\u0160iandien, skub\u0117dama i\u0161 vieno vaiko b\u016brelio \u012f kit\u0105, pralenkiau jaunus t\u0117vus. Vyras st\u016bm\u0117 v\u0117\u017eim\u0117l\u012f, o mama ne\u0161\u0117 rankose keli\u0173 m\u0117nesi\u0173 k\u016bdik\u012f. Vyras \u017evilgtel\u0117jo \u012f mane su s\u016bnumi ne\u0161iokl\u0117je ir tar\u0117 \u017emonai: ,,Tau gal irgi tokio reikia, atrodo patogiai, vistiek rankose visada ne\u0161i”.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ka\u017ekaip prisiminiau savo pirmuosius \u017eingsnius motinyst\u0117je. Visus dalykus, kuriems sakiau ,,Ne, man nereik\u0117s”, ,,Ne, man taip nebus!”. O, jatau, palyginau t\u0105 pokyt\u012f kokia buvau ir esu. Maniau, kad \u017einau visk\u0105, o dabar suprantu, kokia pasimetusi buvau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Su metais po truput\u012f skleid\u017eiasi tas gra\u017eus \u017eiedas – mama. Truputis kantryb\u0117s, pagarbos, palaikymo ir svarbos \ud83d\ude4f\ud83c\udffc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Da\u017enai man\u0119s klausia, kaip a\u0161 visk\u0105 sp\u0117ju su trimis vaikais. Ties\u0105 pasakius, ne visada visk\u0105 sp\u0117ju. Kartais visai nesp\u0117ju. Bet tada spjaunu \u012f visk\u0105 ir pasakau sau: ,,Svarbiausia – tarpusavio santykiai! O material\u016bs dalykai gali palaukti”. Ta pertrauk\u0117l\u0117 neb\u016bna ilga ar tokia \u017ealinga kaip gali atrodyti. Prie\u0161ingai, susitelkimas \u012f tarpusavio ry\u0161\u012f \u0161eimoje duoda labai daug j\u0117g\u0173, atsako \u012f klausimus, pa\u0161alina abejones ir duoda u\u017etikrintumo. Nor\u0117\u010diau, kad toks ry\u017etas b\u016bt\u0173 visada, o ne tada kai nebesuvaldai viso, kad vyksta \ud83d\ude0c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Na, o visa kita, kai sp\u0117ju – \u012fdirbis. Su metais ateina ir patirtis, ir \u017einios. Kartojo mums tai daug kart\u0173, manau. Tik dabar suprantu, kad tikrai su laiku i\u0161moksti (ir nuolat vis mokaisi) kaip suderinti trij\u0173, keturi\u0173, o dabar ir penki\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173 pasaulius taip, kad liktum gyva \ud83d\ude01. Atsiranda u\u017etikrintumas tame k\u0105 darai, supranti kaip aplinka \u012ftakoja tavo vaik\u0173 b\u016bsenas, \u017einai ko vengti, kur geriau neiti. Imi planuoti (O, taip, sunkiausia man dalis). Svarbiausia, i\u0161moksti atsiplaiduoti net chaose. Tampi tikra savo srities meistr\u0117 \ud83e\udd1e\ud83c\udffc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Svarbu tik\u0117ti savimi ir \u017einoti, kad am\u017einai tai nesit\u0119s. Be to, gyvenimas n\u0117ra tik vaik\u0173 auginimui skirtas. Vaikai – tai tik priemon\u0117 Jai ir Jam pereiti \u012f kitoki\u0105 santyki\u0173 kokyb\u0119, tai priemon\u0117 Jiems vystytis kaip atsakingiems \u017emon\u0117ms, tai priemon\u0117 tam tikr\u0105 gyvenimo dal\u012f mokytis gyventi ne tik d\u0117l sav\u0119s, galiausiai, tai priemon\u0117, kuri mergin\u0105 paver\u010dia tikra Moterim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tai gra\u017eus brendimo laikas, kuriame vyskta daug maloni\u0173 ir ne visai dalyk\u0173. Net i\u0161moksti pamilti chaos\u0105 u\u017e tai, kad jis atne\u0161a \u012f tavo gyvenim\u0105 nor\u0105 kokybei, ry\u0161iui, i\u0161ry\u0161kina svarbiausius dalykus. Kur tai matyta?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Manau, kad kiekvienos mamos gyvenime.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u0160iandien, skub\u0117dama i\u0161 vieno vaiko b\u016brelio \u012f kit\u0105, pralenkiau jaunus t\u0117vus. Vyras st\u016bm\u0117 v\u0117\u017eim\u0117l\u012f, o mama ne\u0161\u0117 rankose keli\u0173 m\u0117nesi\u0173 k\u016bdik\u012f. Vyras \u017evilgtel\u0117jo \u012f mane su s\u016bnumi ne\u0161iokl\u0117je ir tar\u0117 \u017emonai: ,,Tau gal irgi tokio reikia, atrodo patogiai, vistiek rankose visada ne\u0161i”. Ka\u017ekaip prisiminiau savo pirmuosius \u017eingsnius motinyst\u0117je. 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Vyras st\u016bm\u0117 v\u0117\u017eim\u0117l\u012f, o mama ne\u0161\u0117 rankose keli\u0173 m\u0117nesi\u0173 k\u016bdik\u012f. Vyras \u017evilgtel\u0117jo \u012f mane su s\u016bnumi ne\u0161iokl\u0117je ir tar\u0117 \u017emonai: ,,Tau gal irgi tokio reikia, atrodo patogiai, vistiek rankose visada ne\u0161i”. Ka\u017ekaip prisiminiau savo pirmuosius \u017eingsnius motinyst\u0117je. 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