{"id":17311,"date":"2024-01-13T13:33:25","date_gmt":"2024-01-13T11:33:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=17311"},"modified":"2024-01-13T13:33:27","modified_gmt":"2024-01-13T11:33:27","slug":"tureti-drasos-buti-istikimai-sau-o-ne-bandyti-atitikti-kitu-lukescius","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/tureti-drasos-buti-istikimai-sau-o-ne-bandyti-atitikti-kitu-lukescius\/","title":{"rendered":"TUR\u0116TI DR\u0104SOS B\u016aTI I\u0160TIKIMAI SAU, O NE BANDYTI ATITIKTI KIT\u0172 L\u016aKES\u010cIUS"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Nesiskund\u017eiu savo gyvenimu. Ka\u017ekada gimiau, ka\u017ekada ir mirsiu. Tai tiesiog laiko tarpas, kur\u012f u\u017epildau baziniais poreikiais: maistu, \u0161eima, namais, darbu, pinigais, statusu, \u017einiomis ir pan.. Visi \u0161ie poreikiai kaskart kei\u010dia savo vaidmen\u012f ir svarb\u0105 mano gyvenime, bet i\u0161lieka a\u0161imi, aplink kuri\u0105 sukasi mano mintys ir norai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Buvau i\u0161 t\u0173 mergai\u010di\u0173, kurios labai steng\u0117si vykdyti visk\u0105, kas jai liepiama. Neb\u016bti problema t\u0117vams, mokytojams. Naiviai tik\u0117jau, kad taip kuriami abipusiai nuo\u0161ird\u016bs santykiai. Gyvenau taip daugiau negu puse savo gyvenimo, kol vien\u0105 dien\u0105 \u0117miau jausti, kad neleid\u017eiu sau i\u0161girsti sav\u0119s. Gyvenu visuomen\u0117s triuk\u0161me, nor\u0117dama \u012ftikti viesiems. O jokio atgalinio ry\u0161io. Tas jausmas augo ir augo. Nesupratau kas vyksta su manimi. Tas atotr\u016bkis tarp to, kuo noriu b\u016bti ir tarp to kuo, mane ver\u010dia b\u016bti, tapo did\u017eiulis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kol galiausiai \u012fvyko vidinis l\u016b\u017eis, pakeit\u0119s mano santykio su realybe suvokim\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kalbu su \u017emon\u0117mis ir gird\u017eiu apie pana\u0161ias patirtis. Tie momentai, kai suvoki, kad tu visu vidumi nori atrasti ir realizuoti savo potencial\u0105, o visuomen\u0117 ,,\u012fsiurbia” tave \u012f save, nor\u0117dama gauti kiek \u012fmanoma daugiau naudos. Tu jauti, kaip niekam ner\u016bpi tikrasis Tu ir gyvenimas tarsi netenka prasm\u0117s, o pavirsta \u012f sp\u0105stus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Da\u017enai d\u0117koju likimui, kad ,,apvert\u0117” mano gyvenim\u0105 auk\u0161tyn kojom ir vis dar tai daro, tik jau dabar stengiuosi b\u016bti s\u0105moninga to dalimi. Gyvenimas man dav\u0117 laiko realizuoti save. Bent jau galimyb\u0119 pabandyti. Juk dauguma \u017emoni\u0173 tik prie\u0161<\/p>\n\n\n\n

mirt\u012f susim\u0105sto, ima gail\u0117tis, kad netur\u0117jo daugiau dr\u0105sos b\u016bti i\u0161tikimiems patiems sau, o ne bandyti atitikti kit\u0173 l\u016bkes\u010dius. \u017dmon\u0117s jau\u010dia, kad negyveno d\u0117l to, kas jiems svarbu, bet jie buvo ,,nune\u0161ti” visuomen\u0117je vyraujan\u010di\u0173 vertybi\u0173 ir pan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tikiu po\u017ei\u016briu, kad \u017emog\u0173 reikia mokyti tinkamo santykio tiek su savimi, tiek su aplinka. Tek\u0117dami nes\u0105moningai tekme taip lengvai periimame visuomen\u0117s vertybes ir pamir\u0161tame savasias.