Kartais pagaunu save darant dalykus ne taip, kaip pati s\u0105moningai pasirink\u010diau, o tiesiog\u2026 kaip ma\u010diau kitus darant. Tarkim, laikau puodel\u012f tarsi eleganti\u0161kai, \u0161iek tiek pir\u0161tel\u012f pak\u0117lusi \u2013 ne tod\u0117l, kad ka\u017ekas taip patar\u0117, bet nes\u0105moningai \u012fsira\u0161iau t\u0105 vaizd\u0105 \u012f atmint\u012f. Ka\u017ekada, ka\u017ekur, ka\u017ekas taip dar\u0117, ir mano pas\u0105mon\u0117 nusprend\u0117: \u201e\u0160tai, taip reikia\u201c. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
S\u0117d\u017eiu taip pat kaip esu kitus ma\u010diusi \u2013 tarsi \u0161iek tiek palinkusi \u012f priek\u012f, rimta veido i\u0161rai\u0161ka. Jei prid\u0117\u010diau dar rank\u0105 prie smakro, visai primin\u010diau koki\u0105 nors heroj\u0119 i\u0161 sen\u0173 laik\u0173 filmo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
O kai kalbu? Pagalvoju, kad irgi lyg ne savo balsu. I\u0161 burnos kartais pasigirsta kokio nors vaikyst\u0117s draug\u0117s ar tetos fraz\u0117s ir intonacijos. Pagaunu save kartojant i\u0161 kit\u0173 nusi\u017ei\u016br\u0117tus \u017eod\u017eius taip nat\u016braliai, lyg tai b\u016bt\u0173 man \u012faug\u0119 \u012f krauj\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Psichologai \u010dia tikriausiai pasakyt\u0173: esame \u017emoni\u0173 teatras, visi kopijuojame matytus pavyzd\u017eius, nes\u0105moningai, vienas po kito. Ir kartais net nebesuprantu, kieno gi dabar eil\u0117 kalb\u0117ti \u2013 mano ar vis\u0173 t\u0173, kuriuos ma\u010diau ir gird\u0117jau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tai man parodo, kaip svarbu apsupti save tokiais pavyzd\u017eiais, kurie skatint\u0173 mane tapti geresne sav\u0119s versija. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Aplinkos pasirinkimas \u2013 tarsi savoti\u0161kas aukl\u0117jimas suaugus; norint formuoti save gyventi s\u0105moningai, turiu steb\u0117ti, k\u0105 imu i\u0161 kit\u0173 ir k\u0105 atsine\u0161u \u012f savo gyvenim\u0105. Juk viskas, k\u0105 matau, k\u0105 gird\u017eiu, kokiais \u017emon\u0117mis apsupta gyvenu, nei\u0161vengiamai tampa mano dalimi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tad, gal \u0161\u012f kart\u0105 verta pasirinkti tuos ,,vaidmenis”, kurie i\u0161ties kuria gra\u017eesn\u012f, stipresn\u012f \u017emog\u0173?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Kartais pagaunu save darant dalykus ne taip, kaip pati s\u0105moningai pasirink\u010diau, o tiesiog\u2026 kaip ma\u010diau kitus darant. Tarkim, laikau puodel\u012f tarsi eleganti\u0161kai, \u0161iek tiek pir\u0161tel\u012f pak\u0117lusi \u2013 ne tod\u0117l, kad ka\u017ekas taip patar\u0117, bet nes\u0105moningai \u012fsira\u0161iau t\u0105 vaizd\u0105 \u012f atmint\u012f. Ka\u017ekada, ka\u017ekur, ka\u017ekas taip dar\u0117, ir mano pas\u0105mon\u0117 nusprend\u0117: \u201e\u0160tai, taip reikia\u201c. 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