Yra du s\u0117km\u0119 ,,pritraukiantys” dalykai. Su vienu i\u0161 j\u0173 susiduriame, manau, da\u017cnai. Antrasis dar retai randa vietos m\u016bs\u0173 gyvenime.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tarkim, a\u0161 turiu id\u0117j\u0105 naujai veiklai. A\u0161 noriai mezgu ry\u0161ius, palaikau kontakt\u0105, neskai\u010diuoju laiko, nes man tai naudinga. Greit suprantu, kad jeigu aplink mane tvyro gera atmosfera, draugi\u0161kas kolektyvas – man sekasi. O jeigu man sekasi, tai esu linkusi klausytis, nusileisti ir ie\u0161koti kompromis\u0173. Jau matau pirmuosius rezultatus, viskas labai gerai. Tada paauga pasitik\u0117jimas savimi, o gal \u010dia puikyb\u0117 ir a\u0161 ma\u017ciau laiko skiriu megzti ry\u0161ius, palaikyti kontaktus, klausytis ir priimti kit\u0173 nuomon\u0119, man tampa nebenaudinga. Tampa man ma\u017eiau darbo – o rezultatai ger\u0117ja. Kur\u012f laik\u0105.. Ry\u0161ys su kitais – kaip augalui vanduo. Nutraukus ry\u0161ius (t.y. \u012esipareigojimus, pagarb\u0105, kontakt\u0105), dar kur\u012f laik\u0105 \u0161aknys maitinamos, bet vanduo i\u0161garuos ir augalas mirs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Taip ir su m\u016bs\u0173 s\u0117kme. Jeigu \u017emogus geba i\u0161laikyti nuolatin\u012f laistym\u0105, tada viskas nuo sekliai ir proporcingai auga. Vos tik nukertame ry\u0161ius – u\u017esisuka ir s\u0117km\u0117s kraniukas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Taigi, kad gyvent\u0173 \u017cmogus laimingai, be vidin\u0117s tu\u0161tumos, jam reikia i\u0161mokti nesudau\u017eyti ry\u0161i\u0173, nenutraukti to gij\u0173 tinklo tarp vis\u0173 gamtos dali\u0173, ypatingai \u017cmoni\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
K\u0105 tai rei\u0161kia? Pavyzd\u017ciui, jau\u010diame, kad tampa sunku atrasti laiko draugams, \u0161eimos nariams. Kod\u0117l? Nes nebeaugebame atsilaikyti asmeniniams interesams. A\u0161 taip visko noriu, kad leid\u017eiu sau pildyti kiekvien\u0105 nor\u0105, o kiti \u017emon\u0117s tame nedalyvauja (nebent yra to noro \u012fgyvendintojai). O likimas visada par\u016bpina du kelius: 1) sekti savo norais; 2) pakent\u0117ti ir padaryti ka\u017ek\u0105 d\u0117l kito noro.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sunku yra atsisakyti savo nor\u0173, bet naudingiau b\u016bt\u0173 jeigu i\u0161moktume juos pildyti neu\u017egaunant kit\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tai \u010bia buvo pirmasis dalykas s\u0117kmei ,,pritraukti” – jokiais b\u016bdais neleisti nutr\u016bkti ry\u0161iui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Antras, jau truput\u012f daugiau \u012fsitraukimo ir jautrumo reikalaujantis dalykas – kurti ry\u0161\u012f. Tai reikalauja daugiau vidini\u0173 pastang\u0173, s\u0105moningumo, savikontrol\u0117s. Tai menas i\u0161eiti u\u017e savo rib\u0173 ir \u012f tu\u0161\u010dias vietas \u012fsileisti \u017cmog\u0173, kuriuo pasitikiu, kuris man svarbus ar reikalingas. Tai darbas parodyti kitam, kad jis man svarbus, jo poreikiai man r\u016bpi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
S\u0117km\u0117 garantuota. I\u0161 kur \u017einau? Matau tai gamtoje, nes tokiu principu veikia visos gamtos sistemos. Liko tik \u017emoni\u0173 socialiniai ry\u0161iai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
P.S. Netik\u0117k kol nepatikrinai. O jei patikrinai, tai \u017einai.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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