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Individas netur\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti ,,praryjamas” visuomen\u0117s kaip koks bevertis dalykas. Bet individas irgi neturi gyventi tik d\u0117l sav\u0119s. A\u0161 tiesiog naudoju gyvenimo laik\u0105 savo gyvenimui, bet ne\u012fpareigoju visuomen\u0117s man tarnauti. Prie\u0161ingai, atsi\u017evelgiant \u012f mano savybes, \u012f tai, k\u0105 moku geriausiai, pati ie\u0161kau kaip galiu pagerinti visuomen\u0117s gyvenim\u0105. Tokiais u\u017emojais ir gim\u0117 iMami dienora\u0161tis (www.ugdymasirauklejimas.lt).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u017dmogus negali realizuoti sav\u0119s gyvendamas vienas planetoje. Jam reikia santykio su kitais. Kaip ir visuomenei reikalingi sveiki tarpusavio \u017emoni\u0173 santykiai, tie skirtingi individai, kurie geba gyventi kartu s\u0105moningai (visose srityse).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gyvenimas spaud\u017eia mus, esame tarsi visuomen\u0117s kaliniai. Kadangi mes lenktiniaujane su laiku, galiausiai pavargstame ir atrandame tai, kas i\u0161 tikro yra svarbausia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dr\u0105sos b\u016bti savimi. Dr\u0105sos ie\u0161koti tinkamo santykio su gyvenimu, visuomene, \u0161eima, darbu ir, \u017einoma, pa\u010diu savimi. Nelaukiant kol pavargsime, bet pa\u010diame gyvenimo \u017eyd\u0117jime!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Galva vir\u0161 vandens. Ida’s drawings<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

P.s. Iliustracijos \u0161eiminink\u0117 Ida Marini\u010d. Pla\u010diau apie jos kuriam\u0105 projekt\u0105: www.humaninpeople.com<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Socialiniai tinklai: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/profile.php?id=61552913272122<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/ida_s_drawings?igsh=ZHExOTM5MW5qZWY3<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nesiskund\u017eiu savo gyvenimu. Ka\u017ekada gimiau, ka\u017ekada ir mirsiu. Tai tiesiog laiko tarpas, kur\u012f u\u017epildau baziniais poreikiais: maistu, \u0161eima, namais, darbu, pinigais, statusu, \u017einiomis ir pan.. Visi \u0161ie poreikiai kaskart kei\u010dia savo vaidmen\u012f ir svarb\u0105 mano gyvenime, bet i\u0161lieka a\u0161imi, aplink kuri\u0105 sukasi mano mintys ir norai. Buvau i\u0161 t\u0173 mergai\u010di\u0173, kurios labai steng\u0117si vykdyti visk\u0105, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":17308,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[43],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17311","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moteris-mama-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/ebed173d-8b11-40e6-9ac8-f47d8a5e5daa-1.jpg",985,493,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/ebed173d-8b11-40e6-9ac8-f47d8a5e5daa-1-800x493.jpg",800,493,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/ebed173d-8b11-40e6-9ac8-f47d8a5e5daa-1-800x400.jpg",800,400,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/ebed173d-8b11-40e6-9ac8-f47d8a5e5daa-1-768x384.jpg",768,384,true],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/ebed173d-8b11-40e6-9ac8-f47d8a5e5daa-1.jpg",985,493,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/ebed173d-8b11-40e6-9ac8-f47d8a5e5daa-1.jpg",985,493,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/ebed173d-8b11-40e6-9ac8-f47d8a5e5daa-1.jpg",985,493,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Nesiskund\u017eiu savo gyvenimu. 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