Su vaikais teko sudalyvauti viename vaikams skirtame renginyje. Kaip ir smagios veiklos sumanytos, detal\u0117s, priemon\u0117s. Bet vos tik ved\u0117jos \u0117m\u0117 organizuoti vaikus, vienas po kito vaikai atsitrauk\u0117. Kol galiausiai nebebuvo kam dalyvauti. Keistas jausmas buvo. Ka\u017ekur fone tik i\u0161girdau: ,,Ko nor\u0117t, tie vaikai be telefon\u0173 nieko nebenori daugiau”. Hm.., ar tikrai?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u0117gstu visada \u017einoti prie\u017eastis kod\u0117l nutinka taip, kaip nutinka. \u0160iuo atveju taip pat buvo \u012fdomu kas vyksta. Juk sakoma, mokytis reikia i\u0161 kit\u0173 klaid\u0173. O man tuoj baigsis atostogos \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Po keli\u0173 valand\u0173 steb\u0117jimo pasteb\u0117jau, jog dirbant su vaikais labai svarbu kaip tu su jais bendrauji.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pirmiausia, ypatingai svarbu koks yra vidinis nusiteikimas. Jeigu viduje neturiu noro i\u0161 ties\u0173 u\u017emegzti ry\u0161io su vaiku ir perduoti tai, ko jam reikia, o noriu tik atlikti tam tikras veiklas, nes to reikia pagal program\u0105, vaikas tai jaus ir net vengs man\u0119s. \u0160iuo atveju galiu tik sp\u0117ti, kad ved\u0117joms nelabai buvo \u012fdom\u016bs vaik\u0173 atsakymai joms paklausus, ar id\u0117jos, mintys. Vyko labiau j\u0173 monologas negu dialogas. Juk patys greit pajau\u010diame abejingum\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Antra, svarbu pa\u017einti vaikus, su kuriais dirbame. Da\u017enai turiu ka\u017ekok\u012f vaik\u0173 vaizdin\u012f ir su juo bendrauju, nors i\u0161 ties\u0173 vaikai visai ne tokie. Taip buvo ir m\u016bs\u0173 atveju. Ved\u0117jos spygavo, \u0161ok\u010diojo imituodamos ma\u017eas \u0161\u0117liojan\u010dias mergaites, pana\u0161iai kaip youtube kanaluose vaikams, o renginyje vaikai buvo kur kas rimtesni. Juos domino tikri i\u0161\u0161\u016bkiai. Ai\u0161kiai pajutau kaip ved\u0117jos ir vaikai kalba skirtingomis kalbomis. Tai ar buvo galima motyvuoti vieniem kitus susikurti smagi\u0105 atmosfer\u0105? Vaikai tiesiog nedalyvavo, o ved\u0117jos mechani\u0161kai atliko savo program\u0105, nereaguodamos \u012f tai, kas vyksta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tre\u010dia, ne k\u0105 ma\u017eiau svarbu yra aptarnauti bendr\u0105 atmosfer\u0105. Tikrai ne\u012fmanoma pajausti ir pa\u017einti kiekvieno vaiko, bet kai kalbame su keletu vaik\u0173, ore tarsi jau\u010diasi kas juos domina, susikuria tarsti bendras laukas. Tai ved\u0117jo \/ ugdytojo u\u017eduotis, manau, ir yra t\u0105 lauk\u0105 pl\u0117sti, reaguoti \u012f tai, kas dabar vyksta, ir pad\u0117ti vaikams \u012f t\u0105 bendr\u0105 jausm\u0105 \u012fsijungti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tai tikrai nelengvas darbas ir tikrai tam turi tur\u0117ti tam tikras savybes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Manau, tokia \u012f\u017evalga svarbi ir ugdant vaikus \u0161eimoje (ar kitose aplinkose). Pasaulis kei\u010diasi ir akivaizdu, kad m\u016bs\u0173 vaikai jau baigia atsik\u0105sti to turinio, kur\u012f jiems si\u016blome greitam dopamino lygiui pakelti. Tai laikina. Jau nekalbu kaip tai amoralu dar i\u0161 to ir pasipelnyti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vis daugiau vaik\u0173, bent jau kuriuos sutinku, nori dalyk\u0173, kurie yra tikri. Tie i\u0161galvoti pasak\u0173 pasauliai vis ma\u017eiau domina, mat vaikai daug anks\u010diau susiduria su realiu pasauliu. O kaip jame gyventi? Kokie d\u0117sniai \u010dia veikia? Jie tai nori \u017einoti, o mes turime jiems atsakyti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Taigi, pabaigai, tai d\u017eiaugiuosi, kad tokiame renginyje sudalyvavome ir a\u0161, asmeni\u0161kai prie\u0161 akis pama\u010diau tas klaidas, kurias darau pati. Matant viso to proces\u0105 ir pas\u0117kmes, visgi nor\u0117\u010diau elgtis taip, kad ir vaikai, ir suaugusieji atrast\u0173 bendr\u0105 kalb\u0105, kuri abejoms pus\u0117ms suteikt\u0173 teigiam\u0173 akimirk\u0173.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Su vaikais teko sudalyvauti viename vaikams skirtame renginyje. Kaip ir smagios veiklos sumanytos, detal\u0117s, priemon\u0117s. Bet vos tik ved\u0117jos \u0117m\u0117 organizuoti vaikus, vienas po kito vaikai atsitrauk\u0117. Kol galiausiai nebebuvo kam dalyvauti. Keistas jausmas buvo. Ka\u017ekur fone tik i\u0161girdau: ,,Ko nor\u0117t, tie vaikai be telefon\u0173 nieko nebenori daugiau”. Hm.., ar tikrai? 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