Prad\u0117siu nuo klausimo: ,,Ar prie\u0161 susituokiant, tur\u0117jote ai\u0161k\u0173, abiej\u0173 i\u0161sikelt\u0105 santuokos tiksl\u0105?”. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mes tikrai neb\u016btume tur\u0117j\u0119, jeigu likimas neb\u016bt\u0173 suved\u0119s su \u017emon\u0117mis, kurie u\u017esiima ry\u0161i\u0173 tarp \u017emoni\u0173 mechanika. Tik \u0161i\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173 \u012fkv\u0117pti, padr\u0105sinti ir, dr\u012fs\u010diau sakyti, paprotinti, tarpusavio pokalbi\u0173 metu su vyru formavome savo \u0161eimos vizij\u0105: kokia tur\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti aukl\u0117jimo kryptis, koks tikslas, koki\u0173 patys norime santyki\u0173 po 5, 10 met\u0173 ir pan., kokioms vertyb\u0117ms tarnausime, o kuri\u0173 stengsim\u0117s nemaitinti, ko sieksime, kaip sieksime, kod\u0117l turime i\u0161likti kartu. Visi \u0161ie ir daug daugiau klausim\u0173 yra aptarin\u0117jami kone kasdien, net ir po de\u0161imties met\u0173 santuokos. Viskas kei\u010diasi, tad atsiranda nauj\u0173, dar nepaliest\u0173 \u0161irdies kampeli\u0173 \ud83d\ude42 <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u012edomi ta \u017emogaus nat\u016brali programa: susi\u017eav\u0117jimas, malonumas, bundantys moters instinktai, santuoka, t\u0117vyst\u0117, gyvenimas d\u0117l vaik\u0173 ir po daugyb\u0117s met\u0173 klausimas – o kur mes? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
A\u0161 u\u017e tai, kad dar iki susituokiant partneriai apsibr\u0117\u017et\u0173 kur jie yra ir kur jie nori b\u016bti. Pamenu, kai tik prad\u0117jome dom\u0117tis ta ry\u0161i\u0173 mechanika, pirmoji matyta schema buvo trikampis. Jos kampuose, apa\u010dioje buvo ,,Ji” ir ,,JIS”, o pa\u010diame vir\u0161uje – MES. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tai ir tapo m\u016bs\u0173 santuokos tikslas – i\u0161 dviej\u0173 individ\u0173 tapti vienu dariniu – \u0161eima, pora, siela. Kaip norisi, taip ir galima pavadinti, bet esm\u0117 lieka ta pati. Kai \u017evelgi vienas \u012f kit\u0105 ir supranti, kad santuok\u0105 sugalvojo ne \u017emon\u0117s, o Gamta mus \u012fpareigojo u\u017emegzti ry\u0161\u012f, stiprinti j\u012f, jame auginti vaikus ir rodyti jiems pavyzd\u012f kaip \u017emogus gali ir turi r\u016bpintis kitu \u017emogumi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0160tai kod\u0117l a\u0161 tikiu, kad santuoka turi tur\u0117ti ilgalaik\u012f tiksl\u0105, kilnesn\u012f negu tiesiog malonumas m\u0117gautis vienas kitu. Tiksl\u0105, kuris motyvuot\u0173 partnerius nepalikti vienas kito, kad ir kas nutikt\u0173, nepasiduoti impulsams, maitinti tarpusavio ry\u0161\u012f nusileidimais, apgobti j\u012f galvojimu tik apie jo stiprinim\u0105. Prie\u0161ingu atveju, jeigu remsim\u0117s tik jausmais, kuriuos tam \u017emogui jau\u010diame \u0161iandien, tada kaip gal\u0117sime nusp\u0117ti kaip elgsim\u0117s, kai to jausmo nebebus? <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Prad\u0117siu nuo klausimo: ,,Ar prie\u0161 susituokiant, tur\u0117jote ai\u0161k\u0173, abiej\u0173 i\u0161sikelt\u0105 santuokos tiksl\u0105?”. Mes tikrai neb\u016btume tur\u0117j\u0119, jeigu likimas neb\u016bt\u0173 suved\u0119s su \u017emon\u0117mis, kurie u\u017esiima ry\u0161i\u0173 tarp \u017emoni\u0173 mechanika. 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