Ne vieni t\u0117vai sulaukia toki\u0173 skambi\u0173 \u017eod\u017ei\u0173. Matyt, buvome aukl\u0117jami taip, kad priimtume visk\u0105, k\u0105 mums sako kaip ties\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Studijuodama \u017emoni\u0173 santyki\u0173 formas, pasteb\u0117jau, kad \u017emogaus elges\u012f did\u017ei\u0105ja dalimi nulemia aplinka, kurioje jis yra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pavyzd\u017eiui, turime vaik\u0105 su didele vidine motyvacija kurti, tobul\u0117ti. Leiskime j\u012f \u012f aplink\u0105, kurioje daugiausia d\u0117mesio sulaukia ne tobul\u0117jimas, o pajuokos, griovimas, paty\u010dios. Kiek ilgai i\u0161silaikys vaiko motyvacija? Kiek laiko jis gal\u0117s u\u017espausti ir bandyti ignoruoti \u012fgimt\u0105 nor\u0105 b\u016bti pripa\u017eintu \u0161ioje aplinkoje?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Akivaizdu, kad anks\u010diau ar v\u0117liau vaikas jungsis prie t\u0173 vaik\u0173, kurie dominuoja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Da\u017eniausiai energingos vaiko smegenys be tikslo linkusios kr\u0117sti \u0161unybes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tada pasipila skambu\u010di\u0173 lavina t\u0117vams, kurie vaikus palieka mokykloje, tik\u0117damiesi, kad vaikai bus mokomi gyventi pagal disciplin\u0105, tam tikras taisykles. Pagalvojau ir apie mokytojus, kurie bando laviruoti tarp ,,b\u016bti vaikui draugu” ir motyvuoti vaik\u0105 tobul\u0117ti (ir dar tarp kr\u016bvos kit\u0173 reikalavim\u0173). O kur dar vaikas? Jis gi ne prie ko, kad vidin\u0117 vertybi\u0173 programa tik formuojasi ir jis laikosi nat\u016bralios programos – daryti visk\u0105, kad bendraam\u017eiai j\u012f pripa\u017eint\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ra\u0161au apie tai, nes norisi, kad visuomen\u0117 ir mes, t\u0117vai, atkreiptume d\u0117mes\u012f \u012f tai, jog vaik\u0173 ugdymas ir aukl\u0117jimas yra vis\u0173 bendras reikalas. Egzistuojantis problemos m\u0117tymas vieni kitiems su kaltinimais niekur neveda. O labiausiai nuken\u010dia vaikai, kuri\u0173 egoizmas bujoja ir niekas nemoko kaip su tuo dirbti i\u0161 pagrind\u0173. Neturime stiprios aplinkos, kurioje vaiko egoizmas b\u016bt\u0173 ugdomas s\u0105moningai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tam tikri psichologiniai pratimai padeda trumpam nuslopinti t\u0105 vidin\u0119 j\u0117g\u0105, bet nesuteikia konkretaus paai\u0161kinimo kas mes per padarai, kod\u0117l tokie esame ir k\u0105 turime gyvenime nuveikti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vaikui pasielgus netinkamai, pirmiausia, galb\u016bt verta pabandyti atsitraukti ir i\u0161 \u0161alies \u012fvertinti kas ir kod\u0117l vyksta. \u0160iuolaikiniems vaikams, kaip niekada reikia rib\u0173, disciplinos, bet kokios jos, kieno pagrindu kuriamos, ko mes siekiame?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Visa tai ir lemia kaip organizuoti aplinkas bei sistemas taip, kad pasiektume s\u0105moningos visuomen\u0117s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Taigi, mes \u0161eimoje vadovaujam\u0117s principu: ko linki savo vaikui, kok\u012f j\u012f nori matyti – toki\u0105 aplink\u0105 kurk aplink j\u012f. Kaip sakoma, tavo aplinka \u0161iandien parodo koks tu b\u016bsi rytoj. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tad, dr\u0105siau! <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Ne vieni t\u0117vai sulaukia toki\u0173 skambi\u0173 \u017eod\u017ei\u0173. Matyt, buvome aukl\u0117jami taip, kad priimtume visk\u0105, k\u0105 mums sako kaip ties\u0105. Studijuodama \u017emoni\u0173 santyki\u0173 formas, pasteb\u0117jau, kad \u017emogaus elges\u012f did\u017ei\u0105ja dalimi nulemia aplinka, kurioje jis yra. Pavyzd\u017eiui, turime vaik\u0105 su didele vidine motyvacija kurti, tobul\u0117ti. Leiskime j\u012f \u012f aplink\u0105, kurioje daugiausia d\u0117mesio sulaukia ne tobul\u0117jimas, o pajuokos, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4519,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[42],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18077","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-vaiku-auklejimas-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/imami-mam-dukra.jpg",1200,628,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/imami-mam-dukra-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/imami-mam-dukra-300x157.jpg",300,157,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/imami-mam-dukra-768x402.jpg",768,402,true],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/imami-mam-dukra-1024x536.jpg",1024,536,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/imami-mam-dukra.jpg",1200,628,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/imami-mam-dukra.jpg",1200,628,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Ne vieni t\u0117vai sulaukia toki\u0173 skambi\u0173 \u017eod\u017ei\u0173. 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