{"id":17362,"date":"2024-01-16T23:08:12","date_gmt":"2024-01-16T21:08:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=17362"},"modified":"2024-01-17T00:03:51","modified_gmt":"2024-01-16T22:03:51","slug":"filmai-tevams-pokalbiams-apie-santykius","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/filmai-tevams-pokalbiams-apie-santykius\/","title":{"rendered":"FILMAI T\u0116VAMS | POKALBIAMS APIE SANTYKIUS"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Mes su vyru stengiam\u0117s pasinaudoti visais \u012fmanomais b\u016bdais &#8211; \u012frankiais &#8211; kaip sustiprinti savo tarpusavio santykius.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Viena toki\u0173 priemoni\u0173 &#8211; filmas. Surinkau kelet\u0105, po kuri\u0173 vyko gilios ir labai naudingos diskusijos. Jeigu galima daug dalyk\u0173 i\u0161gyventi jiems net ne\u012fvykus, tai kam laukti, kol jie \u012fvyks?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Filmai sura\u0161yti atsitiktine tvarka.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text is-stacked-on-mobile\"><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"184\" height=\"273\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/img_1089-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-17320 size-full\"\/><\/figure><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Santuokos istorija<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Apie k\u0105 filmas: <a href=\"https:\/\/m.youtube.com\/watch?v=-y1HhAlAOTs\">MARRIAGE STORY<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Po filmo kilo <strong>klausimai apie moters savirealizacij\u0105: kokia ji? K\u0105 daryti santyki\u0173 prad\u017eioje, kad ateityje moteris nesijaust\u0173 niekas, prastesn\u0117 u\u017e vyr\u0105, ,,i\u0161kriusi&#8221; i\u0161 rinkos ir t.t. <\/strong>O <strong>kaip vyras? Kaip jam pajausti moter\u012f, kuri kartais pati sav\u0119s nejau\u010dia arba neatsiveria vyrui, laiko visk\u0105 savyje?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Filme parodoma poros skyryb\u0173 drama, procesas, poveikis procese dalyvaujantiems. Kilo mintys, kad jeigu ugdytume \u012fprot\u012f kalb\u0117tis nulatos, augintune abipus\u012f pasitik\u0117jim\u0105, pl\u0117stume bendr\u0105 lauk\u0105 nuolatos, tada nepasiektume ribos, kai vienas i\u0161 partneri\u0173 tiesiog ,,sprogsta&#8221;.<strong> Kaip tai padaryti? <\/strong>Klausimas pokalbiui. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jautri tema ir atotr\u016bkis tarp partneri\u0173 gimus vaikui. <strong>Vaikas jos, jo ar abiej\u0173?<\/strong> Patys pri\u0117jome i\u0161vados, kad \u0161iame periode vyras turi nema\u017eai padirb\u0117ti, kad i\u0161laikyt\u0173 savo moters pasitik\u0117jim\u0105 savimi, b\u016bt\u0173 \u0161alia jos ir primint\u0173 jai, kad viskas prasid\u0117jo nuo Jos ir Jo. Vyras net kartais tur\u0117t\u0173 ,,i\u0161traukti&#8221; moter\u012f i\u0161 jos verdan\u010dio gyvenimo, o tada ir ji atsakys tuo pa\u010diu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text is-stacked-on-mobile\"><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"420\" height=\"630\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/img_1091.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-17324 size-full\"\/><\/figure><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Kalnas tarp m\u016bs\u0173<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Apie k\u0105 filmas: <a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/Mu41hu1a_8c?si=ibXLZwOLg1RB6D_m\">THE MOUNTAIN BETWEEN US <\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160i istorija paliet\u0117 klausimus: <strong>ar tikrai valdome savo gyvenim\u0105? ar galime garantuoti, kad mums taip nenutiks?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Gyvenime \u012fvyksta daug <strong>scenarij\u0173<\/strong>, kuri\u0173 <strong>mes<\/strong> patys <strong>neplanuojame<\/strong>. <strong>Kaip \u012f tai pa\u017ei\u016br\u0117ti? Kaip priimti ar ignoruoti? Tai dovana ar bausm\u0117?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160i meil\u0117s istorija gim\u0117 nelaimingo atsitikimo d\u0117ka. Ji pakeit\u0117 dviej\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173 gyvenimo linij\u0105, o <strong>gal tai ir buvo reikiama kryptis? I\u0161 kur \u017einoti?