{"id":17625,"date":"2024-02-10T23:51:38","date_gmt":"2024-02-10T21:51:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=17625"},"modified":"2024-02-10T23:56:10","modified_gmt":"2024-02-10T21:56:10","slug":"nepalieku-nieko-atsitiktinumams","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/nepalieku-nieko-atsitiktinumams\/","title":{"rendered":"NEPALIKTI NIEKO ATSITIKTINUMAMS"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>\u0160\u012fkart noriu pasidalinti tokiu ma\u017eu perliuku, kuris kardinaliai pertvarko mano gyvenim\u0105. O paseka to, pertvarko ir vyro bei vaik\u0173. Mat moteris labai stipriai \u012ftakoja visos \u0161eimos bendr\u0105 nuotaik\u0105. Ji kaip atskira planeta, aplink kuri\u0105 sukasi visos kitos planetos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ne\u017einau ar tai \u012fgimta ar u\u017esikr\u0117\u010diau i\u0161 aplinkos, bet nepasitikiu gyvenime atsitiktinumais. A\u0161 noriu valdyti savo gyvenim\u0105 ten, kur galiu. Pavyzd\u017eiui, akivaizdu, kad negaliu nusp\u0117ti ir suvaldyti to, kas bus u\u017e sekund\u0117s. T\u0105 daro ka\u017ekokia j\u0117ga, esanti auk\u0161\u010diau man\u0119s valdymo piramid\u0117je. Bet yra dalyk\u0173, kuriuos pasirinkti galiu. Tai \u012fdomi kelion\u0117 &#8211; ie\u0161koti, kurias ribas nubr\u0117\u017eiu a\u0161 pati, k\u0105 galiu suvaldyti, o kas yra mano nevaldoma, o tai<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>valdo pats gyvenimas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u017dinoma, lengviau tai padaryti, kai \u017einai kod\u0117l turi tai padaryti. Tada turi a\u0161\u012f, kurios at\u017evilgiu matuoji ribas. Dauguma turb\u016bt svajojame apie s\u0105moning\u0105 visuomen\u0117s gyvenim\u0105. Gyvenim\u0105, kuriame neb\u016bt\u0173 baisu \u012f kiem\u0105 i\u0161leisti vaikus, palikti namus nesaugomus, i\u0161vykti atostog\u0173, b\u016bti nuo\u0161ird\u017eiam su kitais. Tam reikia m\u0105stan\u010di\u0173, i\u0161aukl\u0117t\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173, kurie kurt\u0173 ir geb\u0117t\u0173 i\u0161laikyti tok\u012f gyvenim\u0105. \u0160tai kod\u0117l verta gyventi. Tai vienas is \u017emogaus gyvenimo tiksl\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sakysite, kad visada atsiras t\u0173, kurie visk\u0105 griauna? Jeigu j\u0173 bus ma\u017euma, aplinka atliks savo darb\u0105 ir viskas pasikeis. Nemok\u0117 m\u016bs\u0173 niekas kaip s\u0105veikauja \u017emon\u0117s, neugd\u0117 ir tam reikiam\u0173 \u012fg\u016bd\u017ei\u0173. Tod\u0117l normalu, kad nemoka \u017emogus \u012fsipai\u0161yti \u012f bendr\u0105 gamtos paveiksl\u0105. Bet, ei, mes toliau evoliucijonuojame ir net neabejoju, jog tur\u0117sime veikti i\u0161vien su viskuo, kas mus supa. Tad kam laukti t\u016bkstan\u010dius met\u0173?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Prad\u017eiai u\u017etenka tiesiog sugerti \u012f save visa, kas vyksta, nesiimant joki\u0173 veiksm\u0173, o tik pa\u017e\u012fstant savo gyvenim\u0105 i\u0161 ties\u0173. Kas j\u012f sudaro, kokios mintys aplanko, kokie \u017emones supa. Nustebina, kiek daug visgi nevaldome.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tarkim, mintys ir norai tarsi patys gimsta galvoje. Gyvenimi\u0161kos situacijos irgi kuriamos ne pagal mus. Man belieka ugdyti savo tinkamas reakcijas, tinkamus pasirinkimus, kad pasiek\u010diau gyvenimo esm\u0119 &#8211; teising\u0105 s\u0105veik\u0105 su tikrove.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Viskas turi prie\u017east\u012f ir pasekm\u0119, tik \u017emogui tr\u016bksta jautrumo tai pasteb\u0117ti. Bet kai imi atrasti tuos d\u0117sningumus savo gyvenime, tau pasidaro ai\u0161kiau kaip viskas veikia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Toks po\u017ei\u016bris \u012f gyvenim\u0105 \u012fne\u0161a \u0161varos ir tvarkos. Nes nebereikia lieti a\u0161ar\u0173 ar emocij\u0173 ten, kur nieko pakeisti negaliu. Taip pat atsiranda ir stabilumas. Ma\u017eiau konflikt\u0173 su kitais, nes ir j\u0173 situacijos sure\u017eisuotos ne \u017emoni\u0173. Atsiveria gilus ir nepa\u017eintas pasaulis, kuris egzistuoja visai mums po nosimi, tik reikia noro j\u012f pamatyti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"820\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pagarbiai.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2814\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pagarbiai.jpg 820w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pagarbiai-300x132.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pagarbiai-768x337.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 820px) 100vw, 820px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u0160\u012fkart noriu pasidalinti tokiu ma\u017eu perliuku, kuris kardinaliai pertvarko mano gyvenim\u0105. O paseka to, pertvarko ir vyro bei vaik\u0173. Mat moteris labai stipriai \u012ftakoja visos \u0161eimos bendr\u0105 nuotaik\u0105. Ji kaip atskira planeta, aplink kuri\u0105 sukasi visos kitos planetos. Ne\u017einau ar tai \u012fgimta ar u\u017esikr\u0117\u010diau i\u0161 aplinkos, bet nepasitikiu gyvenime atsitiktinumais. 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