoriu, kad vaikai ,,skl\u0119stu\u201d nepa\u017e\u012fstamoje ir nevaldomoje erdv\u0117je, nesuvokdami kas dedasi. Tai varo \u012f nevilt\u012f, depresij\u0105, beprasmyb\u0119. Noriu, kad bent jau sugeb\u0117t\u0173 susiorientuoti link kur juos ,,vaiko\u201d gamta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Auk\u0161ti siekiai. \u017dinau. Bet nepasinaudoti tokia galimybe b\u016bt\u0173 nedovanotina klaida. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Taigi, neu\u017esidarau sav\u0119s namuose su vaikais nelaiminga, o prie\u0161ingai \u2013 i\u0161silaisvinu save i\u0161 dirbtinai suformuot\u0173 \u0161ablon\u0173 ir leid\u017eiu sau b\u016bti moterimi, apie kuri\u0105 dar mokysim\u0117s mokyklos vadov\u0117liuose. Kas \u017eino, gal greta i\u0161nykusi\u0173 dinozaur\u0173 .<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Prie\u0161 kelias dienas su vaikais atvykome \u012f mokykl\u0105 met\u0173 \u017eini\u0173 patikrinimui. R\u016bbin\u0117je dirban\u010dios moterys nesivargino palaukti kol paeisime toliau, nei\u0161kentusios \u0117m\u0117 tarpusavyje kalb\u0117tis kokia a\u0161 nelaiminga moteris, nusprendusi u\u017edaryti save namuose su vaikais ir dar juos mokyti. Nepykau ant j\u0173. Juk \u017emogus nebuv\u0119s Pary\u017eiuje, gali tik fantazuoti kokia ten nuotaika tvyro. 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