Kam netr\u016bksta laiko?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Greit\u0117jantis gyvenimo tempas ver\u010dia \u012fgyti nauj\u0173 organizavimo \u012fg\u016bd\u017ei\u0173 \ud83d\ude0c. Nelabai man sekasi vykdyti visk\u0105 ,,pagal plan\u0105” (tame dar slypi klausimas ar tam planui buvo verta i\u0161vysti pasaul\u012f).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Gerai, gr\u012f\u017etant prie temos, \u0161is \u012fra\u0161as apie laik\u0105, kurio taip tr\u016bksta. Tiksliau, apie laiko valgytojus, kurie i\u0161veda i\u0161 pusiausvyros, pakei\u010dia krypt\u012f, suvalgo t\u016bkstan\u010dius minu\u010di\u0173! Kas jie? Kas tie laiko valgytojai?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Norai. Kas sekund\u0119 besikei\u010diantys norai, kuriuos vis bandai u\u017epildyti. Dar da\u017enai prisideda ir ne tik mano norai: vaikai nori to, vyras kito, kolega tre\u010dio, gatv\u0117je sutiktas \u017emogus ketvirto ir taip be paliavos… nekalbu apie aplinkos poveik\u012f man, marketingo atakas ir t.t. Bet net atsid\u016brus ten, kur n\u0117ra \u017emoni\u0173, ka\u017eko vistiek vis noriu. Ir kol negausiu ko noriu, negaliu atsipaliduoti, jaustis laiminga.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Gird\u0117jau, kad \u017emogus mir\u0161ta kuomet dingsta jo norai. Gal tod\u0117l statisti\u0161kai moterys ir gyvena ilgiau, nes mes norim ir norim. Vyrams paras\u010diau.. o moteriai vis ka\u017ekas negerai, vis ka\u017eko tr\u016bksta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Man buvo \u012fdomu kaip susitvarkyti su tais norais, nes tikrai tampa ne\u012fmanoma visk\u0105 suderinti, b\u016bti visur, daryti visk\u0105, o kartu neb\u016bti ir nedaryti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Labai d\u017eiaugiuosi \u0161iuo klausimu, nes jis atved\u0117 mane ir mano \u0161eim\u0105 \u012f visai kitokios kokyb\u0117s gyvenim\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Prad\u0117jome fiksuoti ko norime, i\u0161 kur tie norai, kas mus jais ,,u\u017ekret\u0117”, kokie norai dominuoja, k\u0105 jie duoda naudingo, kuria ar griauna, kuriuos norus reikia pildyti, o kurie turi palaukti. Palaipsniui atsirado tam tikra prioritet\u0173 sistema, kuri\u0105 vis kuriame kartu su vyru, pagal savo gyvenimo vertybes. Jam sunku suprasti mane, moter\u012f, o man j\u012f – vyr\u0105. Tai veda prie \u012fdomi\u0173 ir bendr\u0173 i\u0161siai\u0161kinim\u0173 kas mes, kod\u0117l mes tokie, kam tie skirtumai, kur pana\u0161umai ir t.t..<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mums, kaip ir vaikams, n\u0117ra lengva. Bet lakstymas pagal savo kiekvien\u0105 nor\u0105 tave labai i\u0161derina, atima daug resurs\u0173. Susikuria iliuzija, toks vidinis jausmas, kad esi baisiai nelaimimgas, mat niekas nesiseka, niekur nesp\u0117ji.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Beto, nesinori b\u016bti kaip \u0161uniukui, atitr\u016bkusiam nuo pavad\u0117lio ir ne\u017einant nuo ko prad\u0117ti. Nes nor\u0173 tai daug. Norime gyventi s\u0105moningai ir komforti\u0161kai, tad imam\u0117s gyvenimo vadeles \u012f rankas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Skamba keistai, bet jau\u010diuosi geriausiai ir tikrai laisva, kai viskas yra suderinta tarpusavyje, apkalb\u0117ta ir numatyta. \u017dinoma, su s\u0105lyga, kad tai gali ir keistis. Ta\u010diau visos id\u0117jos ar svarb\u016bs norai \u012ftraukti \u012f dienotvark\u0119 tampa \u012fgyvendinti. Kaip ir dant\u0173 valymas ar kiti \u012fpro\u010diai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tokiu b\u016bdu ap\u017eaid\u017eiu laiko valgytojus, u\u017efiksuodama juos, bet i\u0161sirinkusi \u012fgyvendinu tik TUOS svarbiausius norus, tuos, kurie tikrai suteiks gyvybin\u0117s energijos, gyvenimo skonio ir yra b\u016btini. Tarsi padedu juos \u012f pirm\u0105 plan\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ar visada tai pavyksta? Ne. Bet kai pavyksta ,,nutildyti” tuos tikrai neb\u016btinus norus, kurie tik ter\u0161ia eter\u012f, be reikalo u\u017eima tavo galv\u0105, jautiesi labai gerai. Tada atrodo, kad viskas pagal plan\u0105, viskas savo vietoje ir savo laiku. Tu did\u017eiuojiesi savimi, nes nei\u0161davei to tikrojo sav\u0119s ir i\u0161laikei i\u0161sikeltus tikslus, sekiai paskui svarbius norus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Niekada nemaniau, kad teks gyvenime mokytis kaip teisingai nor\u0117ti. Bet gyvenimas rodo, kad jeigu tr\u016bksta laiko, ma\u017eink nor\u0173 s\u0105ra\u0161\u0105 \ud83d\ude01. Gyvenimas per daug brangus, kad i\u0161eikvo\u010diau j\u012f niekams.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
P.S. Nekalbu apie dalykus, kuriuos turime padaryti kaip savo pareig\u0105, kuriems neturime pasirinkimo (pvz.: vaikai, buitis, darbas).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Kam netr\u016bksta laiko? Greit\u0117jantis gyvenimo tempas ver\u010dia \u012fgyti nauj\u0173 organizavimo \u012fg\u016bd\u017ei\u0173 \ud83d\ude0c. Nelabai man sekasi vykdyti visk\u0105 ,,pagal plan\u0105” (tame dar slypi klausimas ar tam planui buvo verta i\u0161vysti pasaul\u012f). Gerai, gr\u012f\u017etant prie temos, \u0161is \u012fra\u0161as apie laik\u0105, kurio taip tr\u016bksta. Tiksliau, apie laiko valgytojus, kurie i\u0161veda i\u0161 pusiausvyros, pakei\u010dia krypt\u012f, suvalgo t\u016bkstan\u010dius minu\u010di\u0173! 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Greit\u0117jantis gyvenimo tempas ver\u010dia \u012fgyti nauj\u0173 organizavimo \u012fg\u016bd\u017ei\u0173 \ud83d\ude0c. Nelabai man sekasi vykdyti visk\u0105 ,,pagal plan\u0105” (tame dar slypi klausimas ar tam planui buvo verta i\u0161vysti pasaul\u012f). Gerai, gr\u012f\u017etant prie temos, \u0161is \u012fra\u0161as apie laik\u0105, kurio taip tr\u016bksta. Tiksliau, apie laiko valgytojus, kurie i\u0161veda i\u0161 pusiausvyros, pakei\u010dia krypt\u012f, suvalgo t\u016bkstan\u010dius minu\u010di\u0173! 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