Vis daugiau ir daugiau sutinku \u017emoni\u0173, kurie meil\u0119 apib\u016bdina ne kaip nat\u016brali\u0105 trauk\u0105, pripratim\u0105, patogum\u0105, bet kaip ka\u017ek\u0105 tokio, kas tarsi pakelia partnerius \u012f visai kitoki\u0105 gyvenimo kokyb\u0119, \u012f berib\u012f lauk\u0105, kuriame vyksta meil\u0117s \u0161okis: duodu ir imu, duodu ir imu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tokie atradimai, \u017einoma, da\u017eniusiai negimsta savaime. Su patirtimi ateina ir i\u0161mintis. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mes savo \u0161eimoje labai rimtai \u017ei\u016brime \u012f tarpusavio ry\u0161\u012f ir jo puosel\u0117jimas. Mums tai atrodo pamatinis dalykas, kuris laiko mus kartu, padaro mus stiprius ir moko ne tik mus kas yra meil\u0117, bet ir rodo pavyzd\u012f vaikams, kad tikroji meil\u0117 turi b\u016bti statoma s\u0105moningai. Tai darbas, kuris reikalauja budrumo, nes vos \u017eeng\u0119s koj\u0105 \u012f netinkam\u0105 aplink\u0105, gali sumok\u0117ti viskuo k\u0105 turi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Man atrodo, kad vyro ir moters santyki\u0173 kontekste yra kiek rizikinga manyti, kad ,,kas nenu\u017eudo, tas padaro stipresnius”. Nemalon\u016bs dalykai palieka \u017eymes, skaud\u017eias ir nemalonias, kurias da\u017eniausia partneriai slepia giliausiose kertel\u0117se, bet jos yra ir nebeleid\u017eia art\u0117ti vienam su kitu, pasitik\u0117ti. Tad jeigu yra b\u016bdas mokytis myl\u0117ti vienas kit\u0105 be t\u0173 skausming\u0173 padarini\u0173, argi n\u0117ra protinga padirb\u0117ti \u0161iuo klausimu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Da\u017enai u\u017eduodu sau klausim\u0105: ,,Imsiu vadeles \u012f savo rankas ar leisiu viskam vadovauti mano instinktams?”.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0160is klausimas ypatingas tuo, kad primena man, jog nevaldomi procesai atne\u0161a ir nevaldomas pas\u0117kmes. Savaime palikti santykiai beveik niekada nesivysto art\u0117jimo kryptimi. Kartais bandai save apgauti, \u012ftikinti, ta\u010diau stebint \u017emogaus vidin\u0117s evoliucijos raid\u0105, tendencijos rodo, kad labai greitai kiekvienas \u017emogus nor\u0117s gyventi po vien\u0105, nes taip patogiausia. Joki\u0173 ai\u0161kinimosi, derinimosi, nusileidim\u0173, klausymosi. Pa\u017eangios technologijos apr\u016bpina viskuo, belieka m\u0117gautis gyvenimu. Ir kuo ma\u017eiau \u012fsipareigojim\u0173, tuo geriau!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u017dmogus turi vidin\u012f siek\u012f b\u016bti nepriklausomas nuo visko, ne\u012fvertinant kaip mes visgi esame priklausomi vienas nuo kito. Bet b\u016btent tas noras gyventi nevar\u017eomai ir laimingai ir atveda prie to, jog reikia ka\u017ek\u0105 daryti su m\u016bs\u0173 santykiais, nes nuo to priklauso mano nuotaika, gyvenimo kokyb\u0117, svajon\u0117s, atostogos, miegas, net maistas!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nenoriu palikti visko spr\u0119sti hormonams ir laukti t\u0173 akimirk\u0173, kai nor\u0117siu apkabinti ar b\u016bti apkabinta, kai nor\u0117siu i\u0161klausyti ar b\u016bti i\u0161girsta. O kas jeigu to nebebus? Jeigu nebebus traukos, \u017eav\u0117jimosi, tai k\u0105, imsiu ignoruoti t\u0105, kur\u012f taip kruop\u0161\u010diai pasirinkau b\u016bti mano partneriu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Noriu s\u0105moningai kartu su savo partneriu stiprinti ry\u0161\u012f. Noriu mokytis kurti t\u0105 ypating\u0105 lauk\u0105, kuris tarsi pakelia partnerius \u012f visai kitoki\u0105 gyvenimo kokyb\u0119, \u012f berib\u0119 erdv\u0119, kurioje vyksta meil\u0117s \u0161okis: duodu ir imu, duodu ir imu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ir viskas prasideda nuo to, kad atsakau sau \u012f klausim\u0105: ,,Imsiu vadeles \u012f savo rankas ar leisiu viskam vadovauti mano instinktams?”.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Vis daugiau ir daugiau sutinku \u017emoni\u0173, kurie meil\u0119 apib\u016bdina ne kaip nat\u016brali\u0105 trauk\u0105, pripratim\u0105, patogum\u0105, bet kaip ka\u017ek\u0105 tokio, kas tarsi pakelia partnerius \u012f visai kitoki\u0105 gyvenimo kokyb\u0119, \u012f berib\u012f lauk\u0105, kuriame vyksta meil\u0117s \u0161okis: duodu ir imu, duodu ir imu. Tokie atradimai, \u017einoma, da\u017eniusiai negimsta savaime. Su patirtimi ateina ir i\u0161mintis. 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