Sakoma, kad tai d\u0117snis (bausm\u0117 ir apdovanojimas), pagal kur\u012f mes gyvename. Vieni jautriau pastebim gyvenimo siun\u010diamus signalus, kiti – ma\u017eiau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Man visada buvo \u012fdomu kaip \u0161is d\u0117snis veikia vaik\u0173 aukl\u0117jime. Tiksliau, kaip tur\u0117\u010diau teisingai pasinaudoti bausme ir apdovanojimu, kad netenkin\u010diau tik sav\u0119s ar supainio\u010diau vaikus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sunku pasikliauti tik savimi, nes da\u017enai sprendimai kyla neapgalvojus, o instinktyviai, kas ir pridaro daugiausia \u017ealos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kai procese atsiranda t\u0117v\u0173 asmenin\u0117s nuotaikos, nuomon\u0117s, tada aukl\u0117jime nebelieka vieningos linijos. Vaikas nebesupranta kur ir kokios yra ribos, nes vien\u0105kart u\u017e tam tikrus dalykus yra baud\u017eiamas, o kit\u0105kart u\u017e tuos pa\u010dius dalykus apdovanojamas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Neu\u017etenka vien t\u0117vams laikytis vienos linijos, vaikai su laiku irgi turi j\u0105 pa\u017einti ir prie jos prisid\u0117ti. Nes j\u0173 prigimtis – egoisti\u0161ka, nukreipta \u012f savo gerov\u0119.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pavyzd\u017eiui, leisiu vaikui suvalgyti vis\u0105 tort\u0105. Man tai bus didel\u0117 bausm\u0117 vaiko k\u016bnui. Bet vaikui tai atrodys kaip adovanojimas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Na, su tortu gana standartinis pavyzdys, bet kasdieniniame gyvenime tikrai daug situacij\u0173, kuomet bausm\u0117 ir apdovanojimas supainiojami taip, kad nebeai\u0161ku kas ir kaip.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mane su\u017eav\u0117jo mintis, kad jeigu norime taikyti \u0161\u012f princip\u0105 aukl\u0117jime, turime patys atpa\u017einti \u0161iuos d\u0117snius savo gyvenime ir tada parodyti tai vaikams. T.y. vaikai turi \u017einoti, kad gyvename tarsi gamtos sistem\u0173 voratinklyje, kuriame egzistuoja bausm\u0117s ir apdovanojimai, nes taip kiekviena gamtos dalel\u0117 tobul\u0117ja ir art\u0117ja prie savo teisingos formos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Da\u017enai \u017emogus apsigauna manydamas, kad jeigu jam materialiai sekasi gyvenime, vadinasi gyvenimas j\u012f apdovanoja. O vos tik nutiko ka\u017ekas ne taip – baud\u017eia. Tai gan\u0117tinai siauras matymas, kurio d\u0117sningumo net vaikams negal\u0117\u010diau apib\u016bdinti, nes ne visada b\u016bna b\u016btent taip.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mane domina dalykai, kuriuos galima ap\u010diuopti pa\u010diams (ar fizi\u0161kai, ar jausmi\u0161kai). Tod\u0117l su dideliu smalsumu neriu ie\u0161koti kas tie apdovanojimai ir kas bausm\u0117 paprasto \u017emogaus gyvenime. Ir svarbiausia, kieno at\u017evilgiu turiu vertinti. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Sakoma, kad tai d\u0117snis (bausm\u0117 ir apdovanojimas), pagal kur\u012f mes gyvename. Vieni jautriau pastebim gyvenimo siun\u010diamus signalus, kiti – ma\u017eiau. Man visada buvo \u012fdomu kaip \u0161is d\u0117snis veikia vaik\u0173 aukl\u0117jime. Tiksliau, kaip tur\u0117\u010diau teisingai pasinaudoti bausme ir apdovanojimu, kad netenkin\u010diau tik sav\u0119s ar supainio\u010diau vaikus. 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