Ar jums kartais neb\u016bna taip, kad ai\u0161kiai matai ir \u017einai vien\u0105, bet ka\u017ekokia vidin\u0117 j\u0117ga sunkiai nori tai priimti?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Man taip b\u016bna su vaik\u0173 pe\u0161tyn\u0117mis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ne kart\u0105 gird\u0117jau, jog vaikai pe\u0161tyni\u0173 pagalba jau\u010dia vienas kit\u0105. Reikia leisti jiems augti laisvai ai\u0161kinantis ir kuriant santykius.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bet taip sunku t\u0105 padaryti. Ne\u017einau ar \u010dia aukl\u0117jimas, ar ka\u017ekokia visuomen\u0117s formuojama nuomon\u0117, ar prigimtis, bet kilus konfliktui tarp vaik\u0173, i\u0161kart norisi sustabdyti, nuraminti ir pan. Dar blogiau, norisi padaryti ,,tvark\u0105”, nubausti stipresn\u012f, ma\u017eesn\u012f paguosti. I\u0161 vieno paimti \u017eaisl\u0105 – paduoti kitam. \u012el\u012fsdami tarp vaik\u0173 i\u0161 tikro mes dar labiau skatiname neapykant\u0105 tarp j\u0173, kartu parodome nepagarb\u0105 su savo ,,tiesa” jiems kaip asmenyb\u0117ms.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mums nat\u016braliai norisi harmonijos ir ramyb\u0117s.. visada ir visur. Bet to negal\u0117tume pamatyti be chaoso.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Net ir \u017evenlgiant pagal gamtoje egzistuojan\u010dias sistemas, vaikai yra ma\u017eiau nutol\u0119 nuo gamtos, jie ir elgiasi taip kaip gamtoje: ka\u010diukai pe\u0161asi, kand\u017eiojasi, bet paskui v\u0117l draugauja. Jie taip ugdo bendravimo \u012fg\u016bd\u017eius, mokosi ir kartu stipr\u0117ja kaip gauja. O mes, t\u0117vai, pas\u0105moningai galvojame, jog esame auk\u0161\u010diau gamtos, protingesni ir \u017einom kas teisinga. Tad darome tvark\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Gerai pa\u017evelgus \u012f bet kok\u012f rei\u0161kin\u012f gamtoje, tikrai atrasime dvi prie\u0161taringas puses. Pavyzd\u017eiui, santykiuose tarp vyro ir moters – n\u0117ra jokio ry\u0161io, jeigu n\u0117ra prie\u0161taravim\u0173. Turi b\u016bti tos ,,pe\u0161tyn\u0117s” tam, kad gal\u0117t\u0173 megztis tikras ry\u0161ys, kuris statomas b\u016btent vis pasirenkant bendrum\u0105, draugyst\u0119, r\u016bpest\u012f kitu, o ne savo ,,ties\u0105”, savo asmenin\u012f interes\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Taip ir su vaikais, stengiuosi palikti jiems pakankamai vietos patiems pajausti tuos skirtumus, kai tik ima, reikalauja, puola ir kai geba draugauti, dalintis, duoti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mano siekis neriboti vaik\u0173 nar\u016bralios peigimties per j\u0117g\u0105, ver\u010diau aukl\u0117ti ir parodyti vaikams, kad visada laimime jeigu duodame kitam, prie\u0161ingu atveju liekame tu\u0161ti, vieni\u0161i, nelaimingi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mes gyvename pasaulyje, kuriame daug a\u0161tri\u0173 kamp\u0173. Ir pe\u0161tyn\u0117s mums atrodo ka\u017ekas neigiamo. Bet bent \u0161eimoje turime galimyb\u0119 ugdyti kitok\u012f suvokim\u0105: nesutarimai, pe\u0161tyn\u0117s veda mus prie supratimo, stipresnio ry\u0161io. Be prie\u0161taravim\u0173 negal\u0117tume m\u0117gautis draugyste, meile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ir ne kart\u0105 \u012fsitikinau, kad tai tiesa. Su kiekvienu pasigin\u010dyjimu jie vis labiau \u012fveikia patys save, nes jau pajuto kaip gera tur\u0117ti ka\u017ek\u0105 artimo, kai sugeba i\u0161jungti kovos r\u0117\u017eim\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mokytis ir mokytis dar man kaip leisti viskam egzistuoti taip, kaip suplanuota, kaip turi b\u016bti, o ne taip, kaip noriu a\u0161 \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Ar jums kartais neb\u016bna taip, kad ai\u0161kiai matai ir \u017einai vien\u0105, bet ka\u017ekokia vidin\u0117 j\u0117ga sunkiai nori tai priimti? Man taip b\u016bna su vaik\u0173 pe\u0161tyn\u0117mis. Ne kart\u0105 gird\u0117jau, jog vaikai pe\u0161tyni\u0173 pagalba jau\u010dia vienas kit\u0105. Reikia leisti jiems augti laisvai ai\u0161kinantis ir kuriant santykius. Bet taip sunku t\u0105 padaryti. Ne\u017einau ar \u010dia aukl\u0117jimas, ar ka\u017ekokia […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":18047,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[42],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18049","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-vaiku-auklejimas-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/7c7a22a1-c036-4174-b590-3d81cb06fa95-1.jpg",1366,683,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/7c7a22a1-c036-4174-b590-3d81cb06fa95-1-800x683.jpg",800,683,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/7c7a22a1-c036-4174-b590-3d81cb06fa95-1-800x400.jpg",800,400,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/7c7a22a1-c036-4174-b590-3d81cb06fa95-1-768x384.jpg",768,384,true],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/7c7a22a1-c036-4174-b590-3d81cb06fa95-1-1024x512.jpg",1024,512,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/7c7a22a1-c036-4174-b590-3d81cb06fa95-1.jpg",1366,683,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/7c7a22a1-c036-4174-b590-3d81cb06fa95-1.jpg",1366,683,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Ar jums kartais neb\u016bna taip, kad ai\u0161kiai matai ir \u017einai vien\u0105, bet ka\u017ekokia vidin\u0117 j\u0117ga sunkiai nori tai priimti? Man taip b\u016bna su vaik\u0173 pe\u0161tyn\u0117mis. Ne kart\u0105 gird\u0117jau, jog vaikai pe\u0161tyni\u0173 pagalba jau\u010dia vienas kit\u0105. Reikia leisti jiems augti laisvai ai\u0161kinantis ir kuriant santykius. Bet taip sunku t\u0105 padaryti. Ne\u017einau ar \u010dia aukl\u0117jimas, ar ka\u017ekokia…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18049","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18049"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18049\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18050,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18049\/revisions\/18050"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18047"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18049"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18049"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18049"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}