Kaip mama ir savo vaik\u0173 ugdytoja, kuri organizuoja j\u0173 mokymosi proces\u0105, da\u017enai jau\u010diuosi priblok\u0161ta informacijos. \u0160iandien mus bombarduoja begalyb\u0117 informacijos i\u0161 vis\u0173 pusi\u0173. Net jeigu tai geri projektai, leidiniai, skirti mokyti ir mokytis, vis tiek kartais pasiekiu rib\u0105, kai man visko tiesiog per daug. Kartais pagaunu save galvojan\u010di\u0105: \u201eAr tikrai turime visk\u0105, k\u0105 su\u017einome, sutalpinti vaiko galvoje? Ar to tikrai reikia?\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tokiais momentais, kai jau\u010diu, kad visko tiesiog per daug \u2013 tiek reikalavim\u0173, tiek l\u016bkes\u010di\u0173, tiek informacijos \u2013 pradedu m\u0105styti apie tai, kas m\u016bs\u0173 \u0161eimoje svarbiau u\u017e vien \u017einias. Prisimenu tai, kas yra tikra, tvaru ir patikima.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u016bs\u0173 \u0161eimos gyvenimo tikslai padeda man nuspr\u0119sti, kas yra b\u016btina, kiek ir ko reikia, kad pasiruo\u0161tume tolimesniam gyvenimui. \u017dmogi\u0161k\u0173j\u0173 vertybi\u0173 sistema man leid\u017eia nufiltruoti nereikalingus dalykus, kurie neatveda prie pagrindinio tikslo \u2013 aukl\u0117ti \u017emog\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ta\u010diau kyla klausimas: kas yra \u017emogus? Koks tur\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti \u017emogus?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0160ia tema daug diskutuojama. Ar leisti vaikui augti laisvai, be rib\u0173, visada vaikantis savo nor\u0173, be jokios krypties? Ar reikia vaik\u0105 kontroliuoti? Ar svarbu auginti vaiko pasitik\u0117jim\u0105 savimi, bet tuo pa\u010diu ir jo puikyb\u0119? Ar leisti vaikui gyventi vedamam tik jo vidini\u0173 impuls\u0173, nesuvokiant pasekmi\u0173?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Matyt, atsakymas priklauso nuo to, kok\u012f vaik\u0105 t\u0117vai nori matyti ateityje. Juk t\u0117vai yra pirmieji \u201eskulptoriai\u201c, prisiliet\u0119 prie \u0161io nat\u016bralaus, gryno molio gabalo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kaip mama, matau, kad vaikai nori strukt\u016bros. Jie nori jausti tiek t\u0117v\u0173, tiek savo \u201estubur\u0105\u201c. Jiems reikia gairi\u0173, rib\u0173 ir tam tikr\u0173 taisykli\u0173, kad gal\u0117t\u0173 saugiai augti ne tik \u0161eimoje, bet ir mokykloje, b\u016breliuose bei kitose gyvenimo srityse. Vaikams reikia aplinkos, kuri pad\u0117t\u0173 jiems formuotis kaip \u017emogi\u0161kosioms b\u016btyb\u0117ms \u2013 \u017emon\u0117ms, kurie atpa\u017e\u012fsta savo impulsus ir polinkius, kuriuos turime visi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ta\u010diau vaikams taip pat svarbu i\u0161mokti kontroliuoti savo impulsus ir gyventi laisvai, nepriklausant nuo j\u0173. Jie turi suvokti, kokios gali b\u016bti nevaldomo nat\u016bralaus elgesio pasekm\u0117s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Linkiu savo vaikams tapti s\u0105moningais \u017emon\u0117mis, kurie geba atpa\u017einti savyje egzistuojan\u010dias dvi j\u0117gas \u2013 k\u016brimo ir naikinimo \u2013 ir mok\u0117t\u0173 jas panaudoti prasmingai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0160ie dalykai man yra patys svarbiausi. Deja, da\u017enai visa tai pasidengia daugybe program\u0173, rekomendacij\u0173 ir si\u016blym\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kai gr\u012f\u017etu prie savo \u0161eimos vertybi\u0173 ir motyvacijos, visa kita tampa ai\u0161kiau. Tada daug lengviau su ramesne \u0161irdimi u\u017edaryti kompiuteryje atvertus langus, palikus mint\u012f \u201egalb\u016bt prireiks v\u0117liau\u201c. Tada ai\u0161kiai \u017einau, ko mums reikia dabar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Akademin\u0117s \u017einios, be abejo, yra reikalingos. Jos praturtina vaiko asmenyb\u0119, formuoja jo charakter\u012f ir vertybi\u0173 sistem\u0105. Ta\u010diau tam ne visada reikia sud\u0117ting\u0173 ar \u201esuper moderni\u0173\u201c mokymosi program\u0173. Kartais pakanka paprasto, tvaraus ry\u0161io su \u0161eima, savimi ir gamtos d\u0117sniais. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kai esu rami, jau\u010diu ry\u0161\u012f su \u0161eima, tada jau\u010diuosi tarsi soti ir ma\u017eiau norisi u\u017epildyti visk\u0105 papildomomis priemom\u0117mis. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u016bs\u0173 \u0161eimoje svarbiausia yra suteikti vaikams \u012frankius kurti \u2013 ne tik sau, bet ir kitiems. Mano manymu, svarbu pad\u0117ti vaikui suvokti savo galimybes, i\u0161mokti valdyti savo tro\u0161kimus ir panaudoti \u017einias bei \u012fg\u016bd\u017eius tam, kad sukurt\u0173 ka\u017ek\u0105 gero ir tvaraus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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