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Po filmo galvojome ilgai apie tai, <strong>kas b\u016bt\u0173, jeigu m\u016bs\u0173 gyvenimuose neplanuotai atsirast\u0173 kiti \u017emon\u0117s?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Prisimin\u0117me kaip netik\u0117tai ir patys susipa\u017einome. <strong>Likimas? Kas jis? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tokie rimti, bet svarb\u016bs santykiuose, klausimai kilo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text is-stacked-on-mobile\"><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"178\" height=\"283\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/img_1240-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-17334 size-full\"\/><\/figure><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Laiko tiltas<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Apie film\u0105: <a href=\"https:\/\/m.youtube.com\/watch?v=7OIFdWk83no\">ABOUT TIME<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Labiausiai \u012fstrigo filmo pabaigoje i\u0161sakyta mintis: ,,<strong>Reikia gyventi taip, kad nereik\u0117t\u0173 sukti laiko atgal&#8221;. K\u0105 manome apie tai?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kalb\u0117jome apie tai, kad b\u016bna moment\u0173, kai ka\u017ek\u0105 pasakai ar padarai k\u0105 nor\u0117tum pakeisti. <strong>Ar tai klaidos, kuri\u0173 geriau neb\u016bt\u0173 ar klaidos, kurios mus moko ka\u017eko? Kod\u0117l jau\u010diame g\u0117d\u0105? Jeigu gal\u00e8tume atsukti laik\u0105 atgal, k\u0105 pakeistume? Kod\u0117l?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text is-stacked-on-mobile\"><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"446\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/img_1092-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-17322 size-full\"\/><\/figure><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Tai sud\u0117tinga<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Apie film\u0105: <a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/fumvQUscpxA?si=wUM2SlfUR5BaVhVM\">IT&#8217;S COMPLICATED<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Filmas tarsi leido pa\u017evelgti \u012f ateit\u012f, kuomet buv\u0119 sutuoktiniai bando ,,suklijuoti&#8221; tai, ko nei\u0161saugojo.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u012edomus buvo mano vyro pasteb\u0117jimas, kad vyrams, susirandantiems jaunesnes moteris reikia \u017einoti fakt\u0105, kad anks\u010diau ar v\u0117liau ji nor\u0117s tapti mama, o tada &#8211; tas pats u\u017edaras ratas. <strong>Ar verta? Ar tai n\u0117ra iliuzija?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kilo klausimai: <strong>Kaip vyrai manipuliuoja moterimis? O moterys &#8211; vyrais? Kas priveda prie skyryb\u0173? Kaip tam u\u017eb\u0117gti u\u017e aki\u0173? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Vyrai kalba, kad jie jau\u010dia moters vidin\u012f gro\u017e\u012f ir jis juos traukia labiau negu i\u0161orinis. Koks tas gro\u017eis? Kaip j\u012f puosel\u0117ti? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p> <\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text is-stacked-on-mobile\"><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"184\" height=\"274\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/img_1238-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-17336 size-full\"\/><\/figure><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Li\u016bdesio trikampis<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Apie k\u0105 filmas:  <a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/ehVIOndFtbk?si=DXdN4tJZetMYAR8H\">TRIANGLE OF SADNESS<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Santykiai &#8211; tai ne tik film\u0173 kuriama meil\u0117. Tai labai rimtas dalykas, i\u0161gyvenantis kriz\u0119. Filmas leido padiskutuoti <strong>kokias vertybes diktuoja visuomen\u0117, kokias mes palaikome, kokias atmetame. Ar sugeba atsilaikyti tai bendrai bangqi, joje nedalyvauti ar ne. <\/strong>Vertyb\u0117s apsprend\u017eia ir \u017emogaus s\u0105\u017ein\u0117s bals\u0105, tad labai svarbu apie tai pasikalb\u0117ti su partneriu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text is-stacked-on-mobile\"><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"190\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/img_1237-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-17337 