Galb\u016bt ka\u017ekam atrodo, kad b\u016bdama mama, kuri daugiau investuoja ne \u012f savo asmenin\u0119 s\u0117km\u0119, o kloja pamatus savo vaik\u0173 gyvenimuose, moteris nerealizuoja sav\u0119s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
B\u016bti mama – tai nat\u016bralus dalykas kiekvienai moteriai, tik \u0161iame moderniame pasaulyje visuomen\u0117je dirbtinai kuriamos vertyb\u0117s. Mes aukojame save pinigams, verslui, prabangai to net nesuvokdami, nes gyvename dideliame mele, kuriame \u012fmanoma visi\u0161kai u\u017eprogramuoti \u017emog\u0173, kuris aklai seks tuo, ko nori.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I\u0161 pokalbi\u0173 su moterimis i\u0161girdau, kad tapus mama sud\u0117tingiausia b\u016bna sujungti du, tarsi prie\u0161ingus pasaulius: vienas – \u0161eima ir kitas – visas lik\u0119s pasaulis. I\u0161 vienos pus\u0117s jauti trauk\u0105 pilnai atsiduoti motinystei ir \u0161eimai, i\u0161 kitos – norisi i\u0161likti savimi, siekti savo tiksl\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vaiko gimimas – ne tikslo galas, stebuklai laukia, kol juos atskleisime pakeliui. Gamtos programoje numatytas laikas – ma\u017eiausiai 20 met\u0173. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Skamba g\u0105sdinan\u010diai. Ka\u017ekam net kyla mintys, kad moterims vaikas – kli\u016btis gyvenime, per didele auka. Asmeni\u0161kai a\u0161 da\u017enai sulaukiu bandym\u0173 \u012fteigti, kad esu ne laisva, izoliuota ir nelaiminga. Trys vaikai ir dar ugdymas namuose! <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kiekvienoje moteryje kirbena ma\u017eiukas noras nustoti b\u016bti ,,tik A\u0161” ir tapti mama. Bet kartais visuomen\u0117 yra stipresn\u0117 negu tas noras ir moteris paleid\u017eia, tai kas tikra, pasirinkdama tai, kas buvo sukurta dirbtinai. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pavyzd\u017eiui, vyrauja nuomon\u0117, kad gim\u0119s vaikas sugadina moters gyvenim\u0105, atima i\u0161 jos karjer\u0105 ir ji nuo to ken\u010dia. Nors i\u0161 ties\u0173, ji ken\u010dia d\u0117l to, kad kiti jai sako, jog moters gyvenime yra ka\u017ekas kito, o tas kitas n\u0117ra tikra. Visuomen\u0117 tiesiog i\u0161kelia tu\u0161\u010dias vertybes, kurios i\u0161 tikro neu\u017epildo \u017emogaus, nesuteikia tikros laim\u0117s. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Net ir tas emocinis l\u016b\u017eis, nelengvas pogimdyvinis periodas yra reikalingas tam, kad mama atsijungt\u0173 nuo visuomen\u0117je skleid\u017eiam\u0173 klaiding\u0173 signal\u0173 ir pab\u016bt\u0173 pati su savimi, su savo vaiku. Ji dabar turi nuspr\u0119sti kas i\u0161 tikro yra reikalinga jai ir jos vaikui. Tam gyvenimas jai duoda laiko, bet kadangi esame taip toli nuo nat\u016brali\u0173 instinkt\u0173, kad jau po keli\u0173 m\u0117nesi\u0173 ar savai\u010di\u0173 t\u0117vai vaikus palieka kokiame prie\u017ei\u016bros centre, o patys skuba kas sau. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Naujos gyvyb\u0117s atsiradimas – tai kaip naujas k\u016brinys visame gamtos paveiksle, tai dovana, atsakomyb\u0117, u\u017eduotis ir tikrasis moters vidin\u0117s energijos \u0161altinis. O taip, kai \u0161eimoje ry\u0161ys stiprus, tada jauti gyvenimo d\u017eiaugsm\u0105. Tada nereikia naujo telefono kas metus, remont\u0173, automobilio ar nauj\u0173 daikt\u0173. Ta pilnatv\u0117 u\u017elieja visas tu\u0161\u010dias ertmes ir jautiesi gyvas, laisvas ir be galo laimingas. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
P.S. Nepamin\u0117jau t\u0117\u010di\u0173, nes i\u0161mintinga moteris \u012f \u0161eimos \u017eidin\u012f \u012fjungia ir vyr\u0105, ir vaikus \ud83d\ude0c. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Galb\u016bt ka\u017ekam atrodo, kad b\u016bdama mama, kuri daugiau investuoja ne \u012f savo asmenin\u0119 s\u0117km\u0119, o kloja pamatus savo vaik\u0173 gyvenimuose, moteris nerealizuoja sav\u0119s. B\u016bti mama – tai nat\u016bralus dalykas kiekvienai moteriai, tik \u0161iame moderniame pasaulyje visuomen\u0117je dirbtinai kuriamos vertyb\u0117s. Mes aukojame save pinigams, verslui, prabangai to net nesuvokdami, nes gyvename dideliame mele, kuriame \u012fmanoma visi\u0161kai […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4324,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[43,42],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17020","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moteris-mama-straipsniai","category-vaiku-auklejimas-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/imami-02.jpg",1200,628,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/imami-02-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/imami-02-300x157.jpg",300,157,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/imami-02-768x402.jpg",768,402,true],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/imami-02-1024x536.jpg",1024,536,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/imami-02.jpg",1200,628,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/imami-02.jpg",1200,628,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Galb\u016bt ka\u017ekam atrodo, kad b\u016bdama mama, kuri daugiau investuoja ne \u012f savo asmenin\u0119 s\u0117km\u0119, o kloja pamatus savo vaik\u0173 gyvenimuose, moteris nerealizuoja sav\u0119s. 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