Taip vis\u0173 lauktas \u0161ventinis periodas leido pajausti kiek visokiausi\u0173 vingrybi\u0173 slypi santykiuose tarp \u017emoni\u0173. Viskas atrodo kaip ir gerai, kol gyveni savo burbule, bet vos tik atsiranda kontaktas su kitokiais negu a\u0161 ,,burbulais” ir … nekontroliuojamai kyla tiek vidiniai, tiek i\u0161oriniai konfliltai. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kai atsiduriu aplinkoje, kurioje nes\u0105moningai kas antras \u017eodis tave \u017eemina, provokuoja ir ie\u0161ko kaip tave \u012fskaudinti, tada klausiu sav\u0119s: ,,Ar noriu \u010dia b\u016bti?”. O kartais ir pati lepteliu vien\u0105 kit\u0105 fraz\u0119, sukeldama kitam klausim\u0105: ,,Ar noriu b\u016bti \u0161alia jos?”. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Gird\u017eiu, kad vis da\u017eniau ir da\u017eniau \u017emon\u0117ms kyla \u0161is klausimas. Vis sunkiau ir sunkiau randame visiems priimtinas bendravimo formas. Sprendimas – nebendravimas. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pana\u0161u, kad \u017emon\u0117ms reikalingas ka\u017ekoks atsitraukimas, kol atrasime b\u016bd\u0105 kaip ,,nulau\u017eti” kiekvieno puikyb\u0119 ir t\u0105 kvailai nes\u0105moning\u0105 nor\u0105 pasijausti vir\u0161esniu nei kiti, bandyti pakeisti pagal save. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ir mano pa\u010dios tokie gamykliniai parametrai, ka\u017ekur \u0161velnesni, ka\u017ekur labiau agresyv\u016bs, bet nepritariu tokiai sav\u0119s versijai. Ir \u0161is nepritarimas – geriausias man kada nutik\u0119s dalykas. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Neriuosi i\u0161 ,,kailio” bandydama perprasti \u017emogi\u0161k\u0105j\u0105 prigimt\u012f ir kaip j\u0105 pa\u017eaboti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Negaliu susitaikyti su mintimi, kad jau greitai kiekvienas s\u0117d\u0117sime savo zonose, savo tobuluose kampeliuose tik su savo teisingiausia pasaulyje nuomone, bet netur\u0117sime su kuo visa tuo dalintis. Prisiminiau karali\u0173, Ma\u017eojo Princo istorijoje. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Toks dvigubas jausmas u\u017elieja \u0161ird\u012f: norisi pykti ant ne\u017einia ko, kod\u0117l leid\u017eia \u017emon\u0117ms taip atitolti vieniems nuo kit\u0173, suorganizuoja tokias situacijas, paki\u0161a koj\u0105, o i\u0161 kitos pus\u0117s jau\u010diu, jog turime patirti visi\u0161k\u0105 atskirt\u012f, visi\u0161k\u0105 abejingum\u0105 vienas kitam, turime pasijausti tokie vieni\u0161i, kad jokie material\u016bs dalykai mums nesuteiks n\u0117 kruopelyt\u0117s laim\u0117s, kaip suteikdavo \u0161iltas pokalbis… neveltui gamtoje viskas turi dvi puses: balta – juoda, \u0161ilta – \u0161alta ir t.t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Da\u017enai mes praveriame ne tik nam\u0173, bet ir \u0161irdies duris kitiems \u017emon\u0117ms ir vis da\u017eniau \u012fsileid\u017eiame j\u0117g\u0105, kuri nemato santyki\u0173 svarbos, nejau\u010dia pagarbos kito \u017emogaus pasaul\u0117\u017ei\u016brai, negeba net \u017ei\u016br\u0117ti vienas kitam \u012f akis ar i\u0161klausyti girdimo sakinio iki galo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
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Ir \u012fdomiausia yra tai, kad n\u0117ra ger\u0173j\u0173 ir blog\u0173j\u0173 veik\u0117j\u0173. Visos pus\u0117s i\u0161 savo pus\u0117s savaip teisios. Bet tai kas tada negerai? Kod\u0117l taip sunku priimti kito pasaul\u012f, palaikyti ir padr\u0105sinti j\u012f? Kokie gal\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti bendri ta\u0161kai? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Prisimenu t\u0105 jausm\u0105, kaip gera ir smagu bendrauti su \u017emogumi, kuriam patinka tie patys dalykai, kaip ir man. Bendravimas toks lengvas, malonus! Ir kaip sunku praverti burna, nusi\u0161ypsoti ir i\u0161girsti t\u0105, kuris pasaul\u012f mato kitaip, vertina kitokius dalykus, nei a\u0161. Bet \u010dia ir slypi visa bendravimo paslaptis – ta\u0161kas auk\u0161\u010diau mano vertinimo, ka\u017ekas vertingiau nei tavo \u017einojimas ar mano. Ie\u0161kodami to ta\u0161ko mes \u017eaid\u017eiame su patinka ir nepatinka; pana\u0161\u016bs ir nepana\u0161\u016bs; svarbus ir nesvarbus. Ie\u0161kodami kas mus jungia, atrandame ir tai, kad mus padaro laimingus. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Akivaizdu, kad geri santykiai tarp \u017emoni\u0173 i\u0161gyvena kriz\u0119. Neveltui auga depresijos lygis, daug\u0117ja savi\u017eudybi\u0173, byra \u0161eimos… Bet tikiu, kad kuriant naujos kokyb\u0117s santykius, galima suteikti vienas kitam gyvybin\u0117s enegijos, vidin\u0117s motyvacijos ir prasm\u0117s gyventi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kiekvienas gyvename savo asmenin\u0117je i\u0161gyvenim\u0173 audroje ir i\u0161plaukti gali pad\u0117ti tik \u0161vyturys, rodantis keli\u0105 \u012f ateit\u012f. M\u016bs\u0173 \u0161eimoje \u0161is \u0161vyturys – ry\u0161ys tarp m\u016bs\u0173. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Taip vis\u0173 lauktas \u0161ventinis periodas leido pajausti kiek visokiausi\u0173 vingrybi\u0173 slypi santykiuose tarp \u017emoni\u0173. Viskas atrodo kaip ir gerai, kol gyveni savo burbule, bet vos tik atsiranda kontaktas su kitokiais negu a\u0161 ,,burbulais” ir … nekontroliuojamai kyla tiek vidiniai, tiek i\u0161oriniai konfliltai. Kai atsiduriu aplinkoje, kurioje nes\u0105moningai kas antras \u017eodis tave \u017eemina, provokuoja ir ie\u0161ko […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":19376,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[43,44],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19377","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moteris-mama-straipsniai","category-vyrai-moterys-santuoka-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/a9633101-2735-40f7-bd13-26cc95c3334c-1.jpg",1366,683,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/a9633101-2735-40f7-bd13-26cc95c3334c-1-800x683.jpg",800,683,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/a9633101-2735-40f7-bd13-26cc95c3334c-1-800x400.jpg",800,400,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/a9633101-2735-40f7-bd13-26cc95c3334c-1-768x384.jpg",768,384,true],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/a9633101-2735-40f7-bd13-26cc95c3334c-1-1024x512.jpg",1024,512,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/a9633101-2735-40f7-bd13-26cc95c3334c-1.jpg",1366,683,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/a9633101-2735-40f7-bd13-26cc95c3334c-1.jpg",1366,683,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Taip vis\u0173 lauktas \u0161ventinis periodas leido pajausti kiek visokiausi\u0173 vingrybi\u0173 slypi santykiuose tarp \u017emoni\u0173. 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