size-full\"\/><\/figure><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<p>Vaikyst\u0117<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Apie k\u0105 filmas: <a href=\"https:\/\/m.youtube.com\/watch?v=Y0oX0xiwOv8\">BOYHOOD<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pirmiausia, filmas paker\u0117jo tuo, kad buvo filmuojamas daug met\u0173. Pagrindnis herojus augo kartu. Aktualios temos: <strong>t\u0117v\u0173 santykiai, skyrybos, j\u0173 \u012ftaka vaiko raidai, pat\u0117vis, paauglyst\u0117, paty\u010dios, narkotikai, brendimas, sav\u0119s ie\u0161kojimas, depresija ir gyvenimo &#8211; egzistencijos tikslas.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Visa tai aptar\u0117me \u017ei\u016br\u0117dami vieno vaikino gyvenim\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text is-stacked-on-mobile\"><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/83ebaaf0-f048-42ba-b482-a5e996de5211-1-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-17367 size-full\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/83ebaaf0-f048-42ba-b482-a5e996de5211-1-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/83ebaaf0-f048-42ba-b482-a5e996de5211-1-533x800.jpg 533w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/83ebaaf0-f048-42ba-b482-a5e996de5211-1-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/83ebaaf0-f048-42ba-b482-a5e996de5211-1.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Scenos i\u0161 vedybinio gyvenimo<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Apie k\u0105 filmas: <a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/iN_gnL7OQQk?si=DCFI15JlqAkSeaLi\">SCENES FROM A MARRIAGE<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Palikau \u0161\u012f keli\u0173 dali\u0173 film\u0105 pabaigai, nes tik prad\u0117jome \u017ei\u016br\u0117ti. Ta\u010diau, nor\u0117jau, kad jis b\u016bt\u0173 \u0161iame s\u0105ra\u0161e. Santuoka &#8211; rimtas \u012fsipareigojimas net jeigu ir taip negalvojama. Tai jau\u010diama. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Po pirmoji epizodo kilo <strong>klausimai apie t\u0117vyst\u0119, atsakomyb\u0119. Ko atsisakome b\u016bdami t\u0117vais? K\u0105 gauname b\u016bdami t\u0117vais? K\u0105 galime ir turime suteikti vaikams? Kaip priimti sunkius sprendimus? Ar reikia dalintis abejon\u0117mis? Kiek giliai reikia \u012fsileisti kit\u0105 \u012f save?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160iam filmui tikrai bus t\u0119sinys&#8230; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n<\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mes su vyru stengiam\u0117s pasinaudoti visais \u012fmanomais b\u016bdais &#8211; \u012frankiais &#8211; kaip sustiprinti savo tarpusavio santykius. Viena toki\u0173 priemoni\u0173 &#8211; filmas. Surinkau kelet\u0105, po kuri\u0173 vyko gilios ir labai naudingos diskusijos. Jeigu galima daug dalyk\u0173 i\u0161gyventi jiems net ne\u012fvykus, tai kam laukti, kol jie \u012fvyks? Filmai sura\u0161yti atsitiktine tvarka.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":17368,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[163,44],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17362","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-filmai-animacija","category-vyrai-moterys-santuoka-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/b80ce46c-579a-4b21-8adb-8333b5d2481f-1.jpg",1366,683,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/b80ce46c-579a-4b21-8adb-8333b5d2481f-1-800x683.jpg",800,683,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/b80ce46c-579a-4b21-8adb-8333b5d2481f-1-800x400.jpg",800,400,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/b80ce46c-579a-4b21-8adb-8333b5d2481f-1-768x384.jpg",768,384,true],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/b80ce46c-579a-4b21-8adb-8333b5d2481f-1-1024x512.jpg",1024,512,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/b80ce46c-579a-4b21-8adb-8333b5d2481f-1.jpg",1366,683,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/b80ce46c-579a-4b21-8adb-8333b5d2481f-1.jpg",1366,683,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Mes su vyru stengiam\u0117s pasinaudoti visais \u012fmanomais b\u016bdais &#8211; \u012frankiais &#8211; kaip sustiprinti savo tarpusavio santykius. 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